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DLA WAIT TIME THREAD 43

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Tracy37x · 15/05/2024 14:41

DLA wait time thread 43

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Matilde08 · 20/05/2024 09:59

Persianpoppy · 20/05/2024 08:53

@Matilde08 will you be ringing today my love? Xx

No, I will not call them, dear. I called them last Thursday and just feel it will be another pointless call and I don't think I will cope with that mentally. 😔 Writing down a complaint at the moment to ready to send out on Thursday in case I'm having the same update they giving me for four weeks since case manager called me. Obviously they don't see it like an emergency.

sadiekt21 · 20/05/2024 10:00

bloom1927 · 20/05/2024 09:58

I thought the same just to be told today it’s not even with a DM after being told last week it was! what’s your scan date? Hope you get some good news today x

My scan date is 30/1. What about you? X

bloom1927 · 20/05/2024 10:00

@sadiekt21 ahh you should hear something hopefully today!🥰
mine is 01/02 xx

Claire11031982 · 20/05/2024 10:18

Scan Date 30/1
Just spoke to a lovely lady who said it went to the DM last Friday so to give 7-10 days before I receive a text 🤞 soon as I get it to give them a call to find out the rate if he's accepted......so pleased to of got a nice call handler.....good luck everyone else

Claire11031982 · 20/05/2024 10:32

LoisDaniellex · 19/05/2024 18:34

Im hoping to hear this week il be 16 weeks Tuesday 🙏🏻🤞🏻

I but the bullet & called...went to DM Friday last week 🤞 absolute bag of nerves x

LoisDaniellex · 20/05/2024 10:43

Claire11031982 · 20/05/2024 10:32

I but the bullet & called...went to DM Friday last week 🤞 absolute bag of nerves x

I don’t know when mine went to one but I’m sure it’s been a week now 🤞🏻 I’m keeping my fingers crossed, I’m the same I’m 16 weeks tomorrow xx

Claire11031982 · 20/05/2024 10:46

LoisDaniellex · 20/05/2024 10:43

I don’t know when mine went to one but I’m sure it’s been a week now 🤞🏻 I’m keeping my fingers crossed, I’m the same I’m 16 weeks tomorrow xx

She told me 7-10 daysx

Clf2024 · 20/05/2024 11:01

Hi guys, i havent been on here for a few weeks since we received our award but now ive had some time to process this i dont think its right.

My son was award mrc and is fully tube fed awaiting peg surgery, SGDD, suspected Cerebral Palsy, suspected Autism and has physio throughout the day...
Given we are tube feeding until past 11pm and were up in the night with his reflux would this not be hrc?

Does anyone know if its better to phone to lodge an MR or just write to them with all the extra evidence?

Thanks 💞

Fee89 · 20/05/2024 11:07

Clf2024 · 20/05/2024 11:01

Hi guys, i havent been on here for a few weeks since we received our award but now ive had some time to process this i dont think its right.

My son was award mrc and is fully tube fed awaiting peg surgery, SGDD, suspected Cerebral Palsy, suspected Autism and has physio throughout the day...
Given we are tube feeding until past 11pm and were up in the night with his reflux would this not be hrc?

Does anyone know if its better to phone to lodge an MR or just write to them with all the extra evidence?

Thanks 💞

Phone and ask for MR to get the ball rolling and then send letter and maybe a brief diary of the night care provided xx

Clf2024 · 20/05/2024 11:09

Fee89 · 20/05/2024 11:07

Phone and ask for MR to get the ball rolling and then send letter and maybe a brief diary of the night care provided xx

thank you! lo is having a nap soon so ill be on it 🏃 x

Mummyto5beautys · 20/05/2024 11:17

Namechange303333311 · 19/05/2024 20:21

I’ve had my first UC statement since DLA award today. They’ve added the carers element on for this month but not backdated it or added the disabled child element. Does anyone know how it usually works?

You need to ask them if the disabled child element of verified and ask them to backdate it to your award date

Lauzyparkzy · 20/05/2024 11:29

Parking. I lost the thread good look everyone.

Aussielover · 20/05/2024 11:29

@Kell85 hi, well done on the award, what disabilities does your child have? I'm asking as I'm trying to achieve HRM also so I'm looking for others in the same boat as me

sadiekt21 · 20/05/2024 11:38

So.. Ive just called and spoken to the most helpful man!! He had seen that I had called twice last week aswell so he messaged the case manager that had my claim. They messaged back to say funnily enough I have just opened that claim and a decision should be made today, if not the end of the week! He messaged them back and asked if they would send a text to me, to which they said they would. So now it is just a wait for the text and fingers crossed we are awarded!!! Cannot believe it x

hlong85 · 20/05/2024 11:44

Scan date 19/3

I rang this morning for an update. I was made a priority one last week. She checked for me but it’s still in a pile waiting to be assigned to a decision maker. She said it will be up to 15 weeks. I am currently 9 weeks today. Just have to carry on waiting. 🤞🏼

Kell85 · 20/05/2024 11:48

Aussielover · 20/05/2024 11:29

@Kell85 hi, well done on the award, what disabilities does your child have? I'm asking as I'm trying to achieve HRM also so I'm looking for others in the same boat as me

My son is ASD and ADHD but I think he got high mobility because he is registered nearly blind. So he is partially sighted at the moment by will be blind by time he reaches his teenage years xx I think it’s very hard to get high mobility though. He is more of a danger because he can’t see traffic or cars or kerbs of a road xx

sadiekt21 · 20/05/2024 11:53

sadiekt21 · 20/05/2024 11:38

So.. Ive just called and spoken to the most helpful man!! He had seen that I had called twice last week aswell so he messaged the case manager that had my claim. They messaged back to say funnily enough I have just opened that claim and a decision should be made today, if not the end of the week! He messaged them back and asked if they would send a text to me, to which they said they would. So now it is just a wait for the text and fingers crossed we are awarded!!! Cannot believe it x

So 15 minutes after my last call and post.. have had a text to say my child qualifies!! Currently on the phone to find out rates etc! So happy!!

Shazzle88 · 20/05/2024 11:54

Congratulations hun xx

Shazzle88 · 20/05/2024 11:55

Kell85 · 20/05/2024 11:48

My son is ASD and ADHD but I think he got high mobility because he is registered nearly blind. So he is partially sighted at the moment by will be blind by time he reaches his teenage years xx I think it’s very hard to get high mobility though. He is more of a danger because he can’t see traffic or cars or kerbs of a road xx

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Hiya hun what evidence did you send im really worried I haven't sent enough xx

Kita86 · 20/05/2024 12:07

Congratulations 🎉

Zoes3d1 · 20/05/2024 12:07

Feeling very privalidge this morning haha had my first text message saying we are still looking at claim 😂 not had any this whole time just the 2 letters our scan date 6/2 maybe this means it is getting close now ekkk..

Zoes3d1 · 20/05/2024 12:13

3boysand2girls · 20/05/2024 09:36

Honestly ladies I could piss glitter. Rang this morning to check if birth certificate was scanned on they recieved it Friday morning. Recieved the txt ur child qualifies whilst waiting so stayed on hold fir rates. My little girl has been awarded hrc until 2026. Thankyou to everyone in this group for being so supportive. I know I don't comment much but u have kept me sane. I hope everyone of you who is still waiting gets what your little ones deserve. scan date 31/1

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So happy for you great news 🎉❤️ xx

Nams2828 · 20/05/2024 12:13

Just got the dreaded we are still looking at your child dla claim the wait ridiculous its been a real bad week with my daughter shes broken her bed again 🤦‍♀️ shreded her clothes put holes in my walls broken light fixtues and not forgetting only sleeping 2-3 hours max a night mentally draining 😫

bloom1927 · 20/05/2024 12:14

sadiekt21 · 20/05/2024 11:53

So 15 minutes after my last call and post.. have had a text to say my child qualifies!! Currently on the phone to find out rates etc! So happy!!

Congratulations!! Xxx

Summerrp · 20/05/2024 12:24

Just called, still no news and not been picked up she said I might get a text when they 'pick it up' fed up now 😞 6.2

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