Is your husband turned on by the thought of you being intimate with another guy?

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It's actually quite common but guys tend to either not know, supress it or keep it a secret for various reasons.
It tends to reveal itself when a wife confesses to cheating and he finds himself with a raging hard-on.

I'm curious about how many couples are open about this.

There are usually clues such as the types of porn he watches, if he likes to watch you with a dildo (usually one bigger than his own dick), if he likes you to dress revealingly around other men etc.
You can usually test him by telling him about a "dream" or past experience you had where another guy gave you a mindblowing experience, he might protest verbally but his dick might say otherwise.

This is the exact reason l rarely mention my bi side to a man. I don’t want to be asked for a floorshow and to become a male entertainment centre.

I wonder if any women would like to watch their man with another man...

I don't blame you.
From my point of view, fantasy is just that, nothing to do with reality.
And we , together or alone have ever been asked to join in with any of our gay/ lesbian friends.

It seems less likely as the fetish is about ownership and humiliation

@StarlightLady “ entertainment centre” really tickled me! You put it well 😅

I'd argue that for most men you're an entertainment centre regardless of your bi side.

Maybe I'm just jaded.

I don't profess to know what it's about; but I'm not sure that's it. I suspect that at the heart of it is the fact that (weirdly) men see lesbians as non-competitive. Because what lesbian couple isn't really just waiting for a big dick to come along and make the sex better...

Man as saviour - again

Ah no I misread your question as women wanting to see their man with another woman.

Me! This is my guilty pleasure. I’d never admit this out loud.

What an intriguing topic - I am happy to see there are others that think like me. I have been feeling about wanting to share my wife with another guy. She loves sex, and often say "we should have sex all night", so it kind of makes sense to have two guys spoil her.

So the other day she saw some MMF pics on my phone, and that night she went wild in bed. We will see if we just keep at that, or perhaps take it further.

My wife has enjoyed the attention of several men and me at the same time over the years. She rather enjoys it!

Sometimes it backfires. A former flame confessed to a three-way with a prior boyfriend and his male friend and he never talked to her again except to tell her it was over between them. I saw a movie with a similar result. A subplot in the film, but the couple broke up.

It absolutely depends on the people involved.

I'm not sure I like the sound of that at all, from your point of view not the wife's.
Did you find it a turn on at all or just a chore?

@YehaaYessir · It was an extension of a friendship Right at the time, but not for everyone.

To add, l was half asleep when l posted yesterday, l wouldn’t do anything sexual that l found a chore. The key ingredient with sex is passion.

This is extremely horny. I could happily do thar.

So you fancied the guy you gave the BJ to?

Not in a threatening way. I don’t go through life doing things with people l don’t like.

I think this can be a good thing within a marriage. It keeps things alive, and 9ften marriages can strengthen because of it. My wife has had a lover for five years and it stabilised our marriage. There's been a few bumps in the road but overall, its a good thing.

I am a husband, and god no, it doesn't. Doesn't matter if it's another woman or a man, a big old no. And I feel lucky that our needs and desires align with my wife. I could not take part in sharing our intimacy. We have very open an honest communication, we openly talk about kinks and what turn us on.. and this world is foreign for both of us, luckily. It would be a problem if one of us would want it while the other one is against it.

Out of all the people I know personally who have done something like that, way more couples have caused irreversible damage with opening things up than those who happily go ahead with this as a lifestyle.

Definitely a fantasy that's crossed my mind but only if it was on holiday, with a good looking younger guy taking an interest in my wife. Have had couple of instances on holiday abroad where younger waiters have flirted with my wife but we were out with the kids and felt bit weird in that situation to be honest. Probably going to just stay as occasional fantasy with less than 1% chance of it happening in reality!

My husband and I do that regularly. He likes to watch and also likes hearing me share intimate details of my experiences with other men. But likewise, I talk my friends into sleeping with him so that way it's kind of even. I don't care about watching them as much as he enjoys watching me, but I get a kick out of my friends taking pleasure from him. Sometimes we role play "cheating spouse" games where we try to have sex with someone else without the other finding out, but we must both be home at the same time. Then we talk about the experience when we go to bed. It's a lot of fun.

I said before that if he asked me I'd do it, but now after reading everyone else's posts, it has become my biggest fantasy. I would absolutely love to do it.

Standby for some PM offers! 😀