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Word of advice to MNHQ #2

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BackieJerkhart · 25/08/2017 18:29

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PacificDogwod · 26/08/2017 11:29

Christina, good grief, you got what I was saying in spite of my utter inability to type sensibly this morning and AC Not Helping!!

Eyes. I roll my eyes

I don't often advance search posters - which is why I often don't 'recognise' people I've previously conversed with. I'd rather take a post at face value than think 'oh, must agree with this one as we got on on another thread' or 'the caw!! she was awful on this thread so lets take her down a peg' Grin

I am easy to get along with most of the time
Grin

Christinayangstwistedsista · 26/08/2017 11:30

Pacific

Why did I think you were in Scotland?

PacificDogwod · 26/08/2017 11:31

Because I am?
Grin

Christinayangstwistedsista · 26/08/2017 11:35

Where the hell are you in Scotland that needs ac?

PacificDogwod · 26/08/2017 11:36

GrinGrinGrin

'Autocorrect'

It's grey, wet and, ooooh, 15 degrees outside just now

Oblomov17 · 26/08/2017 11:37

I don't hide threads. And I don't do AS on posters. Who has time? I just read what they have written on that particular thread.

Pagwatch · 26/08/2017 11:46

I don't hide threads anymore. I used to but can't be arsed now.
I don't as posters either.
After my first ten years posting I developed the ability to ignore posters who annoy me.

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 26/08/2017 11:54

I go through Active threads and hide any that I'm not interested in,makes for a tidier phoneGrin

ibbleobbleblackbubble · 26/08/2017 11:56

When i see a poster I dislike my eyes sort of glaze over and their post is blurred for me
it's like an algorithm that my brain has developed to optimise my forum experience

ibbleobbleblackbubble · 26/08/2017 11:58

You have to be a weird over invested Stalker to advance search a poster surely?

ThumbWitchesAbroad · 26/08/2017 11:59

Actually did laugh out loud at the confusion over AC. I just call it DYAC to get over any confusion (but no one else needs to do that! and I'm sure there are people who don't know what that means either!) Grin

ibbleobbleblackbubble · 26/08/2017 12:00

as for Keeping notes on someone's post history .......well that's a different order of magnitude of weird stalker behaviour

MsGameandWatching · 26/08/2017 12:02

You have to be a weird over invested Stalker to advance search a poster surely?

I'd say so but it happens quite a lot.

PandorasXbox · 26/08/2017 12:03

The only time I AS is when I don't recognise the poster and the thread reads as bollocks. 99% it's a "brand new poster" so I just report it and don't bother reading.

Pagwatch · 26/08/2017 12:04

' ibbleobbleblackbubble
When i see a poster I dislike my eyes sort of glaze over and their post is blurred for me
it's like an algorithm that my brain has developed to optimise my forum experience

That's like a super power.

Christinayangstwistedsista · 26/08/2017 12:04

Pacific

I did wonder as I'm in Scotland too!

Grin
Valuedopinion · 26/08/2017 12:12

I AS quite a bit lately. It takes two seconds.

It doesn't make me anymore overinvested than any other poster who spends two seconds of their time here.

I decide based on their posts whether I can be bothered to engage or not.

There is a lot of over investment in reading Reddit threads and telling people here that they don't care.

BeyondLimitsAndWhatever · 26/08/2017 12:31

I do AS quite a lot, but I have a particularly shit memory!

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 26/08/2017 12:32

Beyond me too Grin

FaithHopeCharityDesperation · 26/08/2017 12:35

The big difference between Reddit & here is that there's none of the ubiquitous passive/aggressiveness over there.

Some posters on MN have perfected the tightrope of staying just within talk guidelines here and can be proper goady fuckers & poke & prod at another poster until the other poster finally snaps.

I would rather just be open and say 'fuck off' to said goady fuckers (hence why I got suspended).

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 26/08/2017 12:37

I have never been a big fan of the "MN has changed, I remember when it were all fields round here....." posts - I always felt that change and evolution were inevitable, and that, on the whole, the changes were positive, and that MN had stayed the same at heart.

But I'm not sure I feel that way any longer. I think the site has become much more of a commodity - basically all the advertising feels to me as if we, the members, are being sold, en masse, as an audience for the advertisers. In and of itself, this isn't a bad thing - it means that the site has stayed free for its users and hasn't had to charge. But I do feel as if it was the first real sign of MNHQ caring less about what the members felt, and more about the advertisers - I remember people complaining about the advertising banners, and the intrusiveness of them, but they have been left to stand, and have impacted on the experience of the site, in my opinion.

MN is its members. The only reason that MNHQ can raise advertising revenue is because the members of this site have a reputation as intelligent and influential (even if only because there are so many of us). If the quality of the site deteriorates, the advertisers will drift away.

In the past, MN has been full of intelligent, well read, witty, clever, caring, supportive, funny people. Yes, there were trolls and arseholes too, and some nastiness and bitching - but on balance, the decent side of MN won out over the idiots and nastiness. My fear is that we have lost, or are losing, enough of the good posters that the balance has shifted - we are close to the tipping point where the kind, thoughtful, supportive, funny posts will no longer be the majority. If this happens, the decent posters will drift away in ever greater numbers, which will in turn accelerate the decline of the quality of the postings - it's a vicious cycle.

I still read and post on MN, but nowhere near as much as I used to - recent changes in the layout of Last Hour and Last Week have meant that I can't see anywhere near the number of threads I used to, so I know I'm missing out on seeing threads I might otherwise have read and posted on, and it seems pointless to come here if I am not going to see what's happened here.

I value MN - it has meant a lot to me over the years - I have made friends here, learned things, given and received a lot of support, and had many, many laughs, but it feels as if that's finished now.

ibbleobbleblackbubble · 26/08/2017 12:45

it means that the site has stayed free for its users and hasn't had to charge
The forum charging it's users?
that would mean certain death for the forum
it's totally unviable
Come on stop being grateful for the fact that you don't have to pay to use Mumsnet
you work for Mumsnet for free
the value of Mumsnet comes from the writing all the people who post on here and the community created and sustained by all the people who post

BeyondLimitsAndWhatever · 26/08/2017 12:45

On the subject of tipping points, Justine commented on the advertisers story that until the majority of members want to get rid of swearing, it stays. But with the increased membership from outside the initial demographic (and I say this as someone who has never been in the majority demographic, even if I am bloody clever Wink ) and the increased posts with swearing asterisked out, I wonder how far away that tipping point is?

And then similarly, how far away is the tipping point on nestle? Or other banned advertising (gambling is one, I think, for eg)? Or is that a core USP that will remain unaltered?

UrsulaPandress · 26/08/2017 12:48

I do agree SDTG

I used to feel that I learned so much from MN. That my horizons were truly broadened.

But no more.

DameDiazepamTheDramaQueen · 26/08/2017 12:55

Charging for a forum doesn't work. Bad Mother's Club is proof of that.

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