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Cup and the Teaset face 2012- and this year, Beatrice means business!

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cupofteaplease · 06/01/2012 17:02

Hi. Chances are if you've opened this thread, you may have followed us from here I thought the new year needed a new thread (also the old one was nearly full!)

The basics: Beatrice has central arthrogryposis and extensive cortical dysplasia. She is 16 weeks old and weighs 8lb 1oz. She is on continuous oxygen at 0.2 litres. She is fed Infatrini with Duocal mixed in via NG tube. She is undergoing ponsetti treatment for her talipes, she also has splints for her hands and is now in a pavlik harness full time for her shallow hip sockets. She is coping very well with all of her treatments. Smile Her community children's nurse describes her as 'defying all the odds'.

The positives: If you have a 4 month old NT baby, the following will probably seem pretty poor progress, but for Beatrice who was stiff and non responsive at bith, she has made great gains. Smile Bea seems very alert in this last week and is becoming more vocal too! She happily shouts at me when something isn't going her way- a vast improvement as she couldn't even cry when born. She moves her arms in all directions now and manages to lift her legs, even with the cast and harness. When she is under her play gym with lights, she moves her arms and legs in appreciation. She also mouths when she is hungry. Her breathing pattern seems much more regular since being on oxygen. She not only recognises my voice and turns to find me, but she can also distinguish other people talking and will move her head in different directions to find who is talking. We assume her eyesight is very poor, although we know she can see shadows and bright lights when it is dark. She adores the cinema and has been twice now!

The downers: Her weight gain is painfully slow- on average 2oz per week. She has fallen off the growth charts completely. She is still sick a couple of times a day. She is having a barium meal and swallow study on Monday to see if there is anything going on. Her sats are irregular and heartrate is very high, so weaning her off oxygen (which she started when she had pneumonia before Christmas) hasn't started yet.

Support: Beatrice was finally awarded DLA at the highest rate today, and we have been told to apply for a blue badge as parking in tight spaces with her oxygen is somewhat problematic Hmm. Next week, our lovely physiotherapist who has been administering the weekly plaster casts is going to start coming to our house to do some massage and play and encourage her arm movements even more. The referral to Helen House Hospice is still being processed. After Bea's casts have come off permanently (just 2 more to go!!) I plan on taking her swimming at the hydrotherapy pool in the special school where my SIL works as a SLT.

At the end of January we have a review with our 'lovely' paediatric consultant, Dr Scrooge. We havent managed to shake her off yet!

Thanks for following us here- I'll add some more pictures in a minute. Smile

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paddingtonbear1 · 31/01/2012 22:55

cupoftea - have been following your threads. Thinking of you and your family x

pearlgirl · 31/01/2012 22:57

Thinking of you and your family.

4madboys · 31/01/2012 22:57

still thinking of you and hoping for a peaceful night for bea, sending love and strength xxx

whattodoo · 31/01/2012 23:06

Bra and all the cup family are in my prayers tonight x

Tmesis · 31/01/2012 23:09

Thinking of you all and wishing you peace in whatever form it comes.

silverfrog · 31/01/2012 23:15

thinking of the whole teaset. I hope you have a peaceful night. Bea has the best possible family, you have done so much for her, and all fought together.

libelulle · 31/01/2012 23:18

I've followed your story from afar. Another one here who will be thinking of you tonight. xxx

stressheaderic · 31/01/2012 23:22

Cup, I have followed your updates today with a heavy heart.
I pray for a peaceful night and I wish you much much love and strength.

Massive hugs to you and a gentle kiss on sweet Bea's cheek. xxx

Solo · 31/01/2012 23:31

Prayers for you all from me too.xx

messmonster · 31/01/2012 23:31

I too have followed all of your posts about Bea and am so desperately sorry that she's so poorly right now. Thinking of you and your family tonight.

I have a DD with SN and your attitude, love for your girls, strength and calm have been a total inspiration to me.

CointreauVersial · 31/01/2012 23:33

Thinking of you. xx

golemmings · 31/01/2012 23:34

Thinking of you all and wishing you peace. Bea is lucky to have such an amazing family Xx

outofbodyexperience · 31/01/2012 23:39

Sending peace and strength x

strictlycomedancingdiva · 31/01/2012 23:41

I've just lit a candle for Bea, wishing you love and strength, in my thoughts and prayers xx

beatofthedrum · 31/01/2012 23:50

Reeling at what you are going through. What a life full of love you have given Bea. A life worth living. Thinking of you all and sending so much love xxxx

GentleOtter · 31/01/2012 23:57

Our love and prayers x

SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 01/02/2012 01:01

Cup, you don't need the hospice. You and Bea and DH are together. That's all that matters.

tadjennyp · 01/02/2012 01:53

Thinking of and praying for you.xxx

pinkpainter · 01/02/2012 05:43

Thinking of you.....xxx

butterfliesinmytummy · 01/02/2012 05:52

I'm not often on mumsnet these days but Bea's story touched me so I come back here every so often to catch up with her. I'm wishing you peace and strength from the other side of the planet, with tears in my eyes, thinking of your little girl with the heart and courage of a lion xxx

fuzzypeach1750 · 01/02/2012 06:14

Been thinking of you all night. Really really hoping that everything is a bit better this morning.

FabCatsMum · 01/02/2012 06:15

Beatrice was my first thought this morning and the tears are coming but I hope the no recent posts are because you are all snuggled up together with the bravest, toughest, loveliest baby girl I have ever "known."

All my thoughts are with you all.

KnottyLocks · 01/02/2012 06:39

I'm another whose first thoughts are of you all this morning. Bea and your family have touched so many hearts. Wishing all much love and strength.

BB3 · 01/02/2012 06:48

Thinking of beautiful bea this morning and sending love and strength to the teaset xxx

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