Can I ask.... what evidence do you get, or are you supposed to have to prove the following:
Your child doesn't stay in bed, and you have to be up multiple times through the night to attend to them?
Your child needs prompting to go to the toilet, and when they are on the toilet, they will stay there day dreaming until you get them off the loo and sort them out?
Constantly prompting your child to wash, clean teeth, brush hair, dress, have showers etc this is a constant thing all day every day.
I mean these are all things at home which to me are everyday things but I've been told this is not normal for an 11yr old. They're are many other factors not just this listed and I have evidence of certain things and also child been refferd for a ADHD/ASD diagnosis.
Other than photos/videos which they don't accept what evidence are you supposed to have of this to prove to DLA your child does all these things and all the extra care needed day and night.
Anyone who can help me as I don't know what to do.... seems like the DM just doesn't belive any of this (maybe because we don't yet have diagnosis).
despite school /sendco supporting and believing this and referring said child plus have evidence from them.