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Cup and the Teaset face 2012- and this year, Beatrice means business!

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cupofteaplease · 06/01/2012 17:02

Hi. Chances are if you've opened this thread, you may have followed us from here I thought the new year needed a new thread (also the old one was nearly full!)

The basics: Beatrice has central arthrogryposis and extensive cortical dysplasia. She is 16 weeks old and weighs 8lb 1oz. She is on continuous oxygen at 0.2 litres. She is fed Infatrini with Duocal mixed in via NG tube. She is undergoing ponsetti treatment for her talipes, she also has splints for her hands and is now in a pavlik harness full time for her shallow hip sockets. She is coping very well with all of her treatments. Smile Her community children's nurse describes her as 'defying all the odds'.

The positives: If you have a 4 month old NT baby, the following will probably seem pretty poor progress, but for Beatrice who was stiff and non responsive at bith, she has made great gains. Smile Bea seems very alert in this last week and is becoming more vocal too! She happily shouts at me when something isn't going her way- a vast improvement as she couldn't even cry when born. She moves her arms in all directions now and manages to lift her legs, even with the cast and harness. When she is under her play gym with lights, she moves her arms and legs in appreciation. She also mouths when she is hungry. Her breathing pattern seems much more regular since being on oxygen. She not only recognises my voice and turns to find me, but she can also distinguish other people talking and will move her head in different directions to find who is talking. We assume her eyesight is very poor, although we know she can see shadows and bright lights when it is dark. She adores the cinema and has been twice now!

The downers: Her weight gain is painfully slow- on average 2oz per week. She has fallen off the growth charts completely. She is still sick a couple of times a day. She is having a barium meal and swallow study on Monday to see if there is anything going on. Her sats are irregular and heartrate is very high, so weaning her off oxygen (which she started when she had pneumonia before Christmas) hasn't started yet.

Support: Beatrice was finally awarded DLA at the highest rate today, and we have been told to apply for a blue badge as parking in tight spaces with her oxygen is somewhat problematic Hmm. Next week, our lovely physiotherapist who has been administering the weekly plaster casts is going to start coming to our house to do some massage and play and encourage her arm movements even more. The referral to Helen House Hospice is still being processed. After Bea's casts have come off permanently (just 2 more to go!!) I plan on taking her swimming at the hydrotherapy pool in the special school where my SIL works as a SLT.

At the end of January we have a review with our 'lovely' paediatric consultant, Dr Scrooge. We havent managed to shake her off yet!

Thanks for following us here- I'll add some more pictures in a minute. Smile

OP posts:
OhDoAdmitMrsDeVere · 01/02/2012 21:05

Thank God.
Good girl Bea x

OrangeChicken · 01/02/2012 21:11

Oh this is wonderful news - God listened and this is a miracle ... Bea you little star! Will keep praying as ever for continued progress. Much love to you all. Try and get some rest as you need that ...

weblette · 01/02/2012 21:14

Cup from what you've written I now really hope that the medics get fully on side with you and Bea.

She's fighting on so so hard, she deserves the skill they have to give, even if they've been reticent in showing it so far. I really hope Dr Death now has realised the strength of the amazing little girl she is privileged to look after.

MysteriousHamster · 01/02/2012 21:58

So so glad she has pulled through, thinking of you all. Go Bea!

QED · 01/02/2012 22:08

Lovely news :)

You are all still in my thoughts and will stay there for a long time

Thumbwitch · 01/02/2012 22:09

Very pleased to hear the further updates, Cup! Keep it up Bea, you little star! xx

CointreauVersial · 01/02/2012 22:25

OMG, what a roller-coaster for you all. She must be a strong little girl.

eaglewings · 01/02/2012 22:30

Prayers for a good night and peace for you all

AtYourCervix · 01/02/2012 22:39

strength and peace xx

ArborFields · 01/02/2012 22:50

Wonderful news! Bea is such a strong and brave little girl, just like her mum. Wishing you all a peaceful night.

BrigitBigKnickers · 01/02/2012 22:55

Now keeping everything double crossed. What an amazing little fighter! Hope you get some much needed sleep. X

strictlycomedancingdiva · 01/02/2012 23:11

I've been out for the evening, and just catching up from teatime. The candle has been burning for Bea here, keep it up little one! Be thinking of you all tonight xx

Solo · 01/02/2012 23:12

Bless her little heart! :)

butterfliesinmytummy · 02/02/2012 00:12

It's morning here in Asia, just catching up and sending extra thoughts and prayers to cover while most of the UK sleeps x

FriggFRIGG · 02/02/2012 00:42

What fantastic news.Smile

AitchTwoOhOneTwo · 02/02/2012 00:44

clever girl...

tadjennyp · 02/02/2012 01:34

Go Bea, you little trooper!

LittlePebble · 02/02/2012 03:34

Yay Bea! Such lovely news xxx

BB3 · 02/02/2012 05:22

Just popping in to say good morning to you and Bea, hope she had a good night and you managed to get some much needed rest cup.

How are Bea's beautiful big sisters? Is dd better now?

Sending lots of love to the teaset xxx

strictlycomedancingdiva · 02/02/2012 07:25

Morning Cup, hope you've had a restful night x

CotherMuckingFunt · 02/02/2012 07:51

I hope you and Bea had a good night. Thinking of you.x

susssiq · 02/02/2012 07:57

Checking in from Sweden Bea is really bringing people round the world together!

SpongebobLynnpants · 02/02/2012 08:24

Read your update with tears of joy.

What a little trooper she is! Love to you all. X

JenniferLaunders · 02/02/2012 08:26

Hoping Bea has a really good day, today.

CMOTDibbler · 02/02/2012 08:39

Wonderful news ! Bea needs a little camo babygro in her role as a fighter - she is a totally amazing little person, and has an amazing family too

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