Cum control

[Woody003]

Do many women like idea of controlling how the male cums and when , I had a relationship where the women loved this and at one stage was in chastity , seams in my search it’s a very small market and not that many women like the idea ,,

I'd highly recommend it. My wife has noticed our relationship improves when I'm locked. I'm more willing to please her generally, sexually but also housework !

So no chastity cage involved, which would be interesting I'm sure but not sure how practical, but my husband did say he would stop wanking last month and see what it felt like.

Along with this he really needed to stop watching porn as that is the main trigger and arousal for him needing to masturbate more often. We were on holiday for over 2 weeks in August so this was probably the best time to give it a go with no access to porn unless we were watching it together.

What did we find out? Well after going 3-4 days with masturbating he said he felt constantly aroused generally. He said it was a vey nice but quite frustrating feeling. After about a week, this feeling went away but he was still very easily turned on which was also very enjoyable, for us both and his orgasms were different and stronger.

With some encouragement and being open to discuss it he did manage to keep this up the whole month and we are trying to see how long it can continue if it is still beneficial.

Are you still getting yours whilst he's denied?

The modern cages are super practical check holytrainer as an example.

I can feel a few lock ups in October coming on 😂

Locktober in an annual event by the male chastity community followed by the NOvember event...

A lockup for the whole of October might be fun...😀

Can handle it to an extent but that's nearly impossible

Oh yes, definitely still getting what I need. So far it's been fun to see how long he could go but we have not talked about a cage or anything more serious like that. I do have a girl friend that has mentioned before that her and her husband are into that a little.

Something I've wondered with locktober would the woman not miss PIV sex for the month ?

I expect the idea is that she gets it somewhere else and lets the poor fellow know 🤣

Hadn't thought about that. I'd have assumed it was cunnilingus for the month!

So this definitely got my interest and I looked into further including asking my friend who I know is into it to some degree.

Apparently there are different levels of restriction depending on how into it people want to get. @Redstorm100 @Catullus5 If the man is 'fully' locked up then no PIV and the woman is taken care of with oral, toys and masturbation as needed.

When they are 'into it', usually a couple of times a year, she said they aren't as restrictive and they do take off the cage for PIV, as often as they like, he just doesn't get to masturbate or get off in between or in other ways.

Would you feel any guilt or sympathy?

My wife says it's a sorry not sorry scenario

Not really, my husband has said he notices a big difference in the strength of his orgasm and how easily he gets aroused when he has gone without masturbating for a while. So, as my friend explained to me, they don't really do it for control or dominance situation, it's more about helping him get through urges to masturbate in between PIV sessions.

Fair enough I'm not sure why I expected any to be honest

We both had a look into this since my last post on it and going to try this out in October. He is willing to give it a go and see how it feels.

Trust me it’s great fun

Especially teasing them and the attention lol

Absolutely. I love the extra attention you get

Are you still going or has he given in yet?

Still going, it's actually been quite fun for both of us and he says he has felt hornier since he hasn't been able to wank at all. We have been to the pub a couple of times while he has been wearing the cage and it is a big turn on for me knowing what he has in his pants 😂

Amazing will be intrigued if you last the month

It can be quite a turn on. I also find that teasing him and making him wait can cause some spectacular (and seriously sexy) explosion when he eventually does cum. I love it 😜

Try a bit of harmless flirting with AN Other
drives em crazy when their all locked up 😂

Any more tips? We’re just getting into this (but not doing it at the moment)

Take time to choose a cage that fits and is comfortable
Keep the key in your possession preferably where he can see it as a constant reminder
Tease a lot! lol