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Why was my thread removed?

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MrsBunTheBakersMum · 31/08/2022 10:08

I posted to see if anyone had the same religious beliefs as I did and within hours my post was deleted.
am I right in thinking now that mumsnet is happy for you to discuss your beliefs but only if they align with their own?
if you’re allowing discussions on religion then you should be open to discussions on all beliefs.
my religion is recognised as a belief system in the us and has all the same legal rights as any other.

these are the tenets I live by.
There are Seven
FUNDAMENTAL TENETS
I
One should strive to act with compassion and empathy toward all creatures in accordance with reason.

II
The struggle for justice is an ongoing and necessary pursuit that should prevail over laws and institutions.

III
One’s body is inviolable, subject to one’s own will alone.

IV
The freedoms of others should be respected, including the freedom to offend. To willfully and unjustly encroach upon the freedoms of another is to forgo one's own.

V
Beliefs should conform to one's best scientific understanding of the world. One should take care never to distort scientific facts to fit one's beliefs.

VI
People are fallible. If one makes a mistake, one should do one's best to rectify it and resolve any harm that might have been caused.

VII
Every tenet is a guiding principle designed to inspire nobility in action and thought. The spirit of compassion, wisdom, and justice should always prevail over the written or spoken word.

does that sound offensive and scary to you to be deleted?

OP posts:
Brideandpredjudice · 31/08/2022 15:46

Am I missing something here? Do you worship the Satan?

girlmom21 · 31/08/2022 16:14

Puddington · 31/08/2022 15:41

The Church of Satan is doing more for American women than any political party is. I think the response from HQ here was quite patronising.

I don't think they were patronising. They're right. Anyone who reads that thread is either going to report it as a troll or take the piss.

LemonJuiceFromConcentrate · 31/08/2022 16:15

GreenWheat · 31/08/2022 15:22

That smacks very much of the underhand Scientology recruitment tactic of getting people to take a "personality test" in order to get them in the door.

Yes, exactly. It’s the opposite of straightforward and up-front, it’s patronising.

Why not just be straight about it, if your goal is truly to just connect with other parents who share your beliefs? rather than trying to make everyone go oooh in some kind of daft “gotcha” way.

I do kind of think though that if Satanism is really essentially just normal decency, deciding to call it Satanism in the first place was a weird choice. Almost as if there is in fact an element of attention-seeking shock value to the whole thing 🤔

MrsBunTheBakersMum · 31/08/2022 16:24

Brideandpredjudice · 31/08/2022 15:46

Am I missing something here? Do you worship the Satan?

Very much not, I don’t even believe in satan or hell it’s symbolic.

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MrsBunTheBakersMum · 31/08/2022 16:29

LemonJuiceFromConcentrate · 31/08/2022 16:15

Yes, exactly. It’s the opposite of straightforward and up-front, it’s patronising.

Why not just be straight about it, if your goal is truly to just connect with other parents who share your beliefs? rather than trying to make everyone go oooh in some kind of daft “gotcha” way.

I do kind of think though that if Satanism is really essentially just normal decency, deciding to call it Satanism in the first place was a weird choice. Almost as if there is in fact an element of attention-seeking shock value to the whole thing 🤔

I deliberately didn’t mention satanism because the moment it was mentioned people have a preconceived idea of what it is.
I’m not trying to convert people or trick People into joining the satanic temple I came to a site I’ve been posting on off and on for a decade and always found people here who I could have an open discussion with and assumed (wrongly it would seem) that I might find open minded people here.

and yeah the name is a bit attention seekery… that’s kid of the point.

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LemonJuiceFromConcentrate · 31/08/2022 16:34

So the point of the name is to be attention-seeking and misleading, because you don’t actually follow Satan

but also

you object to being judged on the basis of the attention-seeking, deliberately misleading name?

that’s so incredibly silly

MrsBunTheBakersMum · 31/08/2022 16:39

I fully accept that individuals will be judgemental but would hope that large organisations would spend maybe 5 minutes to educate themselves slightly and not have a knee jerk reaction.

also I didn’t give them the name…

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SirChenjins · 31/08/2022 16:41

So now this thread is going - what more would you like us to know OP?
It’s quite a nice he belief system so I’m surprised there aren’t forums out there already where you can connect and have those open minded discussions. .

Margot78 · 31/08/2022 16:44

It doesn’t sound offensive and scary but it does sound tedious and self indulgent. If I was a moderator I would have deleted it for that reason but luckily for you, this is a site where you will be indulged and even apologised to when you don’t get the attention you were desperate for.

sunshinesupermum · 31/08/2022 16:48

listing all your tenets without actually saying you’re a Satanist

This. How are we supposed to know??

YesitsBess · 31/08/2022 16:50

They are a religious entity as it goes, and also in the vanguard of the legal challenges to the overturning of Roe Vs Wade because of their status as a religious entity, super article here:

www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-features/satanic-temple-abortion-rights-supreme-court-1048833/amp/

Fladdermus · 31/08/2022 16:56

Dear MN

Why won't you let me use underhand, manipulative techniques to hook others into my belief system that they'd have zero interest in if I were up front and honest?

Yours OP

Novum · 31/08/2022 17:04

The freedoms of others should be respected, including the freedom to offend. To willfully and unjustly encroach upon the freedoms of another is to forgo one's own.

How does that one work, then? If you offend me by assaulting me, am I supposed to respect your freedom to do so?

Greensleeves · 31/08/2022 17:06

Margot78 · 31/08/2022 16:44

It doesn’t sound offensive and scary but it does sound tedious and self indulgent. If I was a moderator I would have deleted it for that reason but luckily for you, this is a site where you will be indulged and even apologised to when you don’t get the attention you were desperate for.

Exactly this. Grow up ffs.

Mossstitch · 31/08/2022 17:09

I don't get it🤷 why call it satanism if they don't believe in him or worship him/her (to be politically correct😂) 😴

Brideandpredjudice · 31/08/2022 17:25

Fladdermus · 31/08/2022 16:56

Dear MN

Why won't you let me use underhand, manipulative techniques to hook others into my belief system that they'd have zero interest in if I were up front and honest?

Yours OP

They even apologised!!

YesitsBess · 31/08/2022 17:26

Mossstitch · 31/08/2022 17:09

I don't get it🤷 why call it satanism if they don't believe in him or worship him/her (to be politically correct😂) 😴

Excellent T shirt merch opportunities?

MrsBunTheBakersMum · 31/08/2022 17:38

Fladdermus · 31/08/2022 16:56

Dear MN

Why won't you let me use underhand, manipulative techniques to hook others into my belief system that they'd have zero interest in if I were up front and honest?

Yours OP

The original thread openly said in the title and post that I’m a recent satanist looking to connect with others

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Margot78 · 31/08/2022 17:47

Yes but in this thread you’re just listing your ‘tenets’ and honestly nobody cares. Just work on your arrogance and lack of self awareness and leave strangers alone to live their lives.

abblie · 31/08/2022 18:02

Sake I was wanting to know how to get a membership ffs

And to be fair if you believe in God which is a religion then you have to believe In Satan to which those who believe in Satan have a religion

Satan is kinda being discriminated here by MUMSNET

I'm probably going to have this deleted very soon 🤣🤣🤣

P.s I'm an atheist

abblie · 31/08/2022 18:10

@MMargot78 that's a bit rude

I'm very interested in this even though I'm an atheist but at the same time it good to listen to all sides of the religious stories.

Dan browns novel where very much intriguing and made people open their eyes and minds to the different walks in life

If there is a god there is a Satan a good and bad why do we always here about the good and not the bad

abblie · 31/08/2022 18:16

@LLemonJuiceFromConcentrate to be fair I was on her thread yesterday and there wasn't a tone or anything nasty said she was genuinely looking for others that had same beliefs as her.

Today yeah she has came back fighting and rightly so she has a belief and feels its being hmmm ignored don't know what word to use

If it was reported as trying as mumsnet said its probably been from a church goer who has Jesus on her heart and took offence lol

goldfinchonthelawn · 31/08/2022 18:19

Well I knew nothing about Satanism, and as a Christian I am intrigued and pretty relieved to read those tenets you listed. They look reasonable and reassuring to me.

WRT your tenets, I would challenge V - the one on scientific fact. I am deeply sceptical of scientific 'fact' as science tends to assert current trends in knowledge as fact and then these facts get disproved. I wish scientists had a bit more flexibility and humility that what they currently believe may well be proved wrong and most likely will be at some point. So I would always stay very open minded about factual assertions about ho the universe works.

And tenet IV I didn't really understand - it seemed to contradict itself. Freedom to offend but not to encroach on someone else's freedom seems a bit tangled. If their freedom is to live without e.g. racial or sexist abuse but another person's freedom is to cause offense by speaking their racist/sexist mind as they please - how do you square that?

kittensinthekitchen · 31/08/2022 18:22

The deletion message 😂😂

www.mumsnet.com/talk/philosophy_religion_spirituality/4623138-any-satanists-around

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