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Cup and the Teaset face 2012- and this year, Beatrice means business!

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cupofteaplease · 06/01/2012 17:02

Hi. Chances are if you've opened this thread, you may have followed us from here I thought the new year needed a new thread (also the old one was nearly full!)

The basics: Beatrice has central arthrogryposis and extensive cortical dysplasia. She is 16 weeks old and weighs 8lb 1oz. She is on continuous oxygen at 0.2 litres. She is fed Infatrini with Duocal mixed in via NG tube. She is undergoing ponsetti treatment for her talipes, she also has splints for her hands and is now in a pavlik harness full time for her shallow hip sockets. She is coping very well with all of her treatments. Smile Her community children's nurse describes her as 'defying all the odds'.

The positives: If you have a 4 month old NT baby, the following will probably seem pretty poor progress, but for Beatrice who was stiff and non responsive at bith, she has made great gains. Smile Bea seems very alert in this last week and is becoming more vocal too! She happily shouts at me when something isn't going her way- a vast improvement as she couldn't even cry when born. She moves her arms in all directions now and manages to lift her legs, even with the cast and harness. When she is under her play gym with lights, she moves her arms and legs in appreciation. She also mouths when she is hungry. Her breathing pattern seems much more regular since being on oxygen. She not only recognises my voice and turns to find me, but she can also distinguish other people talking and will move her head in different directions to find who is talking. We assume her eyesight is very poor, although we know she can see shadows and bright lights when it is dark. She adores the cinema and has been twice now!

The downers: Her weight gain is painfully slow- on average 2oz per week. She has fallen off the growth charts completely. She is still sick a couple of times a day. She is having a barium meal and swallow study on Monday to see if there is anything going on. Her sats are irregular and heartrate is very high, so weaning her off oxygen (which she started when she had pneumonia before Christmas) hasn't started yet.

Support: Beatrice was finally awarded DLA at the highest rate today, and we have been told to apply for a blue badge as parking in tight spaces with her oxygen is somewhat problematic Hmm. Next week, our lovely physiotherapist who has been administering the weekly plaster casts is going to start coming to our house to do some massage and play and encourage her arm movements even more. The referral to Helen House Hospice is still being processed. After Bea's casts have come off permanently (just 2 more to go!!) I plan on taking her swimming at the hydrotherapy pool in the special school where my SIL works as a SLT.

At the end of January we have a review with our 'lovely' paediatric consultant, Dr Scrooge. We havent managed to shake her off yet!

Thanks for following us here- I'll add some more pictures in a minute. Smile

OP posts:
MrsHende · 31/01/2012 19:34

Thinking of you all and sending positive, healthy vibes xx

BobLoblaw · 31/01/2012 19:36

I'm so sorry cup, you and Bea are in my thoughts x

FabCatsMum · 31/01/2012 19:43

Congratulations on Beatrice's Baptism though I know it was under sad and difficult circumstances. It still needs claiming as a postive milestone though.

You are amazing and she is lucky to have you as her fighter mummy.

cupofteaplease · 31/01/2012 19:44

She's so weak now, the nurses think it's nearly time. Dh and I have changed our minds and have asked they do not resuscitate- she is so calm and peaceful. If she has to go, I want it to be in my arms where she belongs. I've wrapped her in her stripy blanket.

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ohmeohmy · 31/01/2012 19:47

In our thoughts tonight.

DutchOma · 31/01/2012 19:49

Praying for you all Cup.

slowburner · 31/01/2012 19:49

In our thoughts and our hearts, no one could have done more than you have in supporting your beautiful girl since she arrived x

bishboschone · 31/01/2012 19:50

I will be thinking of you and the teaset tonight .

SaggyOldClothCatPuss · 31/01/2012 19:51

Oh cup! Sad all my strength to you. {{hug}} Keep fighting little Bea. You have so many supporters!

shazian · 31/01/2012 19:51

Oh cup im heartbroken for you all cant believe how strong you are. Still praying, you are all in my thoughts xxxxx

ChippingInLovesEasterEggs · 31/01/2012 19:51

Oh my darling girl - there are no words. I am so, so, so sorry. I am sending every single 'get well' vibe in Bea's direction and lots & lots of love to you all xxx

FabCatsMum · 31/01/2012 19:53

Oh my Sad.

I hope you can feel all the love we all have for you and your beautiful girl around you.

fuzzypeach1750 · 31/01/2012 19:58

Oh god. Praying and praying for the best. Sad

Whatevertheweather · 31/01/2012 20:03

Oh Cup tears in my eyes as I type. Still praying for a miracle for you all. Keeping you close in my thoughts tonight xxxx

MamaMaiasaura · 31/01/2012 20:06

Sad Sad praying for beautiful beautiful Bea and her mummy, daddy and big sisters. Holding you all in our hearts. Xxxx

DottyDot · 31/01/2012 20:07

Cup - no words - just love and thoughts xxx

OneHandWavingFree · 31/01/2012 20:09

Another one here praying for Bea, and for you and all the family.

weblette · 31/01/2012 20:12

Dearest Cup, thinking of your beautiful brave family and the immense love which surrounds your darling girl xxx

catclarks · 31/01/2012 20:17

Cup, thinking of you all xx

KnottyLocks · 31/01/2012 20:18

Oh Sad

Sending all my love to you, your family and darling Bea x

CavemanDave · 31/01/2012 20:19

Thinking of you cup, and baby Bea xx

scummymummy · 31/01/2012 20:22

Oh darling.:( I'm so sorry. I am hoping against hope Bea will recover. But if she doesn't she is surrounded by love and in your arms and she has known nothing other than love all her life long. She has a wonderful mother.

fuzzypeach1750 · 31/01/2012 20:23

She has the best mother. She really does. x

youarekidding · 31/01/2012 20:26

Oh cup I'm so sorry to hear she's deteriorated.

Sending all my love and positive vibes your way. xx

TCOB · 31/01/2012 20:28

All love and prayers and hope and gentleness to Beatrice Primrose and her family, more than that darling little baby could possibly imagine x

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