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Request to remove the word 'debate' from ' Feminism: Sex & gender debate'

168 replies

Thelnebriati · 27/06/2021 16:52

Can you please remove the word 'debate'? It doesn't add anything.

Especially if the trans widows threads are to remain on the board.

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OppsUpsSide · 27/06/2021 16:55

Agree!

ChateauMargaux · 27/06/2021 17:05

Agree...

DancesWithTortoises · 27/06/2021 17:05

Agree!

CuriousaboutSamphire · 27/06/2021 17:07

Having just had a chat with one of the trans widows I can't imagine why their support group is being 'debated'. That's ludicrous, really adding insult to injury.

But I doubt MNHQ will change either the transwidows placement or the board name, Justine seemed quite adamant last week. We don't have much if a voice, it seems.

Dozer · 27/06/2021 17:10

No other MN board includes the title ‘debate’.

CuriousaboutSamphire · 27/06/2021 17:12

It does say much about the general MN thinking about a certain type of feminism, doesn't it?

CommunistLegoBloc · 27/06/2021 17:13

Agree

GAHgamel · 27/06/2021 17:31

Even just changing it to discussion would be a bit more neutral.

SpringCrocus · 27/06/2021 17:36

I agree, and I raised this with @MNHQ when I reported a particularly vile post on the thread "use of the term Trans Widow"

the post was deleted (good!) and I was told that "We've raised the wider issues you are concerned about here for further discussion within the team."

Not discussion, debate.

(If they can have a discussion, why can't we?)

Gibbonsgibbonsgibbons · 27/06/2021 17:37

Agree!

Sensateria · 27/06/2021 17:38

Agree.

Nowhere else on the site is the word ‘debate’ used in the title.

drum123 · 27/06/2021 17:38

Yep, totally agree.

SciFiScream · 27/06/2021 17:45

Agree

florentini · 27/06/2021 17:47

Agree

CervixSampler · 27/06/2021 17:47

Agreed. I hate this new segregation of the board but adding "debate" adds extra insult.

Irishmom7 · 27/06/2021 17:49

I don’t mind it. It’s two fingers to the #nodebate donkeys.

Irishmom7 · 27/06/2021 17:49

Would prefer if they hadn’t split the boards though. That was stupid.

TinselAngel · 27/06/2021 18:00

I agree, it's turned a previously supportive space into a bun fight where trans widows are harassed.

Borka · 27/06/2021 18:02

Agree

ErrolTheDragon · 27/06/2021 18:17

Even apart from the trans widows, the threads (new and inherited from the previous board) aren't all 'debate'.

There are support threads and ones seeking advice. Items from the news or journals, other types of information - some of these may generate debate, others won't.
'Debate' alone in the title is misleading, and liable to cause problems.

GrinitchSpinach · 27/06/2021 18:33

I like this suggestion. “Feminism: Sex and Gender” covers all the different kinds of threads Errol has pointed out.

“Debate” runs the risk of excluding women who are interested in the topic but too intimidated to leap into a board that seems to promise conflict.

R0wantrees · 27/06/2021 18:44

I'm surprised that it is not, "sex and gender identity".
The FWR chat special rules were originally titled "sex and gender" and MNHQ agreed to change them to more accurately reflect the issues which are the balancing of sex and gender identity (not gender).

This is made clear in the recent Maya Forstater ETA ruling where it is established that both a belief and lack of belief in gender identity is protected.

2Rebecca · 27/06/2021 18:44

I agree. The word "debate" is superfluous. Nearly all mumsnet threads involve discussion and debate.

Gumbomambo · 27/06/2021 18:45

I agree with this.

TiltTopTable · 27/06/2021 18:55

Agree. It's like having a board called "FWR debate", like there's another side to be considered - should women have rights? Do they have too many rights?" should women have the vote? Should women own property? It seems women's rights are going backwards.