I decided to ring 🙈
Spoke to the kindest lady ever, she said it's with a decision maker so call back next week, I said ok how long do you think it will take? then she said...
"oh my goodness, your case has just been updated this second as we speak"
He's been awarded middle rate care, low rate mobility until 2029 😭
She told me all about the other elements I can apply for and things like a cinema carers card etc
I cried down the phone and told her what a super helpful and kind lady she is