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Cup and the Teaset face 2012- and this year, Beatrice means business!

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cupofteaplease · 06/01/2012 17:02

Hi. Chances are if you've opened this thread, you may have followed us from here I thought the new year needed a new thread (also the old one was nearly full!)

The basics: Beatrice has central arthrogryposis and extensive cortical dysplasia. She is 16 weeks old and weighs 8lb 1oz. She is on continuous oxygen at 0.2 litres. She is fed Infatrini with Duocal mixed in via NG tube. She is undergoing ponsetti treatment for her talipes, she also has splints for her hands and is now in a pavlik harness full time for her shallow hip sockets. She is coping very well with all of her treatments. Smile Her community children's nurse describes her as 'defying all the odds'.

The positives: If you have a 4 month old NT baby, the following will probably seem pretty poor progress, but for Beatrice who was stiff and non responsive at bith, she has made great gains. Smile Bea seems very alert in this last week and is becoming more vocal too! She happily shouts at me when something isn't going her way- a vast improvement as she couldn't even cry when born. She moves her arms in all directions now and manages to lift her legs, even with the cast and harness. When she is under her play gym with lights, she moves her arms and legs in appreciation. She also mouths when she is hungry. Her breathing pattern seems much more regular since being on oxygen. She not only recognises my voice and turns to find me, but she can also distinguish other people talking and will move her head in different directions to find who is talking. We assume her eyesight is very poor, although we know she can see shadows and bright lights when it is dark. She adores the cinema and has been twice now!

The downers: Her weight gain is painfully slow- on average 2oz per week. She has fallen off the growth charts completely. She is still sick a couple of times a day. She is having a barium meal and swallow study on Monday to see if there is anything going on. Her sats are irregular and heartrate is very high, so weaning her off oxygen (which she started when she had pneumonia before Christmas) hasn't started yet.

Support: Beatrice was finally awarded DLA at the highest rate today, and we have been told to apply for a blue badge as parking in tight spaces with her oxygen is somewhat problematic Hmm. Next week, our lovely physiotherapist who has been administering the weekly plaster casts is going to start coming to our house to do some massage and play and encourage her arm movements even more. The referral to Helen House Hospice is still being processed. After Bea's casts have come off permanently (just 2 more to go!!) I plan on taking her swimming at the hydrotherapy pool in the special school where my SIL works as a SLT.

At the end of January we have a review with our 'lovely' paediatric consultant, Dr Scrooge. We havent managed to shake her off yet!

Thanks for following us here- I'll add some more pictures in a minute. Smile

OP posts:
MessNessPess · 03/02/2012 12:17

Hope your all settled and Bea is doing well.

neverputasockinatoaster · 03/02/2012 12:25

Oh Cup! I have just had a roller coaster catch up as I missed the thread.

I am crying tears of pride and relief. I don't know you at all but I'm damned proud of you and Bea and your family. You have such astounding strength and dignity and I hold you all in my thoughts and prayers.

Would you mind if I ask for prayers at church this week?

Hope the transfer goes well.

Best wishes,

cupofteaplease · 03/02/2012 12:42

In the ambulance on our way!

Please feel free to add Beatrice to any prayer lists, with any religion or denomination, all prayers are good prayers!

Thanks for the continued support x

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mycatsaysach · 03/02/2012 13:08

thinking of you all and sending best wishes xx

Thumbwitch · 03/02/2012 13:12

Hope you have an uneventful journey and a short and good stay in the hospice, and are home again with Bea before too long, cup.

You are always in my thoughts and prayers - hope they do some good! xx

SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 03/02/2012 13:13

Good luck and strength to all of you. {{Bea and Tea}}

moajab · 03/02/2012 13:19

I don't often post but I check on here every few days to find out how Bea is. I've just read your account of the last few days sitting on the edge of my seat, fearing I was about to read the worst. So happy to hear how Bea has improved - she is amazing! Hope you have a calmer time at the hospice Cup and that you get the chance to rest and enjoy some lovely quality time with all your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you all!

Becaroooo · 03/02/2012 13:36

Sending lots of love to you all x

RatherBeOnThePiste · 03/02/2012 13:41

Hopefully you have arrived safely by now.
Sending you love and strength, and lots of it X

fhdl34 · 03/02/2012 14:44

Just caught up on the events over the last week, what a rollercoaster to read nevermind go through.
Relieved is not the word that Bea has pulled through, what an amazing little girl xxx

MessNessPess · 03/02/2012 17:02

Hope the journey was uneventful are your settled in.

KateUnrulyBush · 03/02/2012 19:24

Hi Cup, hope you're there and getting settled. Big kiss for Bea x

jardy · 03/02/2012 19:31

Been following the thread,she is such a beautiful little girl and what a great family.Thinking of you x

festiemum · 03/02/2012 19:46

Not posted before, but been following your story from the beginning. You are in my thoughts and I have had serious chats with the wind and the trees and nature about your lovely Bea (not religious; but live in the middle of nature and know it has power). Much love to you and your family from me and mine xxx

youarekidding · 03/02/2012 21:11

Wishing you all a peaceful and relaxing stay at the hospice.

Lilithmoon · 03/02/2012 21:53

Thinking of you all x

lisad123 · 03/02/2012 22:12

Lots of prayers here for little Bea and your wonderful family. Hopefully your have some peaceful lovely ti e with Bea x

coff33pot · 03/02/2012 22:36

Hope you had a safe arrival and you are enjoying a peaceful time with Bea. Thoughts are with you all xxxx

Northernlurker · 03/02/2012 22:56

JUst checking in on Bea and I see it's been a miraculous week. Cup - I'm sorry I missed your posts on Tuesday and Wednesday but Bea is in my heart all week long and I'm praying for a miracle. Nothing is impossible with God.

Verse for you 'I have told you all this so that you may have peace in me. Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows. But take heart, because I have overcome the world.' John 16 Vs 33

I think 'peace' is probably a bit much to hope for right now. I certainly don't feel peaceful but 'take heart' - yes that I can do and I hope and pray you can too.

MamaMaiasaura · 03/02/2012 23:03

Thinking of you all xx

OrangeChicken · 04/02/2012 01:39

I hope you are all settling nicely into the hospice, and also that Bea will get to see her neurologist soon and you will get some more answers, or at least clues...
She is such an adorable monkey snuggled under that lovely blanket ... her eyes are so expressive - oh and especially in the pictures where she is transfixed by the lights in the sensory room ... lovely pictures, Cup! I do love the one of all the sisters together too - the older two look so proud and although you can't see Bea's face on that pic I can feel her look of adoration back (in the way that little sisters adore their big sisters!!!)
Praying for another positive update soon and sending you all hugs no matter what in the meantime...

BB3 · 04/02/2012 08:27

Another one just checking you're all settled in x

GleamingHeels · 04/02/2012 16:16

Just checking in too

Carrotcakeisace · 04/02/2012 16:18

Hope all the girls are enjoying being together and you and dh are being looked after well. Still in my prayers x

LittlePebble · 04/02/2012 19:26

Another one checking in to see if you've settled into the hospice ok x

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