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DLA WAIT TIME THREAD 38

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TheHeadOfTheHouse · 06/04/2024 07:11

Scan date 15/12.

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MrsRawl · 11/04/2024 20:51

Nickij2024 · 11/04/2024 11:54

I was so chilled out when I posted my forms. I told myself it’ll be 20 weeks and I just won’t think about it until June.
Here I am though only 10 and a half weeks in obsessively checking this thread and Facebook to see the scan dates of people being awarded 😂.

What I have noticed on Facebook though is that lots of people claims are for young children (under 5) and the ones being declined are for really young children too. I’m not sure if this is because young children still need so much care anyway and therefore it’s harder to explain what they need on top of that?
My DD is nearly 9 so I’m hoping because of her ages it’s more evident that the care she needs is not normal for a ‘normal’ child of her age. This is what I’m telling myself anyway 😂. This process is too much for my overthinking brain to deal with 🙈

Sorry but this made me laugh.
this is exactly me 😂 I did the forms, hated doing them. And I thought right off it’s gone, tell myself 20 week wait and don’t think about it and just pray I see a pending payment in my bank around June/July time 😂
scan date 9/2 and here I am reading this forum every day and over thinking every single bit of the form and wondering if I explained my sons needs and behaviour enough, bloody ridiculous isn’t it 😂

Nickij2024 · 11/04/2024 21:04

@MrsRawl its so bad it’s actually funny 😂. It’s become an obsession at this point haha.

Like a few people have said though, it’s more the not knowing than anything.

Ive been doing the exact same thing as you though. Completely overthinking everything I put on the form and whether my additional 4500 words was enough 😂. My husband thinks I’m bonkers which isn’t completely untrue haha x

MissHavershamReturns · 11/04/2024 22:07

I re read my applications multiple times in the 16 and a half weeks we waited. Kept convincing myself we hadn’t done or sent enough, but we did awarded in the end

Kirstygingee · 11/04/2024 23:04

How often are people calling up when it's with a DM, called 2 days ago and they said to wait up to 2 weeks because it hadnt been looked at yet, but I'm impatient lol!

TiredTilly · 12/04/2024 00:10

Emmajm85 · 11/04/2024 18:46

I only did the application online on Monday, I had a text too, but it still wasn’t showing in my online account when I was checking the progress. So I called today to double check it and she said she couldn’t see it 😅 so she did the application over the phone with me there and then. One hurdle crossed thank god 😄 xx

Oh my so you had to do the application 3 times 😅. I’ll give them a call tues/weds hopefully it’s on the system.
such an exhausting process 😮‍💨

Anxiouslywaitingmum · 12/04/2024 06:34

Kirstygingee · 11/04/2024 23:04

How often are people calling up when it's with a DM, called 2 days ago and they said to wait up to 2 weeks because it hadnt been looked at yet, but I'm impatient lol!

I found out Wednesday it was with a DM, I'm calling Monday for a update.
I've purposely made myself busy all day today so I can't ring x

xxMumofthreexx · 12/04/2024 06:35

Kirstygingee · 11/04/2024 23:04

How often are people calling up when it's with a DM, called 2 days ago and they said to wait up to 2 weeks because it hadnt been looked at yet, but I'm impatient lol!

I called every other day the week before my little one was awarded 🤦🏻‍♀️🤣 as they said it wouldn't be long and that it was going to a decision maker in the next couple of days. Hers went to a decision maker the Thursday before Easter weekend and she was awarded the Tuesday after Bank Holiday but I know some can be with the decision maker a couple of weeks+

ineedteanownotlater · 12/04/2024 07:32

OMG! I have woken up to a payment this morning. I have no idea what it relates to. Can someone give me the number to call so I can find out?
I am so relieved but also a little cross with myself for not applying sooner. My son is 14 so will only be eligible for 18 months until he is 16 and we have struggled since birth.

Leopardprintleelan · 12/04/2024 07:40

ineedteanownotlater · 12/04/2024 07:32

OMG! I have woken up to a payment this morning. I have no idea what it relates to. Can someone give me the number to call so I can find out?
I am so relieved but also a little cross with myself for not applying sooner. My son is 14 so will only be eligible for 18 months until he is 16 and we have struggled since birth.

Wow congratulations! The phone number I use is...08001214600 what was your scan date out of interest please?

ineedteanownotlater · 12/04/2024 07:43

Thanks for the number. Sorry should've said, scan date was 03/01.
Blimey. Haven't stopped crying since I woke up at 6. I woke up, saw a notification to say a payment had gone into the bank so checked what it was. Did not expect it as I know from this thread they are still looking at some November dates!

Chickapea77 · 12/04/2024 07:43

ineedteanownotlater · 12/04/2024 07:32

OMG! I have woken up to a payment this morning. I have no idea what it relates to. Can someone give me the number to call so I can find out?
I am so relieved but also a little cross with myself for not applying sooner. My son is 14 so will only be eligible for 18 months until he is 16 and we have struggled since birth.

Congratulations! Better late than never.

Summerrp · 12/04/2024 07:49

ineedteanownotlater · 12/04/2024 07:43

Thanks for the number. Sorry should've said, scan date was 03/01.
Blimey. Haven't stopped crying since I woke up at 6. I woke up, saw a notification to say a payment had gone into the bank so checked what it was. Did not expect it as I know from this thread they are still looking at some November dates!

I'm around 4 weeks behind you and really hope and pray to wake up to this moment every day, the wait is getting so hard especially after having to leave work. Congratulations for getting what your child deserves. Really keeps me going hearing positive outcomes.

Emmajm85 · 12/04/2024 07:56

TiredTilly · 12/04/2024 00:10

Oh my so you had to do the application 3 times 😅. I’ll give them a call tues/weds hopefully it’s on the system.
such an exhausting process 😮‍💨

Yes, 3rd time lucky 😄 it just wasn’t going to plan for me. I hope yours is on the system by early next week 🤞xx

Summerrp · 12/04/2024 08:02

Can I ask what the ref number says if national insurance number is missing? I saw something about it starting with different letters is a sign they don't yet have NI number? Just wanted check out latest letter

Emmajm85 · 12/04/2024 08:06

Summerrp · 12/04/2024 08:02

Can I ask what the ref number says if national insurance number is missing? I saw something about it starting with different letters is a sign they don't yet have NI number? Just wanted check out latest letter

If you don’t claim child benefit, DLA will use a clerical reference instead, it’s normally CL. Mine is CL1-(lots of numbers).
we are at 21 weeks today still waiting for a NI number. But got child benefit approved yesterday so I’m praying that will speed things up 🤞🙏 xx

Summerrp · 12/04/2024 08:12

Emmajm85 · 12/04/2024 08:06

If you don’t claim child benefit, DLA will use a clerical reference instead, it’s normally CL. Mine is CL1-(lots of numbers).
we are at 21 weeks today still waiting for a NI number. But got child benefit approved yesterday so I’m praying that will speed things up 🤞🙏 xx

Ahh I see, thank you

Fingers crossed for a decision very soon for you. 21 long weeks x

Fee89 · 12/04/2024 08:30

@ineedteanownotlater So pleased you have been awarded. Another victory 💝 xx

Fee89 · 12/04/2024 08:32

ineedteanownotlater · 12/04/2024 07:32

OMG! I have woken up to a payment this morning. I have no idea what it relates to. Can someone give me the number to call so I can find out?
I am so relieved but also a little cross with myself for not applying sooner. My son is 14 so will only be eligible for 18 months until he is 16 and we have struggled since birth.

If you take the payment amount, count the weeks from date you called for forms or scan date if you didnt call......÷ payment by that many weeks you should be able to work out amount. Hope that makes sense xx

Emmajm85 · 12/04/2024 08:33

Summerrp · 12/04/2024 08:12

Ahh I see, thank you

Fingers crossed for a decision very soon for you. 21 long weeks x

Thank you -me too 😂
I hope yours isn’t a clerical case too so you get a decision quicker 💕 xx

Novacandy · 12/04/2024 08:35

ineedteanownotlater · 12/04/2024 07:32

OMG! I have woken up to a payment this morning. I have no idea what it relates to. Can someone give me the number to call so I can find out?
I am so relieved but also a little cross with myself for not applying sooner. My son is 14 so will only be eligible for 18 months until he is 16 and we have struggled since birth.

Congratulations on your award. I feel exactly the same as you, my son is nearly 12 and has struggled for years but it just becomes normality doesn’t it. I didn’t think he’d be eligible but he got MRC and LRM and he could have had this since diagnosis (7 years old) or potentially even before. Kicking myself now but better later than never like someone else said and it’s going to help him so much now.

Jadexxx92 · 12/04/2024 08:50

Congratulations on new awards 👏.. Good luck to those who are ringing today, I don't know If I can be bothered? I feel like I'm only going to be told its still with DM xx

Alex900 · 12/04/2024 08:53

My scab dates 8/1 I have rang most days dya think it’s worth ringing again 🙈

Jadexxx92 · 12/04/2024 08:57

Alex900 · 12/04/2024 08:53

My scab dates 8/1 I have rang most days dya think it’s worth ringing again 🙈

Anything can happen in a short space of time. I was chasing up MR last week. I rang in the morning wasn't with a DM rang the next morning decision had been made

Alex900 · 12/04/2024 08:58

That’s it then I’ll ring again they will be sick of me 😂

SAM2409 · 12/04/2024 09:01

Alex900 · 12/04/2024 08:58

That’s it then I’ll ring again they will be sick of me 😂

Lol! Mines the 12/01 I was thinking to call again too for progress. Let us know how you get on! Fingers crossed 🤞