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Dla wait times part 36

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Emma2345 · 19/03/2024 10:00

New thread as the other one is getting full !

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MimiRae · 22/03/2024 16:09

KatexCR · 22/03/2024 16:02

But surely someone knows your child? What if it was an emergency for say child services? They would have to wouldn't they? That's so unfair x

I completely agree! I just can’t believe the time it’s finally with a decision maker is the time she’s gone home for 2 weeks 🌚 what are the bloody odds! Jesus I’ve got to laugh! I feel so anxious now though I can’t lie! Im on hold to them now and I’m not really sure why 😆 I was going to see if they could email her instead for proof? I just feel we’re so close with it 😩 he did ask why I filled the forms in in August but didn’t send them until November which I replied because I’m just up the wall with the children and their needs 🌚 so hoping he asked that for backdating purposes? Wishful thinking maybe 😆xx

TiredTilly · 22/03/2024 16:09

KerBear12 · 22/03/2024 15:49

@TiredTilly update for you too

had a call back from a manager who was a bit off, he stated my case went to DM 05/03 and they’ve been waiting for an NI number so it can go back for indexing to process it, they don’t request NI numbers unless they’re awarding money.
He has escalated it to make sure they apply for her NI number today but it’s now likely it won’t be back until Monday then it’ll be escalated so it can be indexed that we should have a decision/payment by next Wednesday. We’d get the money prior to the letter which is pretty standard.
He mentioned I’d threatened to write to my MP - I said I wouldn’t be quite so frustrated about it all had we have been told the facts rather then different people keep fobbing me off with no real updates!
The system stinks and I will complain as nothing will change if no one says anything x

Thank you for that. I’ll be calling Monday for them to escalate my case again.
I guess it’s a little relief knowing that there will be some sort of award right ?
I’ll be putting in a complaint too once I’ve received the decision x

KerBear12 · 22/03/2024 16:26

TiredTilly · 22/03/2024 16:09

Thank you for that. I’ll be calling Monday for them to escalate my case again.
I guess it’s a little relief knowing that there will be some sort of award right ?
I’ll be putting in a complaint too once I’ve received the decision x

It is but it shouldn’t be this stressful, let’s face it anyone applying for this benefit is already under more pressure and stress so why add to it. Whole system needs to be more transparent and digitalised x

MLW92 · 22/03/2024 16:43

On hold again, I dunno why tbh lol was told start of the week with a DM, 12/12 scan date ( seen people with later dates awarded & I know I'm still before the 16 week wait but we will see 😂 ) but I have sent a diagnosis so shouldn't really be with one for very long if you go off your own common sense as they shouldn't have to contact anyone, but there's no logic, and each call handler tells you something different, il update though if get through before they close to give you all a laugh at what joke they tell me next 😅

MimiRae · 22/03/2024 16:44

MLW92 · 22/03/2024 16:43

On hold again, I dunno why tbh lol was told start of the week with a DM, 12/12 scan date ( seen people with later dates awarded & I know I'm still before the 16 week wait but we will see 😂 ) but I have sent a diagnosis so shouldn't really be with one for very long if you go off your own common sense as they shouldn't have to contact anyone, but there's no logic, and each call handler tells you something different, il update though if get through before they close to give you all a laugh at what joke they tell me next 😅

Bless you! They have us demented!! I’ve been on hold 1 hour 7 minutes so far and they shut in 16 🤡😆

Leopardprintleelan · 22/03/2024 16:45

KerBear12 · 22/03/2024 16:26

It is but it shouldn’t be this stressful, let’s face it anyone applying for this benefit is already under more pressure and stress so why add to it. Whole system needs to be more transparent and digitalised x

Exactly this!!! And I think most people by the time they get an award, they don't have any fight left to complain, they're just relieved its over!

katiewil · 22/03/2024 16:45

I've just phoned again
15/12
Its been with decision maker for 2 weeks and he said I should have a decision by next Friday

I will phone next Friday and be told the same thing no doubt Grin

greenose · 22/03/2024 16:49

Only just seen this thread, I applied for my daughter the end of October, I'm
Still waiting on a decision. Has anyone else waited this long ?

MimiRae · 22/03/2024 16:56

on hold for an hour and 20 minutes and 4 minutes until they close 🙃 they cannot leave me hanging without the decision over the weekend 😩😆 I feel like a lunatic

MimiRae · 22/03/2024 16:57

It’s too much 🙃

Dla wait times part 36
TiredTilly · 22/03/2024 16:59

MimiRae · 22/03/2024 16:57

It’s too much 🙃

I think it cuts off at 5.30. You can still get though to someone by 5.30

TiredTilly · 22/03/2024 17:00

KerBear12 · 22/03/2024 16:26

It is but it shouldn’t be this stressful, let’s face it anyone applying for this benefit is already under more pressure and stress so why add to it. Whole system needs to be more transparent and digitalised x

Absolutely. Digitised makes much more sense x

MimiRae · 22/03/2024 17:01

TiredTilly · 22/03/2024 16:59

I think it cuts off at 5.30. You can still get though to someone by 5.30

Oh really??? I hope so! Thank you! There’s been a couple of times just in the middle of the day I’ve been on hold for an hour and it just cuts off - the pain 😱😆

MLW92 · 22/03/2024 17:05

They'll block my number by time a decision has been made 😂

MimiRae · 22/03/2024 17:07

MLW92 · 22/03/2024 17:05

They'll block my number by time a decision has been made 😂

😆😆😆😆😆

MimiRae · 22/03/2024 17:12

MLW92 · 22/03/2024 17:05

They'll block my number by time a decision has been made 😂

Are you still on hold too?

Carrotstick123 · 22/03/2024 17:16

MimiRae · 22/03/2024 17:12

Are you still on hold too?

I was on hold for an hour and 37 minutes earlier. Fingers crossed you get through

MimiRae · 22/03/2024 17:17

Carrotstick123 · 22/03/2024 17:16

I was on hold for an hour and 37 minutes earlier. Fingers crossed you get through

Ah wow I’m on 1hour40 now never waited this long 🤡

MLW92 · 22/03/2024 17:22

MimiRae · 22/03/2024 17:12

Are you still on hold too?

i was but I hung up, the music was going through me 😂

MimiRae · 22/03/2024 17:24

MLW92 · 22/03/2024 17:22

i was but I hung up, the music was going through me 😂

I don’t blame you!

MimiRae · 22/03/2024 17:26

Got through to a vile older woman who said they’ve written to the school for confirmation and need reply by 5th April so I explained we’re now on Easter holidays so she won’t get it until the 8th April so she said we’ll all she can do is write that on the system and hope for the best so back to waiting for weeks 😣 so draining this is!

KerBear12 · 22/03/2024 17:29

greenose · 22/03/2024 16:49

Only just seen this thread, I applied for my daughter the end of October, I'm
Still waiting on a decision. Has anyone else waited this long ?

I am 30/10 and still waiting to hear they’ve made a decision been told it’ll be next week 🙄🫠

Mothertothreeboys · 22/03/2024 17:31

Had this from UC do they back date from when child was awarded?

The change you have reported has been verified and you will see the additional amount on your next statement.

TiredTilly · 22/03/2024 17:49

MimiRae · 22/03/2024 17:26

Got through to a vile older woman who said they’ve written to the school for confirmation and need reply by 5th April so I explained we’re now on Easter holidays so she won’t get it until the 8th April so she said we’ll all she can do is write that on the system and hope for the best so back to waiting for weeks 😣 so draining this is!

oh so sorry 🙁. Hopefully the dm will wave it away and just award him 🙏

MimiRae · 22/03/2024 17:54

TiredTilly · 22/03/2024 17:49

oh so sorry 🙁. Hopefully the dm will wave it away and just award him 🙏

I hope so! It’s such a wait for us all isn’t it! I got off the phone and burst out crying but I’m 6 months pregnant and my older daughter who’s 12 is currently having an autistic meltdown and screaming at me and I just feel burnt out with it all. Why is it so hard to get some support - life is tough enough as a SEN mum 😮‍💨❤️

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