I have checked with parents on a local EHCP FB page - at the very least 18 months to 3 years wait time for ASD assessment.
We just couldn't wait that long - he'd be 17 by then.
We are going to approach a specialist setting now we have a diagnosis.
Got Final on Friday and going to read it carefully tomorrow. Should have had ages ago as tribunal was mid July.
LA consulting with speech therapists - should have been in place from 5 Sept.
At least now we have the final we can stamp feet legally if nothing happens in the next week.
School still dodging proper provision of OT stuff - DS said he had intervention for 30 mins not 45, and only half the stuff he should work on (no gross motor only fine). We have emailed school but no answer for a week. Need to ask for provision map and ask LA to investigate.
School SENCO also trying to cover up the fact that he has made poor progression in literacy. Told me reading age was 8, no turns out that accuracy and rate = fluency is 6 years, only comprehension 8. A miracle considering how laboured his reading is. EP said reading age was 6.5 in Y4. DS is now 14 and in Y10 and seems to have regressed in some measures.
I had asked for the data last AR (May) as I was concerned that he would be on track to leave school without even meeting the reading age of 9 (classed as a minimal reading age to function in society)..
They are not doing what the EP said e.g. precision teach, phonics, paired reading. They are just doing their own thing. When I challenge they say well that report was for primary. Yes but have issues resolved? Is it still in the EHCP? Then it stands.
I think if we get a place offered we will throw the book at school/LA. Concerned if we do this right now then we might end up with no placement at all.
School have fought us all the way for 3 years now in terms of not wanting to provide what is in the plan. I have reached the end of my tether. It's a shame as as a school it has many good features and some excellent staff. But its been open hostility, cover ups and excuses for so much of the provision. They are happy to take the funding but then they just want to 'do what they do' without the needs of a particular child getting in the way. I really feel like its fraud.
I understand why people home ed their children with SEND. I could have spent all the hours I have spent on chasing people not doing their jobs on teaching DS and done a good job of it.
Its honestly soul destroying. I know you all know this. I just feel broken. I'm sure I'll be back up and at 'em by Monday. Takes its toll though.