FWR being trolled by a user called AidaP

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Hi MNHQ can you please address the issue of a certain poster called AidaP who is not participating in debate he is just trolling.

to be clear this person is a trans woman who has been convicted of violence and is posting promotion of acts of violence against women elsewhere.

in particular there is one elsewhere about using a roughly hewn rolling pin to rape women.

you realy need to look in to him it is just so not on that he is being allowed to bother us here.

I’m reminded of the kids at school who, when told to hand a form or the like to their mum, start screaming “Don’t you talk about my mum!” in the hope that the HT will overhear and misunderstand.

It is not even SirChenjins who referring to.

I did nothing of the sort @GlovedhandsCecilia

You're posting so often and getting so confused about what posts you're responding to that you're getting yourself tied up in knots.

Literally no one, other than apparently you, would read that as suggesting you and P, "are both boys, [so] we will agree"

"Boys will be boys" is, to use the theme of the thread, a very well known colloquialism (in the UK at least - I can't speak for other countries) used by both sexes to dismiss the bad behaviour of boys and men.

I realise here I'm just saying what has already been said but I'm backing up SirChenjins interpretation is how many people including me would read that post. Your interpretation of it as suggesting you are male wouldn't have crossed my mind in a million years.

So you didn't write “Spoil it for yourselves" then?

It's a silencing tactic to deter us from replying to you, by your own words from earlier. We can see what you wrote earlier, and now you are trying to gaslight us about it.

But you see that by reading the thread like everyone else!

People are responding to you on the thread.

The notifications you get are when people are doing that. It's not necessary to read them, and it's not spam.

Also posting to confirm that's my interpretation of what was posted too.

I believe there's quite the derail going on right now!

Just a bit!

FWIW I don't think GlovedhandsCecilia is targeting or attempting to disrupt FWR specifically as her approach to other topics is similar. An idiosyncratic perspective rather than bad faith.

Yes they can. I dont demand anyone reply to me

It is spamming my notifications when I have twenty of them.

Okay.

Why do you need to interact with my opinion? It isnt my thread.

Ok

That isn’t what I said. Seems you didn’t read or didn’t understand my posts. I said that it’s great that you realise TW are men. And then I said I couldn’t understand why you were defending Aida so vehemently when a large proportion of posters here are threatened and insulted by Aida’s language. I said it was a strange hill to die on… as in, why waste so many hours trying to convince strangers on the internet that they shouldn’t feel threatened by someone’s language (because you’re not going to be able to convince strangers of that, even with your anecdote about a person you know who says people should fuck themselves with a spiky butt plug, which is also a highly offensive thing to say and not something I’d want to hear in the workplace). I wonder at your motivation in trying to persuade us that Aida’s words are just banter.

It's responding to you, though. It's a mutual interaction.

You have no idea what's in the comments, either, as you don't read them.

So ... a poster interacts with others posts on a thread, sometimes more than one post at a time causing numerous notifications to be sent, and this is ok but when others do it to them it is aggressive behaviour?

Got it.

i didnt say it is aggressive. Its mainly annoying.

I know.

It doesn’t matter to me whether other people that I don’t know think it’s ’a reach’.

I don’t want to spend time in a message board with a man who says things like that. I don’t want to hear men use threatening language against women. I find it threatening and so do plenty of others.

You and some others don’t find it threatening. So what? That doesn’t change how I feel. It doesn’t matter whether the person saying it has a trans identity or is GC or somewhere in between. The language is threatening whoever it comes from.

Im not trying to convince anyone of anything. I just shared my interpretation and tried to understand theirs.

Not much understanding going on though.

No i dont understand interpreting that statement that way.