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Cup and the Teaset face 2012- and this year, Beatrice means business!

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cupofteaplease · 06/01/2012 17:02

Hi. Chances are if you've opened this thread, you may have followed us from here I thought the new year needed a new thread (also the old one was nearly full!)

The basics: Beatrice has central arthrogryposis and extensive cortical dysplasia. She is 16 weeks old and weighs 8lb 1oz. She is on continuous oxygen at 0.2 litres. She is fed Infatrini with Duocal mixed in via NG tube. She is undergoing ponsetti treatment for her talipes, she also has splints for her hands and is now in a pavlik harness full time for her shallow hip sockets. She is coping very well with all of her treatments. Smile Her community children's nurse describes her as 'defying all the odds'.

The positives: If you have a 4 month old NT baby, the following will probably seem pretty poor progress, but for Beatrice who was stiff and non responsive at bith, she has made great gains. Smile Bea seems very alert in this last week and is becoming more vocal too! She happily shouts at me when something isn't going her way- a vast improvement as she couldn't even cry when born. She moves her arms in all directions now and manages to lift her legs, even with the cast and harness. When she is under her play gym with lights, she moves her arms and legs in appreciation. She also mouths when she is hungry. Her breathing pattern seems much more regular since being on oxygen. She not only recognises my voice and turns to find me, but she can also distinguish other people talking and will move her head in different directions to find who is talking. We assume her eyesight is very poor, although we know she can see shadows and bright lights when it is dark. She adores the cinema and has been twice now!

The downers: Her weight gain is painfully slow- on average 2oz per week. She has fallen off the growth charts completely. She is still sick a couple of times a day. She is having a barium meal and swallow study on Monday to see if there is anything going on. Her sats are irregular and heartrate is very high, so weaning her off oxygen (which she started when she had pneumonia before Christmas) hasn't started yet.

Support: Beatrice was finally awarded DLA at the highest rate today, and we have been told to apply for a blue badge as parking in tight spaces with her oxygen is somewhat problematic Hmm. Next week, our lovely physiotherapist who has been administering the weekly plaster casts is going to start coming to our house to do some massage and play and encourage her arm movements even more. The referral to Helen House Hospice is still being processed. After Bea's casts have come off permanently (just 2 more to go!!) I plan on taking her swimming at the hydrotherapy pool in the special school where my SIL works as a SLT.

At the end of January we have a review with our 'lovely' paediatric consultant, Dr Scrooge. We havent managed to shake her off yet!

Thanks for following us here- I'll add some more pictures in a minute. Smile

OP posts:
Fleecy · 01/02/2012 20:16

That's absolutely fantastic - well done gorgeous Bea Grin

golemmings · 01/02/2012 20:16

Wonderful, wonderful news. That wee girl is just amazing. As is the rest of the teaset. So very pleased for all of you.

JugglingWithSnowballs · 01/02/2012 20:16

I'm sure everyone must have been concerned about her breathing Chipping In - perhaps that was why so worried ?

fuzzypeach1750 · 01/02/2012 20:20

Fantastic news. Really really fantastic. The first thing my DH asked this morning was 'how is Bea?' bless you all.

dietstartstmoz · 01/02/2012 20:21

Such wonderful news

saffronwblue · 01/02/2012 20:21

Lovely, lovely news. She is extraordinary. So are you. Love to the whole teaset.

Carrotcakeisace · 01/02/2012 20:23

Such wonderful news, I am, as ever, in awe of your grace and dignity x

MamaMaiasaura · 01/02/2012 20:23

Tears of joy here from me and dh. Bea is such a brave and amazing baby girl. So happy for you all. Been thinking of you all. I hope you get some well deserved rest tonight cup. Xxx

cupofteaplease · 01/02/2012 20:27

ChippingIn There was no pattern to her apneas, and they were lasting longer and longer so it was assumed that her neuro condition was deteriorating rapidly. She was puffy too, so they assumed her body wasn't processing fluid anymore. She was sick and thrashing around in pain. As her mum, I felt it was her time, I couldn't see how she could carry on Sad But, never underestimate a Beatrice on a mission!

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FabCatsMum · 01/02/2012 20:29

No words but

GrinGrinGrin.

Well done Cup!!

BB3 · 01/02/2012 20:29

Oh cup I'm giddy with happiness for you all!

Bea has infiltrated our family also - dh, dsis and dmum have all been asking for regular updates on the beautiful bea! I don't think there has ever been a little girl so loved by so many people that she's never met!

She is an inspiration to us all! As are you.

Well done Beatrice, you're one tough little cookie xxx

4madboys · 01/02/2012 20:31

i am so sorry she has had a rough time but oh so glad she has pulled through, clever girl :) i hope she continues to improve and she is home soon. do they know what is causing her pain?

much love to you all as always xx

BB3 · 01/02/2012 20:32

"never underestimate a Beatrice on a mission!" GrinGrinGrinGrinGrin go Bea xxx

scummymummy · 01/02/2012 20:33

What absolutely wonderful news. I am so pleased. Hope you can get some rest soon- you must be utterly exhausted with the emotional rollercoaster.

dietstartstmoz · 01/02/2012 20:34

I have been checkng this thread all day. Have told DH and we are both so happy for you all.

SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 01/02/2012 20:35

I've been away all day, and I logged on tentatively, only to find this marvellous news! I am SO PLEASED!
GO BEA! You absolute little trooper! Grin Grin Grin

Trumpton · 01/02/2012 20:35

Huge lump in my throat , Go Team Bea. Hope you all get some sleep now. Onwards and Upwards My Friends >

sneezecake · 01/02/2012 20:36

thinking of you both xxx

archfiend · 01/02/2012 20:38

Wonderful, exhilarating, gobsmacking news! Am delighted for you and in awe of Bea's determination. Grin

stressheaderic · 01/02/2012 20:42

Fantastic news in your update - I'm so so pleased for you all.
Go Bea, you little belter x

bishboschone · 01/02/2012 20:45

Wow what an amazing little girl ! Much love to the teaset

BaldricksTurnip · 01/02/2012 20:48

What a beautiful, fragile miracle Bea is. Elated to hear that she is still fighting. We are all thinking of you here. Sending peace and best possible wishes xxx

Haberdashery · 01/02/2012 20:54

Oh my goodness, so very pleased for all of you. What a brilliant, brilliant, fabulous little girl. And an apology from Dr Death! Miracles do happen!

JenniferLaunders · 01/02/2012 20:55

Grin Wow, feeling quite choked here! You got your miracle, how wonderful.

I do hope little Bea is soon out of pain, bless her little heart. You take care of yourself, too.

MessNessPess · 01/02/2012 20:56

Hoping for a restful night and continued improvement with Bea.

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