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Cup and the Teaset face 2012- and this year, Beatrice means business!

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cupofteaplease · 06/01/2012 17:02

Hi. Chances are if you've opened this thread, you may have followed us from here I thought the new year needed a new thread (also the old one was nearly full!)

The basics: Beatrice has central arthrogryposis and extensive cortical dysplasia. She is 16 weeks old and weighs 8lb 1oz. She is on continuous oxygen at 0.2 litres. She is fed Infatrini with Duocal mixed in via NG tube. She is undergoing ponsetti treatment for her talipes, she also has splints for her hands and is now in a pavlik harness full time for her shallow hip sockets. She is coping very well with all of her treatments. Smile Her community children's nurse describes her as 'defying all the odds'.

The positives: If you have a 4 month old NT baby, the following will probably seem pretty poor progress, but for Beatrice who was stiff and non responsive at bith, she has made great gains. Smile Bea seems very alert in this last week and is becoming more vocal too! She happily shouts at me when something isn't going her way- a vast improvement as she couldn't even cry when born. She moves her arms in all directions now and manages to lift her legs, even with the cast and harness. When she is under her play gym with lights, she moves her arms and legs in appreciation. She also mouths when she is hungry. Her breathing pattern seems much more regular since being on oxygen. She not only recognises my voice and turns to find me, but she can also distinguish other people talking and will move her head in different directions to find who is talking. We assume her eyesight is very poor, although we know she can see shadows and bright lights when it is dark. She adores the cinema and has been twice now!

The downers: Her weight gain is painfully slow- on average 2oz per week. She has fallen off the growth charts completely. She is still sick a couple of times a day. She is having a barium meal and swallow study on Monday to see if there is anything going on. Her sats are irregular and heartrate is very high, so weaning her off oxygen (which she started when she had pneumonia before Christmas) hasn't started yet.

Support: Beatrice was finally awarded DLA at the highest rate today, and we have been told to apply for a blue badge as parking in tight spaces with her oxygen is somewhat problematic Hmm. Next week, our lovely physiotherapist who has been administering the weekly plaster casts is going to start coming to our house to do some massage and play and encourage her arm movements even more. The referral to Helen House Hospice is still being processed. After Bea's casts have come off permanently (just 2 more to go!!) I plan on taking her swimming at the hydrotherapy pool in the special school where my SIL works as a SLT.

At the end of January we have a review with our 'lovely' paediatric consultant, Dr Scrooge. We havent managed to shake her off yet!

Thanks for following us here- I'll add some more pictures in a minute. Smile

OP posts:
AitchTwoOhOneTwo · 10/02/2012 21:17

she really is amazing, isn't she?

5inthebed · 10/02/2012 21:30

My heart melts every time I see her photos, and the new ones are just scrummy. How cute is her little face!

Enjoy your Wine and your weekend.

Four4me · 10/02/2012 21:34

Get Bea, the social butterfly. Have a lovely weekend. X

mycatsaysach · 10/02/2012 22:05

aaaaaaaaaah how sweet xx

MessNessPess · 10/02/2012 22:42

Ahhh sweet, hope her little friend is doing well and can keep up with her ;)

Have a good weekend.

Northernlurker · 10/02/2012 23:04

Great to read things have gone well this week. Another cyber godmother here Smile

strictlycomedancingdiva · 10/02/2012 23:06

Glad you've had a good week, enjoy the weekend Smile x

ExitPursuedByaBear · 10/02/2012 23:39

Great to hearyou are both getting out and about, and that normaility reigns -sleeping baby and Wine

LittlePebble · 11/02/2012 05:25

Have a good weekend tea set x

DawnClench · 11/02/2012 11:34

Have a lovely weekend, Cup and family.

neverputasockinatoaster · 11/02/2012 12:23

Wishing a lovely weekend to the Teaset and Bea.

Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.

xxxxx

OhDoAdmitMrsDeVere · 11/02/2012 22:06

Lost your thead Sad
Found it again Smile

Love to you and Bea and the rest of the set x

CheshireDing · 12/02/2012 02:26

As always Baby Bea is in my thoughts.

Here's hoping you and Bea had whipped cream AND marshmallows of your hot chocolate :)

Hoping today is a good day for the teaset.

cupofteaplease · 12/02/2012 15:02

Grin Grin Grin

She smiled at me!!!!!!! I think I'm in Heaven!

Grin Grin Grin

OP posts:
MessNessPess · 12/02/2012 15:05

FANTASTIC NEWS Cup

Thanks Thanks Thanks WELL DONE BEA Thanks Thanks Thanks

Spoutlet · 12/02/2012 15:06

That's amazing, cup Grin, you must be over the moon! Ah, this has made my day Grin.

OneHandWavingFree · 12/02/2012 15:07

That is the most wonderful post I've ever read :)

Well done, Bea!

JugglingWithTangentialOranges · 12/02/2012 15:21

Ahhh, what a special day Thanks Smile

FuzzzyDuck · 12/02/2012 15:23
Smile
ChippingInLovesEasterEggs · 12/02/2012 15:23

OMG - GO BEA!!!!! [GRIN]

She is such a little star !!

Splinters · 12/02/2012 15:25

Oh Cup, how lovely!

Fogie · 12/02/2012 15:27

That is so wonderful Grin

I hope you manage to catch it on film - remembering many photos where the first few smiles were missed in our household!

4madboys · 12/02/2012 15:38

WOOHOOO WAY TO GO BEA!!! Grin best post ever!!! Grin

you will now take approximately half a million pics trying to capture the smile, only for her to smile 0.2 of a second after you take the picture each time!

pepperrabbit · 12/02/2012 15:45

Fantastic Smile

MamaMaiasaura · 12/02/2012 15:50

GrinGrinGrinGrin yay Bea GrinGrinGrinGrin

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