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Cup and the Teaset face 2012- and this year, Beatrice means business!

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cupofteaplease · 06/01/2012 17:02

Hi. Chances are if you've opened this thread, you may have followed us from here I thought the new year needed a new thread (also the old one was nearly full!)

The basics: Beatrice has central arthrogryposis and extensive cortical dysplasia. She is 16 weeks old and weighs 8lb 1oz. She is on continuous oxygen at 0.2 litres. She is fed Infatrini with Duocal mixed in via NG tube. She is undergoing ponsetti treatment for her talipes, she also has splints for her hands and is now in a pavlik harness full time for her shallow hip sockets. She is coping very well with all of her treatments. Smile Her community children's nurse describes her as 'defying all the odds'.

The positives: If you have a 4 month old NT baby, the following will probably seem pretty poor progress, but for Beatrice who was stiff and non responsive at bith, she has made great gains. Smile Bea seems very alert in this last week and is becoming more vocal too! She happily shouts at me when something isn't going her way- a vast improvement as she couldn't even cry when born. She moves her arms in all directions now and manages to lift her legs, even with the cast and harness. When she is under her play gym with lights, she moves her arms and legs in appreciation. She also mouths when she is hungry. Her breathing pattern seems much more regular since being on oxygen. She not only recognises my voice and turns to find me, but she can also distinguish other people talking and will move her head in different directions to find who is talking. We assume her eyesight is very poor, although we know she can see shadows and bright lights when it is dark. She adores the cinema and has been twice now!

The downers: Her weight gain is painfully slow- on average 2oz per week. She has fallen off the growth charts completely. She is still sick a couple of times a day. She is having a barium meal and swallow study on Monday to see if there is anything going on. Her sats are irregular and heartrate is very high, so weaning her off oxygen (which she started when she had pneumonia before Christmas) hasn't started yet.

Support: Beatrice was finally awarded DLA at the highest rate today, and we have been told to apply for a blue badge as parking in tight spaces with her oxygen is somewhat problematic Hmm. Next week, our lovely physiotherapist who has been administering the weekly plaster casts is going to start coming to our house to do some massage and play and encourage her arm movements even more. The referral to Helen House Hospice is still being processed. After Bea's casts have come off permanently (just 2 more to go!!) I plan on taking her swimming at the hydrotherapy pool in the special school where my SIL works as a SLT.

At the end of January we have a review with our 'lovely' paediatric consultant, Dr Scrooge. We havent managed to shake her off yet!

Thanks for following us here- I'll add some more pictures in a minute. Smile

OP posts:
fuzzypeach1750 · 04/02/2012 19:51

Hoping that everyone is settled, comfy and relaxed. still thinking of you all and praying. big hugs xx

MessNessPess · 04/02/2012 23:46

Thinking of you all.

eaglewings · 05/02/2012 08:57

Praying that you now have all the RL help and support you, Bea and your family need and deserve. You are amazing

CestTout · 05/02/2012 09:24

Keeping you all in my thoughts.

JenniferLaunders · 05/02/2012 10:25

Thinking of you - are your girls enjoying the snow where you are?

Kiss for the beautiful Bea x.

MamaMaiasaura · 05/02/2012 10:29

Just popping on again to see how you are all doing. Dh asked how little Bea is doing. Sending love and hope you are are settled at hospice x

pannetone · 05/02/2012 14:29

I lit a candle especially for Bea at church this morning. Thinking of you all. x

fhdl34 · 05/02/2012 16:13

Hey cup - hoping that the hospice stay is going well and that Bea is okay, thinking of you all x

pepperrabbit · 05/02/2012 16:17

Just checking in to see how you are doing. x

GleamingHeels · 05/02/2012 16:18

Thinking of you all

outofbodyexperience · 05/02/2012 16:22

Hoping the silence means you are settled and safe, and prioritizing family time x
Sending calm blue skies x

MessNessPess · 05/02/2012 16:43

Afternoon, have hopes all is going well and your all enjoying family time.

fairimum · 05/02/2012 17:59

hope all ok xx

GleamingHeels · 05/02/2012 19:04

Cup, it's not my place to say really, but if you're having a difficult time, (for whatever reason (with Bea, you feeling fragile, as a family or just no phone), please don't feel pressured to post - just know that we're posting to say hi and let you know we're all here.

I do hope you're not having a difficult time, but just in case...

CotherMuckingFunt · 05/02/2012 19:35

Thinking of you all and praying.x

DottyDot · 05/02/2012 19:44

Hope this weekend's been kind to you and all the teaset. Thinking of you all xxx

mumslife · 05/02/2012 19:55

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cupofteaplease · 05/02/2012 21:06

I will update tomorrow, but for now, I have added a couple of pictures of Beatrice without any tubes! (They are back in now, but I thought I'd take the chance to take a picture while I could! Grin)

OP posts:
catisfat · 05/02/2012 21:08

She is absolutely gorgeous.

TCOB · 05/02/2012 21:08

Well, I was just about to get all glum about the end of the weekend but a little peek at Beatrice hasn't half cheered me up! Lovely lovely lovely thank you so much Smile.

AitchTwoOhOneTwo · 05/02/2012 21:10

there is just something about that girl's face that gladdens the heart... Grin

Whatevertheweather · 05/02/2012 21:11

Oh Cup she is simply scrummy. She looks so content and happy. Hope all is going well in the hospice x

lisad123 · 05/02/2012 21:11

stunning pics as always, loving the proud mummy and daddy photo

Four4me · 05/02/2012 21:12

My god she is soooo cute, cheered me up too. We have the chickenpox and d&v......fun day at my house. Bea has made me smile. Xxx

SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 05/02/2012 21:17

Such a beautiful little girl.
And can I say, Cup, that you are miles younger looking than you come across as being, in your posts, IYSWIM. in a nice way, you sound very old and wise and mature, you look like a slip of a girl! Smile

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