Cum control

[Woody003]

Do many women like idea of controlling how the male cums and when , I had a relationship where the women loved this and at one stage was in chastity , seams in my search it’s a very small market and not that many women like the idea ,,

Well done to Mr Laura, that gives me some reassurance about being locked up. That’s me in the cage and it is comfortable, if a bit strange at the moment. My dear lady chose well. I just hope I get through the pub quiz now. And then wonder when she will let me out. We agreed that only my good lady will decide that, and I fear she is enjoying seeing me locked up a bit too much. 😬🤣

You’re probably bored of this now so a final update. My dear lady has decided I’ll do the equivalent of Locktober, so I’ll be uncaged on 29th November 😬 Thank goodness it’s a comfortable cage!

It does give a certain sense of confidence and empowerment

How would you feel if she decides to engage in some harmless flirtation whilst your all neatly locked away?

She already has and it was frustrating.

Ha ha suck it up buttercup

You'll enjoy your new sexy confident woman…….. eventually xx

That’s all I can do 😉 my dear lady is in control.

Had a phase where my partner really liked teasing and controlling stuff, and it made things way hotter than usual.

Watching some hentai anime with teasing tension kind of reminded me of that, the way characters control or play with each other can be surprisingly sexy.

The last 6 days 😃

I would like to get one for my DH
I wonder how you bring the conversation round to get him to try it and put it on
As he’s getting older I’m sure his volume is getting less
maybe he’s sorting himself out too much
one of those contraptions would sort that out 😂

Mine was an unexpected answer to a question I asked, so it was a direct statement, then we discussed it and I agreed. Maybe just say you’d like for you both to get the experience?

And that’s the end of my late locktober. I’m free again 😀.

Hi there, anyone else playing over the holidays? We’re having some fun. Well, I am anyway. Think the poor boy is getting quite desperate 😂

How long has it been?

10 days. Maybe tame for some but longest we’ve gone (or he’s gone I should say)

That is a long time. I would be getting very edgy! Is he fully caged?

I presume you both get something out of everyone knowing he's not be able to do anything for the last ten days!

Yep!

You can probably squeeze it into a 65mm cage.

I think women want control in the relationship but not in the bedroom.

How do you mean?

I found this funny, too. Well done!

After reading this thread earlier in the year we decided to get a cage and see if there was some good fun to be had with the husband wearing it. We have been to a few places and stayed over at family with him wearing it and I have to say it is a huge turn on knowing what he has on down there.

Is it a turn on that your in control or is it the tease?

We’re not playing right now, it’s only a month since I was uncaged! Next locktober though, I’m doing the full month.
@willitdoit is your dp enjoying it too?

What happens when you get excited? Is it not painful?