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Cup and the Teaset face 2012- and this year, Beatrice means business!

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cupofteaplease · 06/01/2012 17:02

Hi. Chances are if you've opened this thread, you may have followed us from here I thought the new year needed a new thread (also the old one was nearly full!)

The basics: Beatrice has central arthrogryposis and extensive cortical dysplasia. She is 16 weeks old and weighs 8lb 1oz. She is on continuous oxygen at 0.2 litres. She is fed Infatrini with Duocal mixed in via NG tube. She is undergoing ponsetti treatment for her talipes, she also has splints for her hands and is now in a pavlik harness full time for her shallow hip sockets. She is coping very well with all of her treatments. Smile Her community children's nurse describes her as 'defying all the odds'.

The positives: If you have a 4 month old NT baby, the following will probably seem pretty poor progress, but for Beatrice who was stiff and non responsive at bith, she has made great gains. Smile Bea seems very alert in this last week and is becoming more vocal too! She happily shouts at me when something isn't going her way- a vast improvement as she couldn't even cry when born. She moves her arms in all directions now and manages to lift her legs, even with the cast and harness. When she is under her play gym with lights, she moves her arms and legs in appreciation. She also mouths when she is hungry. Her breathing pattern seems much more regular since being on oxygen. She not only recognises my voice and turns to find me, but she can also distinguish other people talking and will move her head in different directions to find who is talking. We assume her eyesight is very poor, although we know she can see shadows and bright lights when it is dark. She adores the cinema and has been twice now!

The downers: Her weight gain is painfully slow- on average 2oz per week. She has fallen off the growth charts completely. She is still sick a couple of times a day. She is having a barium meal and swallow study on Monday to see if there is anything going on. Her sats are irregular and heartrate is very high, so weaning her off oxygen (which she started when she had pneumonia before Christmas) hasn't started yet.

Support: Beatrice was finally awarded DLA at the highest rate today, and we have been told to apply for a blue badge as parking in tight spaces with her oxygen is somewhat problematic Hmm. Next week, our lovely physiotherapist who has been administering the weekly plaster casts is going to start coming to our house to do some massage and play and encourage her arm movements even more. The referral to Helen House Hospice is still being processed. After Bea's casts have come off permanently (just 2 more to go!!) I plan on taking her swimming at the hydrotherapy pool in the special school where my SIL works as a SLT.

At the end of January we have a review with our 'lovely' paediatric consultant, Dr Scrooge. We havent managed to shake her off yet!

Thanks for following us here- I'll add some more pictures in a minute. Smile

OP posts:
mycatsaysach · 05/02/2012 21:19

awwwwwwwwwwww sooooooooo cute xxxxx

i remember having a nurse take some quick photos of dd without her tubes when she was newborn - very precious xx

cupofteaplease · 05/02/2012 21:19

Sorry to hear that Four4me, I hope your household gets better soon!

Thanks for the lovely comments. I'm biased but I think she's pretty damn cute. Wink

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GleamingHeels · 05/02/2012 21:19

update tomorrow or whenever, thanks for the lovely photos, all love and hope to you all

EllenJaneisnotmyname · 05/02/2012 21:20

Lovely to see the updated photos. Still thinking of you all. Xx

ChippingInLovesEasterEggs · 05/02/2012 21:21

Lovely photos :) She's sooo scrummy!

DottyDot · 05/02/2012 21:22

Awww! She's just gorgeous - getting so much bigger! Thanks for posting - looking forward to the update! Smile

CestTout · 05/02/2012 21:30

What a lovely picture of you both with Bea! Hope you have had as good a weekend as possible.

bigbluebus · 05/02/2012 21:40

Love the new photos. Looking forward to the update - hope all is well.

MessNessPess · 05/02/2012 21:55

Beautiful Bea, so sweet.

uptomyeyes · 05/02/2012 22:15

Awww scrumptious, those cheeks are for blowing raspberries on xx

Thumbwitch · 05/02/2012 22:18

she is indeed very cute, no bias required!
Are you back at home now then? Hope Bea goes from strength to strength and the docs all get their act together to try and help her now. :)
xx

QED · 05/02/2012 22:34

Lovely pictures :)

KateUnrulyBush · 05/02/2012 22:35

Looking good Bea (and Mr & Mrs Cup of course!) :)

ExitPursuedByaBear · 05/02/2012 22:41

Loving the new photos Cup. Wishing continued strength to all the Teaset.

Four4me · 05/02/2012 23:03

Bless you cup they'll be fine soon I hope. Ironically ds1 has had the immunity of an Ox whilst the others have dropped like flies. He even came and stood next to his vomiting 2 year old sister and said 'whatz for me tea Mama?' completely unphased by all the chaos of flying bodily fluids..... Boak boak boak.

Looking forward to an update. X

moajab · 05/02/2012 23:31

Lovely photo! Love those chubby cheeks! Bea is getting so big and even more beautiful (if that's possible!)

PenguinArmy · 05/02/2012 23:35

cup she is stunning, love that picture of the three of you

JenniferLaunders · 05/02/2012 23:55

Aww, Bea looks so relaxed and happy - enjoy all those snuggles with her. There are lots of MN "Aunties" who I'm sure would love a little cuddle with the gorgeous Bea.

Solo · 06/02/2012 00:05

Beatrice looks great! :)

scummymummy · 06/02/2012 01:28

Love the new pictures. She looks like such a little character.

DutchOma · 06/02/2012 06:27

She is just so lovely.

MamaMaiasaura · 06/02/2012 07:15

The photos are great, the one with mummy and daddy teacup is so lovely. The sisters one is definately one for the photo frame, beautiful girls. And the close up of Beatrix with no tubes is stunning. She is a very beautiful baby girl. Smile

saffronwblue · 06/02/2012 07:20

Gorgeous photos. Love the one of Bea with Mum and Dad. She is something special with tubes or without.

BB3 · 06/02/2012 07:21

Oh cup, she is actually eat-me-up adorable! The picture of you, bea and dh is just brilliant - I second how well you look! And doesn't bea look so proud of herself in the one of her alone. 'look at me mummy all tube free like a big girl' she just looks so happy and well! Grin what a brilliant way to start a dreary Monday morning. It's so hard to believe looking at that picture of her that she was at the point she was last week - she is indeed Inspirationally strong.

Jennifer - could you imagine all her Internet aunties tipping up for cuddles? I don't think bea would ever be put down Grin

weblette · 06/02/2012 07:54

Lovely pics! What a beautiful family x

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