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Cup and the Teaset face 2012- and this year, Beatrice means business!

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cupofteaplease · 06/01/2012 17:02

Hi. Chances are if you've opened this thread, you may have followed us from here I thought the new year needed a new thread (also the old one was nearly full!)

The basics: Beatrice has central arthrogryposis and extensive cortical dysplasia. She is 16 weeks old and weighs 8lb 1oz. She is on continuous oxygen at 0.2 litres. She is fed Infatrini with Duocal mixed in via NG tube. She is undergoing ponsetti treatment for her talipes, she also has splints for her hands and is now in a pavlik harness full time for her shallow hip sockets. She is coping very well with all of her treatments. Smile Her community children's nurse describes her as 'defying all the odds'.

The positives: If you have a 4 month old NT baby, the following will probably seem pretty poor progress, but for Beatrice who was stiff and non responsive at bith, she has made great gains. Smile Bea seems very alert in this last week and is becoming more vocal too! She happily shouts at me when something isn't going her way- a vast improvement as she couldn't even cry when born. She moves her arms in all directions now and manages to lift her legs, even with the cast and harness. When she is under her play gym with lights, she moves her arms and legs in appreciation. She also mouths when she is hungry. Her breathing pattern seems much more regular since being on oxygen. She not only recognises my voice and turns to find me, but she can also distinguish other people talking and will move her head in different directions to find who is talking. We assume her eyesight is very poor, although we know she can see shadows and bright lights when it is dark. She adores the cinema and has been twice now!

The downers: Her weight gain is painfully slow- on average 2oz per week. She has fallen off the growth charts completely. She is still sick a couple of times a day. She is having a barium meal and swallow study on Monday to see if there is anything going on. Her sats are irregular and heartrate is very high, so weaning her off oxygen (which she started when she had pneumonia before Christmas) hasn't started yet.

Support: Beatrice was finally awarded DLA at the highest rate today, and we have been told to apply for a blue badge as parking in tight spaces with her oxygen is somewhat problematic Hmm. Next week, our lovely physiotherapist who has been administering the weekly plaster casts is going to start coming to our house to do some massage and play and encourage her arm movements even more. The referral to Helen House Hospice is still being processed. After Bea's casts have come off permanently (just 2 more to go!!) I plan on taking her swimming at the hydrotherapy pool in the special school where my SIL works as a SLT.

At the end of January we have a review with our 'lovely' paediatric consultant, Dr Scrooge. We havent managed to shake her off yet!

Thanks for following us here- I'll add some more pictures in a minute. Smile

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mycatsaysach · 01/02/2012 13:58

well done bea xx

BrigitBigKnickers · 01/02/2012 14:21

What a roller coaster for you Cup-Keeping everything crossed for you and your little Bea- sending you virtual strength.

Whatevertheweather · 01/02/2012 14:33

Still thinking of you all. Beatrice, you beautiful girl, you continue to astound everyone xxxx

MissPenteuth · 01/02/2012 14:37

Such a little fighter, your beautiful girl. Thinking of you all x

butterfliesinmytummy · 01/02/2012 14:51

You are such an incredible family, thinking of you x

fuzzypeach1750 · 01/02/2012 14:53

Thank goodness. Keep fighting Bea, we are with you every step of the way. Huge hugs xxxx

QED · 01/02/2012 15:13

Am still thinking of you all x

BB3 · 01/02/2012 15:23

What an amazing little girl! Go bea xxx

outofbodyexperience · 01/02/2012 15:27

morning from canada - candle burning. thinking of you here, too. x

SoupDragon · 01/02/2012 15:51

She's certainly a stubborn little fighter isn't she? :) Positive thoughts headed your way...
x

bigbluebus · 01/02/2012 15:52

Been thinking of you all day. Just got in and had to check MN immediately. So glad to see Bea's been hanging on in there. Cone on Bea!!!

slightlycrumpled · 01/02/2012 15:58

Cup, I am so sorry to read your latest updates. You & your husband must just be so very, very tired.
Thinking of Bea, what a little fighter. X

pearlgirl · 01/02/2012 16:28

Been thinking of you all today - will continue to pray for you all.

OhDoAdmitMrsDeVere · 01/02/2012 16:28

Good girl Bea x

LittlePebble · 01/02/2012 16:54

Oh Cup thanks for keeping us updated, sending you all so much love - come on Bea! Xx

shazian · 01/02/2012 17:14

Come on Bea keep fighting for your mummy, daddy and big sisters, what a little star you are. Thinking of you and your mummy n daddy all day. Lots of love and hugs xxxx

Rowgtfc72 · 01/02/2012 17:37

Thinking of you all x

Fogie · 01/02/2012 17:39

Thinking of you all xx

ChippingInLovesEasterEggs · 01/02/2012 18:41

Keep fighting Bea - all of your internet Aunties are here with you, sending you lots of love & strength x I had to work today, no internet connection, it's been awful, I just wanted to know how you were doing - you and all of your lovely family, especially your lovely & exhausted Mummy. Thinking of you all the time and sending sooooo much fighting spirit & energy to get well xxx

GleamingHeels · 01/02/2012 19:12

Sending every good vibe I can and thinking of you all

cupofteaplease · 01/02/2012 19:18

I can hardly dare to update... She's perfect, she's doing perfectly. She's on codeine, brufen, paracetamol, but these are managing her pain. She is keeping her feeds down. She is breathing steadily. Her chest is clear. We got an apology from Dr Death. I think I'm in shock. Utter bloody shock. I can hardly breathe myself. She was taking 4 breaths per minute. Now she seems to be back. My heart's in my mouth. God I love her. And thank you God for listening and choosing. Last night I prayed to God and said I couldn't decide what I was praying for, so I was placing her in his arms to decide. I guess between Him and Bea, they worked it out...

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CavemanDave · 01/02/2012 19:20

Oh cup!! Fantastic news xx

youarekidding · 01/02/2012 19:21

Oh cup I'm so pleased she's turned a positive corner. You've all been in my thoughts and prayers today.

Hope your OK too and looking after yourself. x

shazian · 01/02/2012 19:21

Oh that is the best news ever, well done gorgeous Bea. What a little fighter. Big hugs xxxxx

mycatsaysach · 01/02/2012 19:22

yay brilliant xx so pleased - onwards and upwards

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