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SharonEllis · 22/02/2025 12:57

Are pms disabled for everyone, or just me? Anyone know why?

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AlexandrinaH · 06/03/2025 22:35

AnneKipankitoo · 06/03/2025 19:35

Maybe DO NOT OPEN LINKS!

Well, yes, that’s the obvious answer but clearly, there are posters who did open them despite not knowing the sender or where the links were taking them, and there always will be those who will click on these things.

AlexandrinaH · 06/03/2025 22:38

Canipickmyselfup · 06/03/2025 19:44

@AnneKipankitoo i think in some instances for example photos they were loading automatically hence so many people being impacted

Nope, it was links. The photos that were sent as links that opened/previewed automatically were sent on the main board. Photos cannot be, and never have been, sent via PM.

AlexandrinaH · 06/03/2025 22:39

It’s really unwise to open a link that has been randomly sent to you.

Hopefully they can soon be restored with all protections in place.

noblegiraffe · 06/03/2025 22:43

They were on a thread where the conversation was such that someone could legitimately have sent them links.

I think it is really easy to think that we ourselves wouldn't be caught out when in the right circumstances we probably could.

JaneJeffer · 07/03/2025 14:18

I think we're not getting them back

AlexandrinaH · 07/03/2025 14:23

noblegiraffe · 06/03/2025 22:43

They were on a thread where the conversation was such that someone could legitimately have sent them links.

I think it is really easy to think that we ourselves wouldn't be caught out when in the right circumstances we probably could.

Yes, I saw one poster who viewed the links saying they thought it was something relating to the thread they had posted.

AlexandrinaH · 07/03/2025 14:24

JaneJeffer · 07/03/2025 14:18

I think we're not getting them back

I’m with you, unfortunately. This thread has been ignored since the end of last week, with no further updates. Think they are hoping we forget PMs existed if they leave it long enough.

TinyTraveller · 07/03/2025 14:52

@anonttc hoping PM resumes soon, missing our chats!

AnneKipankitoo · 07/03/2025 15:04

BeckyAMumsnet · 01/03/2025 17:25

Hi everyone - as you've noticed, PMs are still off. We are very much hoping they'll be back early next week and will post to let you know. We have added some measures that block links like this being sent, but we're doing a few more checks to ensure it's all working as it should. This is certainly an occasion where we'd prefer to err on the side of caution.

Thanks also for your other suggestions - we will discuss all points raised.

@BeckyAMumsnet what is happening re PMs?

Blondeshavemorefun · 07/03/2025 15:30

And will we be able to pm
on new app

just had this message

Disabled private messages
AlexandrinaH · 07/03/2025 15:54

Blondeshavemorefun · 07/03/2025 15:30

And will we be able to pm
on new app

just had this message

I’ve been testing the new app for a few months and no, you can’t PM on it. You can vote and do a few other things, but you can’t PM or see other notifications.

Blondeshavemorefun · 07/03/2025 17:28

@AlexandrinaH I’ve been testing it as well and love it

just annoying we couldn’t message on it

but can

vote
edit
thank
quote a quote

and sure a 5th one as well

AlexandrinaH · 07/03/2025 17:48

Blondeshavemorefun · 07/03/2025 17:28

@AlexandrinaH I’ve been testing it as well and love it

just annoying we couldn’t message on it

but can

vote
edit
thank
quote a quote

and sure a 5th one as well

Hopefully they’ll add the missing features eventually 🤞😁

More people would use the app if it was completely multi functional.

Unexpecteddrivinginstructor · 07/03/2025 18:25

@Thethingswedoforlove maybe we should make plans to meet instead? Perhaps in the town our children go to school? There is a Costa on the industrial estate near M&S.

Thethingswedoforlove · 07/03/2025 19:12

Unexpecteddrivinginstructor · 07/03/2025 18:25

@Thethingswedoforlove maybe we should make plans to meet instead? Perhaps in the town our children go to school? There is a Costa on the industrial estate near M&S.

Yes this is a superb idea. The next two weeks are crazy for work for me but after that I can be super flexible. When might suit you?

everywhichway · 07/03/2025 20:13

BeckyAMumsnet · 01/03/2025 17:25

Hi everyone - as you've noticed, PMs are still off. We are very much hoping they'll be back early next week and will post to let you know. We have added some measures that block links like this being sent, but we're doing a few more checks to ensure it's all working as it should. This is certainly an occasion where we'd prefer to err on the side of caution.

Thanks also for your other suggestions - we will discuss all points raised.

Hi Becky,

Please can we have another update on where you are with restoring the PM function? Thanks.

JaneJeffer · 07/03/2025 20:14

@BeckyAMumsnet any news?

AnneKipankitoo · 08/03/2025 10:34

KorneliyaSky · 25/02/2025 10:33

I'm missing my PM pal hugely! No other way to contact them other than through PMs.
Does anyone know if X (twitter) have a decent PM system. Maybe I can locate them on there?

X and the new one Blue Sky Social have DMs. Direct Messages.

AlexandrinaH · 08/03/2025 10:59

I always swap email address eventually with my “PM pals”, so we don’t lose contact. I don’t recommend this if you’re not sure about someone of course, and I only use a general (no names) email address anyway.

AnneKipankitoo · 08/03/2025 11:15

Good for you @AlexandrinaH
I am in contact with a few people by other means but some are just on here through PM.
It’s nice to check in on people.
It’s sad that a few bad ‘uns spoil it for other people.

AlexandrinaH · 08/03/2025 12:53

AnneKipankitoo · 08/03/2025 11:15

Good for you @AlexandrinaH
I am in contact with a few people by other means but some are just on here through PM.
It’s nice to check in on people.
It’s sad that a few bad ‘uns spoil it for other people.

I know, hopefully they’ll reinstate it soon 🤞🤞

KorneliyaSky · 08/03/2025 22:52

I'm properly fed up of this now. Years of messaging, multiple times a day and it's just been stopped, with no warning, without any way of keeping in touch. 😭

everywhichway · 08/03/2025 23:06

KorneliyaSky · 08/03/2025 22:52

I'm properly fed up of this now. Years of messaging, multiple times a day and it's just been stopped, with no warning, without any way of keeping in touch. 😭

I'm fed up with it too.

AlexandrinaH · 09/03/2025 00:20

Two weeks and counting! Surely if the measures were available, they could have been put in place and tested by now?

Is there any update?

JaneJeffer · 09/03/2025 00:49

I feel a conspiracy theory coming on

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