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Cup and the Teaset face 2012- and this year, Beatrice means business!

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cupofteaplease · 06/01/2012 17:02

Hi. Chances are if you've opened this thread, you may have followed us from here I thought the new year needed a new thread (also the old one was nearly full!)

The basics: Beatrice has central arthrogryposis and extensive cortical dysplasia. She is 16 weeks old and weighs 8lb 1oz. She is on continuous oxygen at 0.2 litres. She is fed Infatrini with Duocal mixed in via NG tube. She is undergoing ponsetti treatment for her talipes, she also has splints for her hands and is now in a pavlik harness full time for her shallow hip sockets. She is coping very well with all of her treatments. Smile Her community children's nurse describes her as 'defying all the odds'.

The positives: If you have a 4 month old NT baby, the following will probably seem pretty poor progress, but for Beatrice who was stiff and non responsive at bith, she has made great gains. Smile Bea seems very alert in this last week and is becoming more vocal too! She happily shouts at me when something isn't going her way- a vast improvement as she couldn't even cry when born. She moves her arms in all directions now and manages to lift her legs, even with the cast and harness. When she is under her play gym with lights, she moves her arms and legs in appreciation. She also mouths when she is hungry. Her breathing pattern seems much more regular since being on oxygen. She not only recognises my voice and turns to find me, but she can also distinguish other people talking and will move her head in different directions to find who is talking. We assume her eyesight is very poor, although we know she can see shadows and bright lights when it is dark. She adores the cinema and has been twice now!

The downers: Her weight gain is painfully slow- on average 2oz per week. She has fallen off the growth charts completely. She is still sick a couple of times a day. She is having a barium meal and swallow study on Monday to see if there is anything going on. Her sats are irregular and heartrate is very high, so weaning her off oxygen (which she started when she had pneumonia before Christmas) hasn't started yet.

Support: Beatrice was finally awarded DLA at the highest rate today, and we have been told to apply for a blue badge as parking in tight spaces with her oxygen is somewhat problematic Hmm. Next week, our lovely physiotherapist who has been administering the weekly plaster casts is going to start coming to our house to do some massage and play and encourage her arm movements even more. The referral to Helen House Hospice is still being processed. After Bea's casts have come off permanently (just 2 more to go!!) I plan on taking her swimming at the hydrotherapy pool in the special school where my SIL works as a SLT.

At the end of January we have a review with our 'lovely' paediatric consultant, Dr Scrooge. We havent managed to shake her off yet!

Thanks for following us here- I'll add some more pictures in a minute. Smile

OP posts:
pepperrabbit · 01/02/2012 12:22

Go Bea Smile
Hugs to you cup. You must be exhausted.

silverfrog · 01/02/2012 12:22

oh, hurrah!

Go Bea!

Will keep you all in my thoughts, Cup. I hope today is an easier day for all of you.

CakeJunkie · 01/02/2012 12:23

Come on Bea!

You'll all continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.

annalovesmrbates · 01/02/2012 12:26

I have been thinking of you both all morning, thank you for updating! Still praying for gorgeous Bea. GO BEA! X

annalovesmrbates · 01/02/2012 12:26

I have been thinking of you both all morning, thank you for updating! Still praying for gorgeous Bea. GO BEA! X

bishboschone · 01/02/2012 12:26

Great news .. Bea , you have been on my mind all morning .. All praying for a miracle .

MessNessPess · 01/02/2012 12:27

Ah Bea your a true fighter. Many thoughts to the family.

Thumbwitch · 01/02/2012 12:28

Yippee! Good for you, Bea the Battler! keep up the good fight, little girl, you've done so bloody well.

xx

weblette · 01/02/2012 12:29

You have one amazing little girl there Cup :)

CMOTDibbler · 01/02/2012 12:29

Keep fighting Bea !

Fleecy · 01/02/2012 12:29

Oh cup that's great news. Have been following your threads from the start and am praying for you all lots. What a brave little fighter she is Smile

beatofthedrum · 01/02/2012 12:29

Come on Bea, what an amazing little baby you are. Oh Cup, what you are going through is beyond imagining. You must be so proud of your utterly amazing daughter. Much love xxx

fairimum · 01/02/2012 12:34

lots and lots of positive thoughts to Bea and all the family!! xxxx

MamaMaiasaura · 01/02/2012 12:35

That's great news cup. Bea you are amazing [Grin. Will keep you all in our thoughts here too. Xxx

KateUnrulyBush · 01/02/2012 12:36

Beautiful Bea, keep fighting little girl :) Thinking of you Cup, keep strong and brave xxx

Carrotcakeisace · 01/02/2012 12:41

Still praying for you all and sending you love and strength xxxx

archfiend · 01/02/2012 12:49

She's such a fighter! Thinking of you all.

4madboys · 01/02/2012 13:01

good news, way to go Bea, we are all rooting for you lovely girl, much love to you all xx

OrangeChicken · 01/02/2012 13:07

All prayers are with you little Bea - hang on in there you beautiful big eyed fighter! Cup - I hope you, DH and your other girls are getting the support you need. We are all behind you ...

slowburner · 01/02/2012 13:25

Dropping by to see how the beautiful Bea is doing, keep fighting poppet x

dontrememberme · 01/02/2012 13:31

Go Bea! wishing you all a peaceful day for Beatrice to gain some strength to keep fighting. x

DottyDot · 01/02/2012 13:32

Still thinking of you all and fingers crossed as always xxx

CaroleService · 01/02/2012 13:41

Oh Cup, I don't know what to say. I will keep praying.

CestTout · 01/02/2012 13:43

Bless her, she is amazing (takes after her Mummy). Thinking of you all xx

strictlycomedancingdiva · 01/02/2012 13:44

Keep fighting sweet Bea! xx

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