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Dla wait times part 36

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Emma2345 · 19/03/2024 10:00

New thread as the other one is getting full !

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TiredTilly · 22/03/2024 18:19

MimiRae · 22/03/2024 17:54

I hope so! It’s such a wait for us all isn’t it! I got off the phone and burst out crying but I’m 6 months pregnant and my older daughter who’s 12 is currently having an autistic meltdown and screaming at me and I just feel burnt out with it all. Why is it so hard to get some support - life is tough enough as a SEN mum 😮‍💨❤️

Oh you poor thing 🙁💔
its like they don’t have much compassion, if their child had special needs they would know how it feels.
ill be writing up everything in my complaint!
sending you flowers hun💐

MimiRae · 22/03/2024 19:12

TiredTilly · 22/03/2024 18:19

Oh you poor thing 🙁💔
its like they don’t have much compassion, if their child had special needs they would know how it feels.
ill be writing up everything in my complaint!
sending you flowers hun💐

Thank you lovely ❤️ that’s really kind of you! We’ll all get there I’m sure it’s just a process and a draining one at that but I fought for 11 years to get my daughter diagnosed and finally high rate of both so I know we just have to keep going! Wishing you so much luck ❤️

Thejackrussellsrule · 22/03/2024 19:31

Mothertothreeboys · 22/03/2024 17:31

Had this from UC do they back date from when child was awarded?

The change you have reported has been verified and you will see the additional amount on your next statement.

Pop a note in your journal and ask for it to be backdated. The case manager will refer it to the DM for late reporting of a change, but it'll be allowed as you couldn't have reported sooner. Same goes for the caring element, if you've applied for that.

Mothertothreeboys · 22/03/2024 19:43

Thejackrussellsrule · 22/03/2024 19:31

Pop a note in your journal and ask for it to be backdated. The case manager will refer it to the DM for late reporting of a change, but it'll be allowed as you couldn't have reported sooner. Same goes for the caring element, if you've applied for that.

@Thejackrussellsrule i asked what additional amount this would be and would it be back dated I got this reply…

The disabled child element for DLA HRC is currently £456.89.

I have referred your backdating request from 03/11/23 for a decision.

You will be notified on your journal once the decision is completed.

Thejackrussellsrule · 22/03/2024 19:57

They've referred it to a Decision Maker, it'll be allowed, just hang in there!

Have you applied for caring element?

Lodol · 22/03/2024 20:04

Hi everyone
i sent extra evidence to freepost dla
does anyone know if this address works/is the right one?

KatexCR · 22/03/2024 23:41

MimiRae · 22/03/2024 16:09

I completely agree! I just can’t believe the time it’s finally with a decision maker is the time she’s gone home for 2 weeks 🌚 what are the bloody odds! Jesus I’ve got to laugh! I feel so anxious now though I can’t lie! Im on hold to them now and I’m not really sure why 😆 I was going to see if they could email her instead for proof? I just feel we’re so close with it 😩 he did ask why I filled the forms in in August but didn’t send them until November which I replied because I’m just up the wall with the children and their needs 🌚 so hoping he asked that for backdating purposes? Wishful thinking maybe 😆xx

Oh god I've only just seen this reply, I've been up the wall with the kids.
I saw your message that you got through etc, and your pregnancy. Oh love 😟☹️ Big hugs!! Its so hard isnt it? I feel your pain and frustration. Ive had it all night off my daughter, shes driving me demented at the minute. Cant wait for the calm again tbh.. btw congrats on the pregnancy 😍 do you know what you're having? I've got a bouncy little 5 month old girl, she's just the cutest, and her older sister adores her, it's great! Pregnancy was awful with my hormones though 🤦‍♀️ x

katiewil · 23/03/2024 07:05

Lodol · 22/03/2024 20:04

Hi everyone
i sent extra evidence to freepost dla
does anyone know if this address works/is the right one?

Yeah that's the right one Smile

KatexCR · 23/03/2024 13:19

Bit quiet on here today 😬. Hope all OK with everyone. Thought we mightve heard some news from some posters today ☹️ x

xxMumofthreexx · 23/03/2024 13:28

KatexCR · 23/03/2024 13:19

Bit quiet on here today 😬. Hope all OK with everyone. Thought we mightve heard some news from some posters today ☹️ x

I was thinking this, hoping lots got surprise messages today with good outcomes x

KatexCR · 23/03/2024 13:30

xxMumofthreexx · 23/03/2024 13:28

I was thinking this, hoping lots got surprise messages today with good outcomes x

Ooh I hope so 🙏🤞 x

xxMumofthreexx · 23/03/2024 13:32

KatexCR · 23/03/2024 13:30

Ooh I hope so 🙏🤞 x

What's your scan date? I can't keep up with everyone's 🤦🏻‍♀️ x

Summerrp · 23/03/2024 13:52

Can I please confirm extra evidence address is

DLA Child
Post Handling Site B
Wolverhampton
WV99 1BY

Thank you

KatexCR · 23/03/2024 13:58

xxMumofthreexx · 23/03/2024 13:32

What's your scan date? I can't keep up with everyone's 🤦🏻‍♀️ x

Haha I'm the same, I feel like I must ask the same poster about 20 times what their scan date is because there is that many on here.
4/12. What's yours?
I might have to write a list lmao x

KatexCR · 23/03/2024 14:02

Summerrp · 23/03/2024 13:52

Can I please confirm extra evidence address is

DLA Child
Post Handling Site B
Wolverhampton
WV99 1BY

Thank you

I'm honestly not sure as never sent anything extra in and I'm not home to check my letters, but I just found this on gov.uk

Dla wait times part 36
Summerrp · 23/03/2024 14:06

KatexCR · 23/03/2024 14:02

I'm honestly not sure as never sent anything extra in and I'm not home to check my letters, but I just found this on gov.uk

Thank you so much

xxMumofthreexx · 23/03/2024 14:15

KatexCR · 23/03/2024 13:58

Haha I'm the same, I feel like I must ask the same poster about 20 times what their scan date is because there is that many on here.
4/12. What's yours?
I might have to write a list lmao x

Glad I'm not the only 1 🤣 mines the 8/12 x

Taffylass72 · 23/03/2024 14:31

Still here scan date 23/11 - sent of more evidence today now my DD has her diagnoses! Fingers crossed we will hear soon 👌🙏

KatexCR · 23/03/2024 15:25

xxMumofthreexx · 23/03/2024 14:15

Glad I'm not the only 1 🤣 mines the 8/12 x

🤣🤣 have you rang this week? I got told its with a cm yesterday but didn't ask when it went over to them x

KatexCR · 23/03/2024 15:28

Taffylass72 · 23/03/2024 14:31

Still here scan date 23/11 - sent of more evidence today now my DD has her diagnoses! Fingers crossed we will hear soon 👌🙏

Fab! Good luck 🤞 x

xxMumofthreexx · 23/03/2024 16:19

KatexCR · 23/03/2024 15:25

🤣🤣 have you rang this week? I got told its with a cm yesterday but didn't ask when it went over to them x

I've phoned 3 times this week 🤣 been told end of this month, beginning of next month and not with anyone for a decision 🤦🏻‍♀️ I'm not holding out any hope of hearing anything yet though but I will call again Monday to see what the latest story is on it 🤣 are you phoning next week? x

Alfsnan84 · 23/03/2024 16:23

Summerrp · 23/03/2024 13:52

Can I please confirm extra evidence address is

DLA Child
Post Handling Site B
Wolverhampton
WV99 1BY

Thank you

That's where I sent mine to and all.was received and scanned in fine x

MimiRae · 23/03/2024 16:56

KatexCR · 22/03/2024 23:41

Oh god I've only just seen this reply, I've been up the wall with the kids.
I saw your message that you got through etc, and your pregnancy. Oh love 😟☹️ Big hugs!! Its so hard isnt it? I feel your pain and frustration. Ive had it all night off my daughter, shes driving me demented at the minute. Cant wait for the calm again tbh.. btw congrats on the pregnancy 😍 do you know what you're having? I've got a bouncy little 5 month old girl, she's just the cutest, and her older sister adores her, it's great! Pregnancy was awful with my hormones though 🤦‍♀️ x

Ah thank you love and it’s hard isn’t it! Some days are just survival days 100% but we get through them ❤️ yesss im 25 weeks and another little boy! 🥰💙 so my daughter is 12, son 6 and then this little pud! Awwww love that bless her ❤️ oh I’m a fucking lunatic at the moment 😆 I’m really trying to breathe through it and I’m into my meditating and breathwork anyway but I am an emotional mess and yesterday just tipped me over the edge! I just don’t think the SEN teacher will get the evidence in in time but we cross that bridge when we come to it hey and I do feel grateful the dm is trying to get us awarded instead of just declining it 🫶🏼 yours HAS to be any day now too!! Xxx

KatexCR · 23/03/2024 17:13

xxMumofthreexx · 23/03/2024 16:19

I've phoned 3 times this week 🤣 been told end of this month, beginning of next month and not with anyone for a decision 🤦🏻‍♀️ I'm not holding out any hope of hearing anything yet though but I will call again Monday to see what the latest story is on it 🤣 are you phoning next week? x

🤣🤣 the amount of stories is untrue. I take what they say with a pinch of salt but the lady I had yesterday offered loads of information without me even asking. She said it's gone to a cm and that it can take up to 2 weeks for them to look at it as they get given a pile to work through. But it's normally 7 to 10 days and the payment is authorised that day. She said if I've not heard anything or money hasn't dropped in account in 7 to 10 days then call back for them to escalate it. She sounded in the know, unlike a lot of them. So I'm taking that as a positive haha!
If I've not heard by Wednesday I'm going to call before the long weekend starts....and then I'll probably be fuming in time for Easter 🤣🤣.
I reckon yours will go next week then if mine went this week. X

KatexCR · 23/03/2024 17:22

MimiRae · 23/03/2024 16:56

Ah thank you love and it’s hard isn’t it! Some days are just survival days 100% but we get through them ❤️ yesss im 25 weeks and another little boy! 🥰💙 so my daughter is 12, son 6 and then this little pud! Awwww love that bless her ❤️ oh I’m a fucking lunatic at the moment 😆 I’m really trying to breathe through it and I’m into my meditating and breathwork anyway but I am an emotional mess and yesterday just tipped me over the edge! I just don’t think the SEN teacher will get the evidence in in time but we cross that bridge when we come to it hey and I do feel grateful the dm is trying to get us awarded instead of just declining it 🫶🏼 yours HAS to be any day now too!! Xxx

God yeah, totally! I sometimes get to bed andxwonder how the hell I just got through that day 🤣. I work (on mat leave still) but I think I'm going to have to give it up and be a SAHM, my job requires a lot from me and I can't do it from home so I feel guilty that I am not there for her as much as she needs me. Its made me so depressed 😔. I'm relishing in my mat leave and the thought of goong back is making me so anxious that it's all going to cause mayhem.
Aww a little boy 😍. We have 2 girls at home but I have 2 older boys from my previous marriage, but they're a lot older now and flown the nest. They still need their mama though 😍.
A lunatic 🤣🤣 that was me, I wanted to explode at everyone when I was pregnant. I'm a nightmare when I'm pregnant...apparently 🤦‍♀️🤣.
Oh it's just ridiculous timing isn't it? Surely they have to take into consideration that its half term and they're asking for info when she isn't available to do so. I'd ring again and ask them to put that in as mitigating circumstances x

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