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Cup and the Teaset face 2012- and this year, Beatrice means business!

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cupofteaplease · 06/01/2012 17:02

Hi. Chances are if you've opened this thread, you may have followed us from here I thought the new year needed a new thread (also the old one was nearly full!)

The basics: Beatrice has central arthrogryposis and extensive cortical dysplasia. She is 16 weeks old and weighs 8lb 1oz. She is on continuous oxygen at 0.2 litres. She is fed Infatrini with Duocal mixed in via NG tube. She is undergoing ponsetti treatment for her talipes, she also has splints for her hands and is now in a pavlik harness full time for her shallow hip sockets. She is coping very well with all of her treatments. Smile Her community children's nurse describes her as 'defying all the odds'.

The positives: If you have a 4 month old NT baby, the following will probably seem pretty poor progress, but for Beatrice who was stiff and non responsive at bith, she has made great gains. Smile Bea seems very alert in this last week and is becoming more vocal too! She happily shouts at me when something isn't going her way- a vast improvement as she couldn't even cry when born. She moves her arms in all directions now and manages to lift her legs, even with the cast and harness. When she is under her play gym with lights, she moves her arms and legs in appreciation. She also mouths when she is hungry. Her breathing pattern seems much more regular since being on oxygen. She not only recognises my voice and turns to find me, but she can also distinguish other people talking and will move her head in different directions to find who is talking. We assume her eyesight is very poor, although we know she can see shadows and bright lights when it is dark. She adores the cinema and has been twice now!

The downers: Her weight gain is painfully slow- on average 2oz per week. She has fallen off the growth charts completely. She is still sick a couple of times a day. She is having a barium meal and swallow study on Monday to see if there is anything going on. Her sats are irregular and heartrate is very high, so weaning her off oxygen (which she started when she had pneumonia before Christmas) hasn't started yet.

Support: Beatrice was finally awarded DLA at the highest rate today, and we have been told to apply for a blue badge as parking in tight spaces with her oxygen is somewhat problematic Hmm. Next week, our lovely physiotherapist who has been administering the weekly plaster casts is going to start coming to our house to do some massage and play and encourage her arm movements even more. The referral to Helen House Hospice is still being processed. After Bea's casts have come off permanently (just 2 more to go!!) I plan on taking her swimming at the hydrotherapy pool in the special school where my SIL works as a SLT.

At the end of January we have a review with our 'lovely' paediatric consultant, Dr Scrooge. We havent managed to shake her off yet!

Thanks for following us here- I'll add some more pictures in a minute. Smile

OP posts:
4madboys · 31/01/2012 16:58

oh no :( come on Bea, rooting for you and sending love and strength xxx

CakeJunkie · 31/01/2012 16:59

Cup, I'm really sorry to hear your latest news. Will be thinking of you all and sending many positive vibes.

Come on gorgeous Bea!

Bluetinkerbell · 31/01/2012 17:23

thinking of and praying for you all! x

fuzzypeach1750 · 31/01/2012 17:24

Oh cup Sad big big big hugs xx

BB3 · 31/01/2012 17:27

Cup, keeping everything crossed bea continues to pick up xxxx

emmazed · 31/01/2012 17:56

Thinking of you all, xxxx

annalovesmrbates · 31/01/2012 18:01

Oh Cup,thinking of you and lots of prayers heading your way. X

annalovesmrbates · 31/01/2012 18:01

Oh Cup,thinking of you and lots of prayers heading your way. X

Whatevertheweather · 31/01/2012 18:02

Oh Cup I'm so sorry to read your latest update. Come on beautiful Bea. Big hugs cup what a time you're having. Is there anything at all we can do? xxx

archfiend · 31/01/2012 18:07

Have been following Bea's progress but haven't posted before. Wishing Bea and all of you all the best. You are all incredibly strong, thinking of you. x

eaglewings · 31/01/2012 18:17

Even More Prayers

shazian · 31/01/2012 18:25

oh cup thinking of you all, sending big hugs and lots of prayers. Come on Bea get better soon. xx

Spoutlet · 31/01/2012 18:25

The Spoutlet household is thinking of you all and your beautiful Bea x

OhDoAdmitMrsDeVere · 31/01/2012 18:33

Oh Cup all this up and down is so exhausting isnt it? I am so sorry.

Sending love and strength to Bea and all who love her x

Scheherezade · 31/01/2012 18:35

Sorry to hear that cup, love and thoughts with you all. Xxx

CMOTDibbler · 31/01/2012 18:37

Everything crossed for you, and sending love and thoughts to you all

lisad123 · 31/01/2012 18:47

Oh no cup, Sad hoping she shows fighting spirit for a little longer.

slowburner · 31/01/2012 18:54

Snending many many thoughts your way, it's a rollercoaster of emotions but I am hoping you have a lot of time with Bea still to come

X x x

JenniferLaunders · 31/01/2012 18:57

Thoughts and prayers with you, Bea and your family tonight. Lovely that she has been christened. Lots of love x

bigbluebus · 31/01/2012 19:00

oh cup. I'm so sorry to hear that news. Fingers crossed for you all that Bea continues to fight and improve.

zebrafinch · 31/01/2012 19:02

praying Beatrice improves

thisisyesterday · 31/01/2012 19:13

i am not a praying person, but am crossing my everything for Bea right now!
she has shown everyone how strong she is so many times, please do it again Bea! please!

sending hugs and positive thoughts to you all Cup.. .

Carrotcakeisace · 31/01/2012 19:22

Praying for you all and wishing you strength, you are an amazing family and Bea has touched so many lives x

pepperrabbit · 31/01/2012 19:29

Sending prayers. x

stressheaderic · 31/01/2012 19:34

So sorry to read your update. I really hope with all my heart that Bea continues to improve.
I will offer up a prayer for her, for you and for all of your family.
Sending love and much strength xxx

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