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Original poster

Did you ban John Hemming (the MP) for outing me ?

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CarpeVinum · 21/12/2013 23:47

Cos he isn't on The Thread.

And I'd like to know why.

I am immaginging that the party whip we've been phoning, emailing and twittering has tied him up and run off with his keyboard.

Can I hang on to that fantasy, or did you ban him ?

It's not the end of the world to me that he posted my twitter account, knowing it was me and knowing it was my real name. But I will quickly drum up some minding if required to purge MN of his presence.

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MadameDefarge · 29/12/2013 23:07

Blush Grin

Spero · 29/12/2013 23:07

So,not just don't tell anyone if you think your child has been sexually abused, but don't tell anyone if you are having a mental health crisis and thinking of hurting them yourself.

Nice.

MurderOfGoths · 29/12/2013 23:08

Bloody hell, that thread is rage inducing!

PacificDingbat · 29/12/2013 23:09

Well, I am regularly at the receiving end of such confessions and not once, ever, not a single time as that kind of thing triggered a SS referral. Not a single case of 'forced adoption' in over 20 years of practising.

Where do I go wrong?? Hmm

Feckers.
Dangerous spreading of bizarre urban myths that put vulnerable people off seeking help.

Oh now I'm angry again Angry.

MaryzBoychildCheeszuzCrizpz · 29/12/2013 23:11

wasthatthatguy was around in May 2011, just after melvin got banned stepped down.

this was typical of his "advice"

MadameDefarge · 29/12/2013 23:13

christ on a bike

MaryzBoychildCheeszuzCrizpz · 29/12/2013 23:14

God, it makes me angry.

All these threads happened over a couple of years. And I missed some of them as I never look on legal or on mental health.

But searching his names (and I know he used other names), the advice that was let stand is scary.

The poor op's - already scared, and sometimes ill, and they have the shite frightened out of them by some fucker. And an MP, who should help them, sits by and does nothing.

PacificDingbat · 29/12/2013 23:15

Really: what are they getting out of this??
Genuine question.
They are not just misguided - it just seems more sinister.
V weird and scary.
Sad

MaryzBoychildCheeszuzCrizpz · 29/12/2013 23:15

My last link was to a thread where someone's autistic child was being physically abused by his father.

The advice was to not involve the professionals.

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CarpeVinum · 29/12/2013 23:16

Jesus, it's like some club, determined to scare women into letting men get away with abuse scot free and withput threat of investigation.

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MaryzBoychildCheeszuzCrizpz · 29/12/2013 23:17

Ian Jacobs' site and advice are sinister.

He has some major mental health issues himself, I'm sure of it. Including a severe case of paranoia, and possibly more.

Obviously I shouldn't try to "diagnose" him over the internet - but you have seen the rambling state of his website

It's really quite bizarre.

MadameDefarge · 29/12/2013 23:17

John Hemming has his patriarchal cage rattled when his pregnant gf admitted to her mw she had had a stillbirth in her teens and had never reported it. Therefore naturally it became a child protection issue to be investigated regarding the new baby.

JH was so outraged at ss involvement in his little empire of lurrve that he threatened to sue the social worker appointed to the case personally for damages.

MurderOfGoths · 29/12/2013 23:18

Suddenly very glad that when I was at rock bottom and posting for help on here that none of those aliases showed up to give "advice", would have been just what I needed Hmm

PacificDingbat · 29/12/2013 23:19

Yes, because there ought to be different rules for the important people. Quite right.
Hmm

MadameDefarge · 29/12/2013 23:19

This is all in the public domain, I break no confidence is posting that. I am very sorry for his gf, but that is the root cause, or at least the first time JH took issue with SS over child protection.

PacificDingbat · 29/12/2013 23:21

25000+ forced adoptions in the UK every year. Apparently.

How many adoptions are there in total??

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CarpeVinum · 29/12/2013 23:23

How nice. IJ is practically my neighbour. Next door in France.

I noticed this on his (rather erratic and over font-ed ) site

There are a lot of lunatics and fanatics on the "web"

No shit.

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Spero · 29/12/2013 23:24

Don't forget the 10,000 children from (time unspecified) taken from their families and 'needlessly' adopted. (Refers to spreadsheet).

Do you know, I think I have been on at least 500 romantic mini breaks with George Clooney and James Marsters?

(Just checking to see if typing it actually makes it real)

MadameDefarge · 29/12/2013 23:24

JH is claiming on his twitter feed that children languishing in care is up 48%...

Am jolly confused now. Thought they were are being released for adoption?

PacificDingbat · 29/12/2013 23:25

Almost 4000 adoptions in Englad between April 12 and March 13 - AND 25000+ 'forced adoptions' too.
He does have ishoos, doesn't he? Shame he drags others in to his mad world.

Spero · 29/12/2013 23:25

No, it's only the blue eyed ones who are snatched for forcible adoption. All the rest languish in care as part of state conspiracy because, er, sorry I am late for Brownies.

PacificDingbat · 29/12/2013 23:26

What is he doing in France btw?

Spero · 29/12/2013 23:26

George Clooney has telephoned me over 3,000 times!

(Still nothing)

PacificDingbat · 29/12/2013 23:26

JH, is that you?

MaryzBoychildCheeszuzCrizpz · 29/12/2013 23:27

I dunno, Spero.

A Nigerian millionaire wants to marry me. I'm sure he's a better prospect than George Clooney.