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Cum control

153 replies

Woody003 · 13/07/2025 23:36

Do many women like idea of controlling how the male cums and when , I had a relationship where the women loved this and at one stage was in chastity , seams in my search it’s a very small market and not that many women like the idea ,,

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bobmcbobb · 11/01/2026 10:08

ExpertInAbsolutelyZero · 11/01/2026 10:05

That looks like a torture device 😬 We’re both content with the one we have now.

Oh no… the torture ones have spikes 😂

ExpertInAbsolutelyZero · 11/01/2026 10:09

bobmcbobb · 11/01/2026 10:08

Oh no… the torture ones have spikes 😂

Even worse 😬😂

bobmcbobb · 11/01/2026 10:11

ExpertInAbsolutelyZero · 11/01/2026 10:09

Even worse 😬😂

This is one I wear

https://amzn.eu/d/fyK20Ln

Amazon.co.uk

Amazon.co.uk

https://amzn.eu/d/fyK20Ln?tag=mumsnet&ascsubtag=mnforum-sex-5373123-cum-control

ExpertInAbsolutelyZero · 11/01/2026 10:13

bobmcbobb · 11/01/2026 10:11

This is one I wear

https://amzn.eu/d/fyK20Ln

😬 Shudders 😬

ExpertInAbsolutelyZero · 11/01/2026 14:45

Well, a different kind of Sunday lunch chat today and my good lady will lock me in my cage tomorrow and control when I am let out for the foreseeable future. 😃😂😬🤣

bobmcbobb · 11/01/2026 14:51

ExpertInAbsolutelyZero · 11/01/2026 14:45

Well, a different kind of Sunday lunch chat today and my good lady will lock me in my cage tomorrow and control when I am let out for the foreseeable future. 😃😂😬🤣

Congrats. It’s the way it’s supposed to be. Women are meant to be in control.

bobmcbobb · 11/01/2026 15:19

Angela59 · 01/11/2025 04:03

It does give a certain sense of confidence and empowerment

How would you feel if she decides to engage in some harmless flirtation whilst your all neatly locked away?

That would be quite hot. Would like to see my wife fulfill her fantasy of dp with two fit guys, while I watch with a spiked cage. The spikes dig in when I get hard. My wife would love all the orgasms.

ExpertInAbsolutelyZero · 12/01/2026 08:14

That’s it, the start of my new caged life for as long as my good lady decides.

ExpertInAbsolutelyZero · 20/01/2026 14:16

9 days in and I’ve only been unlocked long enough for my good lady to put me into a new metal cage she bought for me. Thankfully it is more comfortable than the first resin one.

HedgehogTiggyWinkle · 20/01/2026 18:55

The metal cage type are far more hygienic and easy to clean.

girlfromyorkshire · 24/01/2026 19:40

HedgehogTiggyWinkle · 20/01/2026 18:55

The metal cage type are far more hygienic and easy to clean.

If anyone is looking for a recommendation, this is the one my husband has now.

kink3d.com/products/cobra-r-plus-chastity-kit-aqua-blue

We got him a cheap one initially but this one fits much better, does the job and looks really good.

I'm at my parents for a long weekend and he agreed to wear it for the 4 days I'm away, which will be the longest he has had it one so far.

ExpertInAbsolutelyZero · 26/01/2026 09:37

I hope you left him an emergency key 🤔

Is this you starting to enjoy being in control s bit more?

girlfromyorkshire · 27/01/2026 00:42

ExpertInAbsolutelyZero · 26/01/2026 09:37

I hope you left him an emergency key 🤔

Is this you starting to enjoy being in control s bit more?

I'm not really into the control aspect of it for myself at all, mostly I just like the idea that he is wearing something that is a bit kinky and that nobody else knows about or would suspect at all. I actually like the look of the cage on him when he is wearing it and just knowing that he hasn't masturbated is a huge turn on.

ExpertInAbsolutelyZero · 27/01/2026 16:28

girlfromyorkshire · 27/01/2026 00:42

I'm not really into the control aspect of it for myself at all, mostly I just like the idea that he is wearing something that is a bit kinky and that nobody else knows about or would suspect at all. I actually like the look of the cage on him when he is wearing it and just knowing that he hasn't masturbated is a huge turn on.

That’s fair enough. I know what you mean about liking the look of it on him, my good lady and I like how mine looks on me. Although she has become more keen on the control aspect than either of us imagined at first.

ExpertInAbsolutelyZero · 02/02/2026 11:27

I was uncaged for going swimming yesterday. My good lady unlocked me in the changing cubicle then I was locked up again immediately after showering. She is really enjoying the control 🤣

ExpertInAbsolutelyZero · 09/02/2026 13:14

That’s 4 weeks locked and my good lady reminded me that it’s not even as long as locktober, so no chance of being unlocked soon!

ExpertInAbsolutelyZero · 12/02/2026 19:24

I thought I was getting out today because my good lady gave me the key, but it was only to swap cages back to the original one. And to tell me to update this thread. She is fully into this now 🤔

HedgehogTiggyWinkle · 12/02/2026 19:53

Too roomy?

ExpertInAbsolutelyZero · 12/02/2026 19:56

She said she fancied a change, simple as that. Not too roomy, both are quite snug tbh.

ExpertInAbsolutelyZero · 16/02/2026 21:49

I was still caged all Valentine’s day. My good lady is enjoying this too much 🤣

ExpertInAbsolutelyZero · 23/02/2026 09:59

And this morning my good lady removed the cage. And now that feels a bit strange 🤔

CATomas · 23/02/2026 14:32

Weird.

ExpertInAbsolutelyZero · 20/03/2026 11:30

Apparently I’ve agreed to be locked up again on Monday. My good lady is making a convincing argument, so I expect she’ll get her way 😂

ruffler45 · 20/03/2026 17:48

Take your "punishment" like a man...

You know you want to 😂

Redstorm100 · 21/03/2026 07:15

Mines asked me to lock up today and it might come off later. Realistically I think the chances are pretty slim. I think for a lot of women its the total control and power that they like

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