Thank you @thatsnotmygarden It is definitely in F, it says adults to work with her on social use of language, adults to deliver animal or art based counselling, and also to work with her on calming techniques, as long with a few other things. Which I think should all be covered by a mentor. It's written with school in mind currently which is what I'd like them to change.
What isn't there is pfa which I'm trying to get them to add, because then it could cover careers advice, travel training, budgeting etc, alfo with a mentor.
I guess I'm thinking well they're funding mentors currently who aren't doing anything...they can't say no to this if it's within that budget.
I am appealing but that won't help me if they don't give the provision that's already in the plan, and if the appeal is successful and in a years time they put the other things like physio in, if they still didn't provide it I'd have to do JR, and I just don't have the fight left in me. I've got a divorce going on, a house to sell and my younger child alfo has needs, plus working. 🤯
I also can't see her even engaging with any of this so it's the fighting for things to then realise it's pointless as she won't do it!
Sorry rant over. I'm so tired!
For education, it's so difficult, she's already got three GCSEs on the go and I really don't think it's a good idea to add more and overwhelm her, plus her online school started them in year 9, she's joined year 10, and she's doing great but might be at her limit on those I think. I also worry about exams as she might not cope well.
So maybe equivalent courses, more hands on. Needs to be no pressure, at her own pace.
She loves animals, dogs in particular, likes crafts, crochet, sewing etc, cake decorating, baking, plays guitar. Very into social justice, gaming, very good at tech.
Hoping something self directed she can do in modules. She shut down the technology triumphs art and design level 2 course they have funded, Wasn't interested. I also think she has ADHD, she gets into something then just stops, changes her taste in music, clothes, everything, every other week.
Thing is I'll see something and think oh that would be perfect and she just can't allow herself to do it or she's not bothered about that thing any more.
I think something animal related would be perfect as she is obsessed. Not sure if it exists! We are in Kent, it's possible to go somewhere but only with transport as I have to work and fitting all this in on the days I can be home is impossible.