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MNHQ I have a question about posters' history

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W0rmy · 16/02/2012 16:17

I have had a search of this but couldn't find anything so sorry if it's been discussed before and I've missed it.

What is your stance on a poster searching someone's posting history and bringing it up on another thread in an accusatory way or to attack that poster?

completely random and probably feeble e.g "Ah I see you say you bought a budgie and now you've gone and got a cat, that poor budgie I think that's disgusting and cruel"

Is it merely frowned upon, or if one finds it offensive what should one do?

TIA

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OliviaMumsnet · 16/02/2012 18:12

I would think that following the spirit of the site that Ne Cricket Pas
Especially if it's a personal attack. At the same time, this is a public forum.

HTH
M Towers

W0rmy · 16/02/2012 18:26

Thank you, Olivia, that's good enough for me.

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JustHecate · 16/02/2012 18:30

Don't people generally do that search thing when they suspect poster of being of the hairy handed variety?

AlpinePony · 16/02/2012 18:31

How do you differentiate between a poster who searches old threads with "intent" and posters who possess a memory?

I've before been accused of 'stalking' someone, far from it - just remembered what she'd said a week previous.

BeerTricksP0tter · 16/02/2012 18:40

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W0rmy · 16/02/2012 18:41

Yes I think generally Hecate but on occasion it's just to start or stir up more of a ruck where the two are not agreeing on a subject.

Good point AlpinePony some times you do just happen to remember things, and maybe you would do a search to verify what you thought you'd remembered, - all okay in my opinion.

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StealthPolarBear · 16/02/2012 18:41

Olivia are you drunk? That made no sense!

W0rmy · 16/02/2012 18:43

To be fair stealth, she must have been in considerable discomfort what with all the splinters and all.

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cheesesarnie · 16/02/2012 18:46

i remember nothing and am far too lazy to bother searching.

plus i am extremly gullable(sp?)

W0rmy · 16/02/2012 18:49

This wasn't

"i don't believe your story and I'm off to dig up something to discredit you'

it's more

"I really don't agree with you on this so I'm off to find something else you said I don't agree with and tell the other posters on this thread what a disgrace you are in my opinion"

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BeerTricksP0tter · 16/02/2012 18:52

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cheesesarnie · 16/02/2012 18:55

not nice.

ValarMorghulis · 16/02/2012 18:55

I would seriously worry for the mental health of anyone who is inclined to go searching the history of a poster just to throw things at them during an online argument.

bibbitybobbityhat · 16/02/2012 18:56

I remember everything Grin.

Am same with birthdays and other people's car registration numbers - can't help myself.

Btw, what didn't you understand about Olivia's post Stealthy?

flashsale · 16/02/2012 19:01

Valar, have you read any MN threads lately?

Pinot · 16/02/2012 19:04

I remember nothing of any importance, so I'm OK with this.

I can, however, recite Jason Donovan lyrics circa 1991 like that

BeerTricksP0tter · 16/02/2012 19:06

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flashsale · 16/02/2012 19:06

What about the pointed comments about a name change? Like "I see you have only posted on this and two other threads". Very aggressive.

And very irksome to people who have been on MN for yonks and name change to protect their dc.

Pinot · 16/02/2012 19:09

I sing like an angel, me.

BeerTricksP0tter · 16/02/2012 19:11

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nenevomito · 16/02/2012 19:11

Who could you be talking about W0rmy?

bibbitybobbityhat · 16/02/2012 19:13

I have been checking out your recent posts W0rmy Blush cos I am dead nosey. Can't immediately spot who you are having a fight with ... is it several people?

flashsale · 16/02/2012 19:14

So what should one do?

ValarMorghulis · 16/02/2012 19:14

I seem to have bypassed a lot of the more bitchy threads. Plus I am not here as often as many so seem to miss a lot of what goes on.

flashsale · 16/02/2012 19:14

You are very clever then.

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