Cum control

[Woody003]

Do many women like idea of controlling how the male cums and when , I had a relationship where the women loved this and at one stage was in chastity , seams in my search it’s a very small market and not that many women like the idea ,,

I was also wondering this, I think Id be ready to pop after 10 days of being locked up. Can imagine it’s a great feeling when you’re finally free though!

I'm half expecting it to be a cage with spikes on the inside too.

Ouch that would stop you having any kind of thoughts that may set you off. It must get more and more difficult as time goes on?

It's not me caged, but curious about it. I doubt very much whether the pain there would ever train the thoughts out of me.

Yes I would be the same - I am curious about it too but no experience..

Lock yourself up, send me the keys then you’ll have the experience 💁‍♀️

Thats very kind but then I will be in your hands! 😂

It was uncomfortable at first but not unbearably painful. Growth seemed to adapt to the confines of the cage but was normal again when I was freed at the end of the period.

That would be a step too far for me, it’s not going to happen.

It is a few things for me, firstly just that he is wearing a cage on his cock, it looks good too. Also that nobody else has any idea or would suspect anything and it is tucked away in his underwear while we are drinking in the pub!

I'm not really that excited by the 'control' for any extended time period, he can take it off when he wants, but it is fun if he wears it for a few hours if I go out and and I know he can't wank while I'm gone. 😁

Exactly, & now his focus is on you and his release. Try some mild control, say things like, could you just do this and that whilst I’m out? Maybe reward him on your return if he’s done a good job?
Id even go as far to say I consider it a healthy option.

Angela is right about focus. When I had a GF who liked this (she was not a beginner) I didn't recognise the pattern because it wasn't something I knew about. But a man learns to concentrate on pleasing his wife and derives emotional fulfillment from it. After a few weeks we were both very happy with it.

It must be consensual, of course.

I spoke too soon. We agreed I’d be caged two days each month as well as locktober. My good lady chose tonight and New Year’s Day for January 😮🤣

Good increase it by a day or two a month and you’ll be ready for Loctober, you’ll be amazed at how you focus on your wife more subconsciously

My bestie effeminate pal goes weeks sometimes, I forget lol
He asks me for the key 😀

Had dinner at my parents today and a couple of drinks in the pub with my husband wearing his today. It is fun! 😀

I was that husband, not yours obviously, but I was serving my good lady’s friends and their partners when wearing mine for new year’s eve. Yes, they knew too.

My good lady has extended the two days, I’m still caged. She had taken to this like a duck to water 😂

Something for the new year to add an extra level of spice is having her wear the key round her neck in public , I blush whenever someone spots it

My good lady likes that idea, so said she’ll do it next time.

Spikes are nice. I asked my wife to dig her nails into me in the past, and she was surprised at first, but now she does it sometimes on her own. I bought a ring recently which has spikes on the inside. I am thinking to slip it on, and then ask her to give me a bj, so I rise to the occasion. I want her to hurt it.

My good lady is now suggesting she locks me in my cage more or less permanently and she decides when I’m unlocked. My reward will be she gives herself completely when I’m unlocked. Something to think about.

Well if you really love her you’ll let her cage you and also consider one of the cages with a sound too so that it is really locked in place. I think really men are supposed to belong to their partners

A cage with a sound?

Yes like this one

https://chastity-devices.com/products/asylum-6-urethral-chastity-cage

so the metal tube goes down the urethra and helps lock it in place permanently until she removes it. Tube is hollow so you can still pee.

That looks like a torture device 😬 We’re both content with the one we have now.