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Cup and the Teaset face 2012- and this year, Beatrice means business!

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cupofteaplease · 06/01/2012 17:02

Hi. Chances are if you've opened this thread, you may have followed us from here I thought the new year needed a new thread (also the old one was nearly full!)

The basics: Beatrice has central arthrogryposis and extensive cortical dysplasia. She is 16 weeks old and weighs 8lb 1oz. She is on continuous oxygen at 0.2 litres. She is fed Infatrini with Duocal mixed in via NG tube. She is undergoing ponsetti treatment for her talipes, she also has splints for her hands and is now in a pavlik harness full time for her shallow hip sockets. She is coping very well with all of her treatments. Smile Her community children's nurse describes her as 'defying all the odds'.

The positives: If you have a 4 month old NT baby, the following will probably seem pretty poor progress, but for Beatrice who was stiff and non responsive at bith, she has made great gains. Smile Bea seems very alert in this last week and is becoming more vocal too! She happily shouts at me when something isn't going her way- a vast improvement as she couldn't even cry when born. She moves her arms in all directions now and manages to lift her legs, even with the cast and harness. When she is under her play gym with lights, she moves her arms and legs in appreciation. She also mouths when she is hungry. Her breathing pattern seems much more regular since being on oxygen. She not only recognises my voice and turns to find me, but she can also distinguish other people talking and will move her head in different directions to find who is talking. We assume her eyesight is very poor, although we know she can see shadows and bright lights when it is dark. She adores the cinema and has been twice now!

The downers: Her weight gain is painfully slow- on average 2oz per week. She has fallen off the growth charts completely. She is still sick a couple of times a day. She is having a barium meal and swallow study on Monday to see if there is anything going on. Her sats are irregular and heartrate is very high, so weaning her off oxygen (which she started when she had pneumonia before Christmas) hasn't started yet.

Support: Beatrice was finally awarded DLA at the highest rate today, and we have been told to apply for a blue badge as parking in tight spaces with her oxygen is somewhat problematic Hmm. Next week, our lovely physiotherapist who has been administering the weekly plaster casts is going to start coming to our house to do some massage and play and encourage her arm movements even more. The referral to Helen House Hospice is still being processed. After Bea's casts have come off permanently (just 2 more to go!!) I plan on taking her swimming at the hydrotherapy pool in the special school where my SIL works as a SLT.

At the end of January we have a review with our 'lovely' paediatric consultant, Dr Scrooge. We havent managed to shake her off yet!

Thanks for following us here- I'll add some more pictures in a minute. Smile

OP posts:
MamaMaiasaura · 01/02/2012 07:13

Another whose first thought this morning are of Bea and you. X

fairimum · 01/02/2012 07:15

Woke th

eaglewings · 01/02/2012 07:17

Love and prayers for your whole family

fairimum · 01/02/2012 07:18

Woke thinking of you all x

Thumbwitch · 01/02/2012 07:19

Still thinking of you, Cup and family - hoping and praying that things are more positive for you today. xx

LittlePebble · 01/02/2012 07:20

Cup I've been thinking of you and Bea all night, if ever you feel alone in the early hours of the morning rest assured someone from mn is up and thinking of you all. Fingers crossed for you all this morning xxx

bishboschone · 01/02/2012 07:20

First thing I did this morning too , was so hoping for a happy update . Cup you are such a brave inspirational woman and bea you have touched so many of us in ways you will never know .

annalovesmrbates · 01/02/2012 07:23

First thoughts this morning are of you and Bea. Praying that you had a peaceful night with your beautiful girl. X

annalovesmrbates · 01/02/2012 07:23

First thoughts this morning are of you and Bea. Praying that you had a peaceful night with your beautiful girl. X

strictlycomedancingdiva · 01/02/2012 07:25

My first thought this morning was of you all too, thinking of you xx

Whatevertheweather · 01/02/2012 07:31

Another one whose first thought this morning was you and Bea xxx

beatofthedrum · 01/02/2012 07:34

Me too xxx

KateUnrulyBush · 01/02/2012 07:40

And me x

QED · 01/02/2012 07:50

Like so many other posters I woke and thought about Bea. Will be thinking of you all during the day

OhDoAdmitMrsDeVere · 01/02/2012 08:06

(((Bea)))

whattodoo · 01/02/2012 08:19

Thinking of Bea and praying for the whole Cup family today x

NorksAreMessy · 01/02/2012 08:20

sending all the love and support possible to lovely Bea and to your whole family

golemmings · 01/02/2012 08:24

And here too...

Engelsmeisje · 01/02/2012 08:27

Thinking of you and your family. x

SpongebobLynnpants · 01/02/2012 08:29

Sending much love to you all. You have often been in my thoughts, never more than today. Xx

OrangeChicken · 01/02/2012 08:45

I have thought of Bea all night too. She was my first thought this morning ... I am praying for you all.

dietstartstmoz · 01/02/2012 08:45

Thinking of u this morning cupxxxx

CotherMuckingFunt · 01/02/2012 08:48

Oh Cup, so many prayers for you and your beautiful girl.x

DottyDot · 01/02/2012 08:51

Me too - much love xxxx

JugglingWithSnowballs · 01/02/2012 08:59

And me x
So much love .... x

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