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Cup and the Teaset face 2012- and this year, Beatrice means business!

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cupofteaplease · 06/01/2012 17:02

Hi. Chances are if you've opened this thread, you may have followed us from here I thought the new year needed a new thread (also the old one was nearly full!)

The basics: Beatrice has central arthrogryposis and extensive cortical dysplasia. She is 16 weeks old and weighs 8lb 1oz. She is on continuous oxygen at 0.2 litres. She is fed Infatrini with Duocal mixed in via NG tube. She is undergoing ponsetti treatment for her talipes, she also has splints for her hands and is now in a pavlik harness full time for her shallow hip sockets. She is coping very well with all of her treatments. Smile Her community children's nurse describes her as 'defying all the odds'.

The positives: If you have a 4 month old NT baby, the following will probably seem pretty poor progress, but for Beatrice who was stiff and non responsive at bith, she has made great gains. Smile Bea seems very alert in this last week and is becoming more vocal too! She happily shouts at me when something isn't going her way- a vast improvement as she couldn't even cry when born. She moves her arms in all directions now and manages to lift her legs, even with the cast and harness. When she is under her play gym with lights, she moves her arms and legs in appreciation. She also mouths when she is hungry. Her breathing pattern seems much more regular since being on oxygen. She not only recognises my voice and turns to find me, but she can also distinguish other people talking and will move her head in different directions to find who is talking. We assume her eyesight is very poor, although we know she can see shadows and bright lights when it is dark. She adores the cinema and has been twice now!

The downers: Her weight gain is painfully slow- on average 2oz per week. She has fallen off the growth charts completely. She is still sick a couple of times a day. She is having a barium meal and swallow study on Monday to see if there is anything going on. Her sats are irregular and heartrate is very high, so weaning her off oxygen (which she started when she had pneumonia before Christmas) hasn't started yet.

Support: Beatrice was finally awarded DLA at the highest rate today, and we have been told to apply for a blue badge as parking in tight spaces with her oxygen is somewhat problematic Hmm. Next week, our lovely physiotherapist who has been administering the weekly plaster casts is going to start coming to our house to do some massage and play and encourage her arm movements even more. The referral to Helen House Hospice is still being processed. After Bea's casts have come off permanently (just 2 more to go!!) I plan on taking her swimming at the hydrotherapy pool in the special school where my SIL works as a SLT.

At the end of January we have a review with our 'lovely' paediatric consultant, Dr Scrooge. We havent managed to shake her off yet!

Thanks for following us here- I'll add some more pictures in a minute. Smile

OP posts:
bigbluebus · 01/02/2012 19:23

That's fantastic news cup. I hope and pray that she continues to go from strength to strength.
Take care of yourself as well as the lovely Bea.

weblette · 01/02/2012 19:24

Oooh what wonderful news! Bea is an absolute miracle girl :) Huge hugs to you and all the Teaset x

beatofthedrum · 01/02/2012 19:24

Oh my god! It really is like a proper miracle. Oh Cup, that is such wonderful and unbelievable news, crying again with happiness for you and your girl. She's got through it! She is incredible! Can't bear thinking what you've been through, am so beyond relieved for you. Hugs to Bea, the most courageous baby ever! Xxxx

letsblowthistacostand · 01/02/2012 19:24

Oh she is so brave! Have been following your story but not posting. Will keep your family in my thoughts.

CaroleService · 01/02/2012 19:27

Last night I prayed to God and said I couldn't decide what I was praying for, so I was placing her in his arms to decide. I guess between Him and Bea, they worked it out...

Laughing and crying here, and always in awe of Cup and Bea. I know where Bea gets her grace under pressure.

annalovesmrbates · 01/02/2012 19:28

Oh my goodness, what wonderful news! That gorgeous girl of yours is a wonder! You must be shattered, hope you manage to get some sleep. Virtual hugs to Bea!

annalovesmrbates · 01/02/2012 19:28

Oh my goodness, what wonderful news! That gorgeous girl of yours is a wonder! You must be shattered, hope you manage to get some sleep. Virtual hugs to Bea!

DottyDot · 01/02/2012 19:32

Best news I've had all day! Absolutely brilliant xxx

Scheherezade · 01/02/2012 19:33

Brilliant, well done Bea, and well done you.
Xxx

EllenJaneisnotmyname · 01/02/2012 19:33

Just caught up with this. Crying with the rollercoaster of emotions. Thinking of you. xx

LetLoveRule · 01/02/2012 19:40

Thinking of you. You are amazing parents with amazing girls. All good wishes.

ohmeohmy · 01/02/2012 19:42

Go Bea. So pleased, wishing you lots of sleep.

Fogie · 01/02/2012 19:48

Thank god. Lovely little Bea x

Whatevertheweather · 01/02/2012 19:49

Oh Cup what an utter utter marvel she is. You all are. The rollercoaster you have been on. Bea the Brave. I could not be more pleased xxx

MessNessPess · 01/02/2012 19:50

Great news Cup, go Bea.

cakeismysaviour · 01/02/2012 19:57

I have been reading and have been thinking of you a lot. My friend is Catholic and can ask the Nuns to put Beatrice into their prayers if thats ok? xx

Keep going Bea, you are doing so well!

CakeJunkie · 01/02/2012 19:58

What brilliant news - so happy for you and your girls

maddiemostmerry · 01/02/2012 19:59

Bea is amazing. Thinking of your whole family.

CotherMuckingFunt · 01/02/2012 19:59

I prayed for exactly that - whatever God felt was best for Bea and strength for you and your family. Floods of tears here. And hugs and love and more prayers to you.x

tooloudhere · 01/02/2012 20:00

Sometimes things are just meant to be, Bea is one of them. X

DutchOma · 01/02/2012 20:02

Praise God!!

KateUnrulyBush · 01/02/2012 20:08

What an extraordinary little girl Bea is, truly awe-inspiring. I see why the Teaset were chosen to have her, you are utterly amazing Cup :)

Thank you for that fantastic update x

JugglingWithSnowballs · 01/02/2012 20:09

Your post, especially about your prayer for Bea is so lovely.
So pleased to hear she's so much better today.
Look after yourself too cup
Much love to you all x

Sidge · 01/02/2012 20:10

Welcome back Bea Smile

Such wonderful news - everything tightly crossed for you all xxx

ChippingInLovesEasterEggs · 01/02/2012 20:11

You got a what from Dr Death? Surely you had a mistype there - you can't really have meant an apology?

Grin

That is such lovely, amazing, wonderful news :) :) :)

Do you have any idea what caused this 'dip' and why they thought it was 'end of life' rather than something which they just needed to nurse her through?

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