Thanks @thatsnotmygarden it says I've requested one in that section.
Caseworker said she's named a type to allow the plan to be finalised and they PFA will be in the review next year.
Just spoke to my DD about the medical needs provision, flat no to even looking at the outside of it on a dog walk. Has agreed angrily to have a go at either academy 21 or UK virtual school though.
So back to the LA I go and hopefully they'll be more weight behind my request for education now DD has the EHCP, I'll wait for the decision by the end of next week and then appeal. Not holding my breath though. I've already put in a complaint that hasn't really been dealt with, although I think it did move the EHCP process along a bit and the referral for outreach, but my main complaint was they are not providing suitable education provision if they're only offering something she can't and won't access.
So I'll update the complaint and take it to LGO for not providing education under the acts you've given me, thank you.
I need the time to pull myself together, feeling very disheartened right now and like it's all pointless. Struggling with my son at the moment now too, not sleeping or giving me a minute away from him, dealing with his school who of course see no issues there at all whilst every morning and evening he's crying because he doesn't want to go. He's 10 and the thought of what this could look like by year 7 is terrifying. I can see a future where I can't work, can't buy a house of my own, my daughter still living with me because I can't see her getting anything in terms of work or education if things continue as they are...
Everything just seems pointless at this point. Why have I worked for 25 years to build a career, own a home etc, working on my house getting it ready to sell so I can try to buy something small just for the three of us with a hefty mortgage anyway, when I'm basically a prisoner to my children's needs and their dad sees none of it, his life isn't impacted at all and meanwhile I have no social life, no friends, no time for anything other than this constant fight, for what? It's going to be months till this is resolved and then the council will probably just fuck about not paying for providers etc anyway.