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Cup and the Teaset face 2012- and this year, Beatrice means business!

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cupofteaplease · 06/01/2012 17:02

Hi. Chances are if you've opened this thread, you may have followed us from here I thought the new year needed a new thread (also the old one was nearly full!)

The basics: Beatrice has central arthrogryposis and extensive cortical dysplasia. She is 16 weeks old and weighs 8lb 1oz. She is on continuous oxygen at 0.2 litres. She is fed Infatrini with Duocal mixed in via NG tube. She is undergoing ponsetti treatment for her talipes, she also has splints for her hands and is now in a pavlik harness full time for her shallow hip sockets. She is coping very well with all of her treatments. Smile Her community children's nurse describes her as 'defying all the odds'.

The positives: If you have a 4 month old NT baby, the following will probably seem pretty poor progress, but for Beatrice who was stiff and non responsive at bith, she has made great gains. Smile Bea seems very alert in this last week and is becoming more vocal too! She happily shouts at me when something isn't going her way- a vast improvement as she couldn't even cry when born. She moves her arms in all directions now and manages to lift her legs, even with the cast and harness. When she is under her play gym with lights, she moves her arms and legs in appreciation. She also mouths when she is hungry. Her breathing pattern seems much more regular since being on oxygen. She not only recognises my voice and turns to find me, but she can also distinguish other people talking and will move her head in different directions to find who is talking. We assume her eyesight is very poor, although we know she can see shadows and bright lights when it is dark. She adores the cinema and has been twice now!

The downers: Her weight gain is painfully slow- on average 2oz per week. She has fallen off the growth charts completely. She is still sick a couple of times a day. She is having a barium meal and swallow study on Monday to see if there is anything going on. Her sats are irregular and heartrate is very high, so weaning her off oxygen (which she started when she had pneumonia before Christmas) hasn't started yet.

Support: Beatrice was finally awarded DLA at the highest rate today, and we have been told to apply for a blue badge as parking in tight spaces with her oxygen is somewhat problematic Hmm. Next week, our lovely physiotherapist who has been administering the weekly plaster casts is going to start coming to our house to do some massage and play and encourage her arm movements even more. The referral to Helen House Hospice is still being processed. After Bea's casts have come off permanently (just 2 more to go!!) I plan on taking her swimming at the hydrotherapy pool in the special school where my SIL works as a SLT.

At the end of January we have a review with our 'lovely' paediatric consultant, Dr Scrooge. We havent managed to shake her off yet!

Thanks for following us here- I'll add some more pictures in a minute. Smile

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saffronwblue · 01/02/2012 08:59

Sending all my love and thoughts to you and your darling Bea. You are both the bravest girls on the planet!

Trudyla · 01/02/2012 09:02

I'm thinking of you and your family.

Trumpton · 01/02/2012 09:05

Sending you all strength and love. I have been a follower from the start of Bea's life . A life that has been filled with so much love from her family and whose journey is touching and changing the lives of strangers. As I move through my day I will think of you all with every step. I will smile at people and hope they pass the peace on until it rests with with the Teaset.
Bless you.

BaldricksTurnip · 01/02/2012 09:05

Love and strength to you all xxx

archfiend · 01/02/2012 09:22

Another one thinking of you first thing this morning. Much love and strength. x

slowburner · 01/02/2012 09:29

Think of you all this morning and hoping you are surrounded by your family for love and support - there was never a child more loved and supported from all around the globe x

specialgun · 01/02/2012 09:31

Thinking of you all this morning. Beautiful Bea x

shazian · 01/02/2012 09:39

Thinking of you all this morning, much love xxxxx

FriggFRIGG · 01/02/2012 09:42

Much love to you all today.

You are all in our thoughts,
Bea's candle is still burning brightly at our house.

ExitPursuedByaBear · 01/02/2012 10:07

Another one here who has been thinking of you both whenever I woke in the night.

Much love.

AncientsOfMuMu · 01/02/2012 10:17

thinking of you and your beautiful Bea x

bibbitybobbityhat · 01/02/2012 10:25

What a special tiny soul she is. She is an utterly remarkable and beautiful baby and we all truly care about her very much xxx.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 01/02/2012 11:15

I have only just caught up with this thread (thank you to Thumbwitch for pointing me to it), and my heart and prayers go out to you, Bea and your whole family, cupoftea. Hoping for better news this morning.

{{{hugs}}}

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 01/02/2012 11:17

And I have lit a candle for Bea.

muddledsheep · 01/02/2012 11:20

A candle is alight here too. Our love and prayers to Bea, Cup and the teaset. A truly precious and beloved little girl.

uptomyeyes · 01/02/2012 11:21

Been following you from the begining. Thinking of you through the night. Much love to you all xxx

Haberdashery · 01/02/2012 11:52

Thinking of you all. Lots of love and peace to all of your family, especially brave Bea.

EmpressOfTheSevenOceans · 01/02/2012 11:53

Also thinking of you all x

Helyantha · 01/02/2012 11:58

Love and prayers for you all xx

Ingles2 · 01/02/2012 12:09

Have just read all your threads... Am sending all my love and prayers xx

FabCatsMum · 01/02/2012 12:11

Just got in and cat not happy to be ignored while I check on the ultimate MN baby. How is she and her lovely family this morning?

cupofteaplease · 01/02/2012 12:15

Bea still with us. Please keep praying for a miracle. She's not ready to give up yet, in true Beatrice style.

Will update later.

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SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 01/02/2012 12:18

Beatrice is a star, and you are a hero, cupoftea. Still praying for you all.

JugglingWithSnowballs · 01/02/2012 12:19

Come on, Bea ! Smile

Love and prayers to the whole tea set !

FabCatsMum · 01/02/2012 12:22

Grin WELL DONE BEA!!!

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