To be fair, I went in and his teacher was fine with me about it. She said she wanted to speak face to face as she doesn't see me usually, so thought it was best to invite me in.
She said she had to phone the girls parents because of said incident. She didn't mention girls name I asked ds when in the car and he told me straight away.
So he's gone to the sensory room today to stop anymore incidents as he seemed overwhelmed etc etc.
She said they don't want to part him from the other children too much but too many near him or too much time spent with them and ds can't cope basically but they can't find the right balance with it at the minute.
She also mentioned xmas open and said so much going on, non uniform day almost every week / Xmas decs up / concert rehearsals / long school term.
Tbh that probably doesn't help, but I doubt it's the reason, we've had the hitting for years now. Just wish it would stop.
Today's incident was completely unprovoked, as are most. No rhyme no reason, that's what's so hard to work out. There are no triggers what so ever.
That's what they struggle with.