I've just phoned for an update (I couldn't resist) only holding for about 18 minutes..
So they put me through to a case manager (again) and he said that they were up to the 9th February (I'm sure that's the date they gave me the other day).
I told them that my boy's situation is getting more complex day by day and he's got lots of referrals in etc - he said the only thing he could do is to escalate it and say it was affecting the situation and someone above him would make the decision if it could be looked at quicker
So we've gone for that approach
Let's see if anything materialises
I know everyone is in the same boat when it comes to MR but from filling the forms in, in October - so much more has happened in terms of paying for a private consultant, multiple referalls at nursery, referalls for SaLT, Eyes, hearing, Ed Psych, EHC needs assessment - compared to now (than in October) his needs are so much more (he's 44 months and 2 professionals have him in the ADD, as well as suspected FASD, and Neontal abstience syndome (caused by birth mum taking large amounts of hard drugs during pregnancy (he's adopted)