I hope everyone is holding out well in the waiting,
I'm feeling less anxious this weekend, I've still got roughly 4 to 6 weeks waiting time going by this thread and it was taking up far too much headroom so I've chilled (for now).
This thread has been really useful, reading peoples opinions and experiences makes you feel less alone in the process and you're not the only one going through it all.
@LilacPoppy Thank you for sharing, it is good to know they have split children's and adults.
All we had first time round was a couple of reports from school and a letter to say he was on the waiting list for an assessment and they didn't contact anyone, this time round we have a lot more, I even included exclusion letters from school, so it will be interesting to see if there is any changes in the process and award.
@AReallyUsefulEngine Professionals tried to tell me not to bother applying without a diagnosis, fortunately I was told by someone else it was needs based so I did go for it and he was awarded.
As for HRM, I can think of a handful of autistic children who have been awarded HRM without physical difficulties. My lad was awarded LRM first time round with very little evidence, just by what I said on the form. Even though he has no physical difficulties, other than refusing to walk or sensory overload from noises on the roads causing him to just shut down but he is a huge danger to himself and others and this is something that has got 100% worse over the last year and as he gets bigger and bolder it will probably continue to, it will change everything if he did get awarded HRM (I think knowing this adds to the pain of waiting) but if we don't get it then we don't get it it's one of those things.