Cum control

[Woody003]

Do many women like idea of controlling how the male cums and when , I had a relationship where the women loved this and at one stage was in chastity , seams in my search it’s a very small market and not that many women like the idea ,,

Your giving my wife ideas lol

Myself and my husband have been having alot of fun with me doing some stuff that is probably very vanilla to some but to me is a big deal that gets other rmens attention and makes husband a bit jealous. Its been a big turns on for us both especially paired with me denying him sex

Youll love your new sexy confident flirty wife xx

Definitely good advice as it needs to be effective and comfortable for long term wear (days and weeks). We have no experience with chastity before but though it would be interesting to try 'Locktober' and got lucky with a cage type that worked for him and was comfortable to wear.

My husband has been used to masturbating regularly since he started so this is the longest he has gone without wanking for a long time.

Where did you get the cage?

Google holytrainer

A girlfriend of mine has done the whole month and has enjoyed how compliant & considerate her husband has become in such a short time.
She says that he seems to like his new teasing flirty wife too.
Discussing how it had gone last night, over Prosecco of course we had a right giggle thinking about telling him he she might consider NOvember where he stays caged 😂😂😂

Thank you, I’ll have a look.

Interesting choices. My good lady likes the transparent ones.

Transparent pink here just for the added humiliation

Humiliation? Who gets to see it apart from you and DP?

No one but she will wear the key in public which is quite embarrasing

We’re not into humiliation/embarrassment aspect. My good lady likes me to be dominant in the bedroom so when I asked how she would be dominant for a change she joked she’d lock me up so she was in total control. I joked “go on then” and it’s since become something we’d both like to try.

I'm sure the type made of stainless steel rings are the most hygienic. You can easily wash and dry it several times a day and air can circulate, except when the poor little thing is bulging and swelling in a futile attempt to burst out.

The plastic tubes are liable to cause splashing every time the wearer has a pee, and are far harder to clean and dry.

Steel also looks more serious and manly, if you like that sort of thing. It needs to be a snug fit even when fully relaxed.

We’ve agreed I’ll wear whatever my good lady chooses, and from the day it arrives.

You would do better to start out by trying it for fit, hygiene and comfort, for short periods and gradually increasing.

Most people over optimistically start by buying one that is too big because they think it will be more comfortable and allow for expansion. In fact, a snug one is more comfortable and provides better control.

Good luck.

Thank you. She measured me following the instructions on the website, so we’re both quite confident it will fit nicely.

We got my husbands from Kink3d.com, lots of choices to get the correct size. Very discreet, you can't see it other than in tight underwear / lycra shorts.

Thank you for that info @lauraUK1000 . I trust my good lady so I’ll wear what she chooses. How are you and your husband getting in with it?

We’ve not actually got a cage as we don’t feel quite ready for that.

I hope this doesn’t sound like a stupid question but how should I tease him?

My cage has been ordered and my dear lady will not tell me what she’s bought, just that it will be here by the weekend. I’m nervously excited that we’ve taken that step 🙂

It's been really fun actually! We are not really into the 'lifestyle' all but it did seem to be interesting to see how long he could go without cumming on his own and waiting until we we together for his orgasm.

He says he hasn't minded wearing the cage to now, it actually looks good and is blue colored. He's been to work with it on, to the gym and out for drinks with his mates, but obviously has kept it hidden away!

I guess I have all that to look forward to 😂 Have you let him out at all? I take it he didn’t use the showers at the gym? 🤔

Well, the weekend arrived earlier than expected. My dear lady texted me to say the cage has been delivered and she will lock me up when I get home from work. The reality is kicking in now, we’re going to our usual pub quiz tonight and I will have to wear it there too 🤪

He's actually been wearing it most of the time, but we have taken it off to have sex a few times and to give it a clean. He says it's been comfortable to wear so the rest of the time it has stayed on. For the gym, he says the showers are quite private so has just picked his time to be discreet and keep it unseen.

We are planning to take it off on Saturday morning and he will have done all of Locktober, unless he wanted to leave it on for any reason and maybe try November also.