Cum control

[Woody003]

Do many women like idea of controlling how the male cums and when , I had a relationship where the women loved this and at one stage was in chastity , seams in my search it’s a very small market and not that many women like the idea ,,

Mate there are websites where you can find people who are into the same kink…. 🙄surely that’s easier than posting here

@Woody003

Doesn’t interest me I have to say 😂

But that would involve dominating the man wouldn’t it? That’s not my thing anyway.

….. on a much simpler level, if we’re talking about “edging” then yes, plenty of ladies I’ve known get great pleasure from dicktating when her lover cums…..that’s part of the fun isn’t it sometimes??

I have, for a number of years been friends with a guy that likes this x

Not everyone’s cup of tea I know

I don't mind when he cums as long as there is some left for me! I will say though it is a big turn if he tells me he hasn't cum for a good few days and resisted the urge to have a wank!

I love that too!

We have sex usually 2-3 times a week so I don't mind how often he cums at all from this. I do like the idea of him not wanking at all and not cumming in between this and saving it for when we are together.

I have a thing for saving myself for a big release, I've found a couple of days then some edging will maximise results as it were.

It is particularly exciting to save it for DW but unfortunately for me the vast majority of the time it ends up being for solo play, but it's still exciting.

Majority of men are open to playful chastity control.
it’s fun x

And the women that like it must be all hiding he he

I'm not sure he would be into serious chastity but the thought of him denying himself and waiting for his orgasm would be a huge turn on for me.

Exactly !

it’s fun and men seem to like it x

I told my husband about this thread and showed him to see what his thoughts would be. Surprisingly he said he would be up to give it a go for month if it was something I would really like! His biggest problem is avoiding watching porn as this is a big influence on how much he would masturbate.

Chastity cage all the way!

Words work for me, oddly enough. All she has to do is say something erotic or kinky and I explode.

Now that would be funny! It will be interesting to see how long he can manage.

Trust me it’s great fun having them beg you for release x

I think you missed out the word “not “ in your opening statement

It's such a nice thing for him to do, saving it up for me. I love that.

We do this and both enjoy it. We often abstain for a few days as well

Its not about how long he can manage - its how long he HAS TO to manage until you let him out hehe 😂

I certainly wouldn't be against the idea and my husband gets aroused much easier when he hasn't been masturbating between us having sex.

Exactly

And their focus is solely on you when there locked up and you have the key!

We have played around with this and it is a huge turn on for both of us