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Is your husband turned on by the thought of you being intimate with another guy?

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ibegyounotto · 26/06/2024 13:56

It's actually quite common but guys tend to either not know, supress it or keep it a secret for various reasons.
It tends to reveal itself when a wife confesses to cheating and he finds himself with a raging hard-on.

I'm curious about how many couples are open about this.

There are usually clues such as the types of porn he watches, if he likes to watch you with a dildo (usually one bigger than his own dick), if he likes you to dress revealingly around other men etc.
You can usually test him by telling him about a "dream" or past experience you had where another guy gave you a mindblowing experience, he might protest verbally but his dick might say otherwise.

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StarlightLady · 27/09/2025 09:37

Olddad72 · 27/09/2025 08:05

As just a fantasy it's something that I think of time to time but not as often as I would imagine my wife with another woman. ( I know, predictable man).
I'm fairly confident that my wife doesn't fantasize about me watching her at all and if the roles were reversed, her watching me with another woman or man wouldn't float her boat. Having said that I've never asked her.

This is the exact reason l rarely mention my bi side to a man. I don’t want to be asked for a floorshow and to become a male entertainment centre.

Emptyandsad · 27/09/2025 10:12

I wonder if any women would like to watch their man with another man...

Olddad72 · 27/09/2025 11:23

StarlightLady · 27/09/2025 09:37

This is the exact reason l rarely mention my bi side to a man. I don’t want to be asked for a floorshow and to become a male entertainment centre.

I don't blame you.
From my point of view, fantasy is just that, nothing to do with reality.
And we , together or alone have ever been asked to join in with any of our gay/ lesbian friends.

Gymbunny2025 · 27/09/2025 11:36

Emptyandsad · 27/09/2025 10:12

I wonder if any women would like to watch their man with another man...

It seems less likely as the fetish is about ownership and humiliation

Secondstart1001 · 27/09/2025 12:15

@StarlightLady “ entertainment centre” really tickled me! You put it well 😅

AtYourPleasure · 27/09/2025 12:20

StarlightLady · 27/09/2025 09:37

This is the exact reason l rarely mention my bi side to a man. I don’t want to be asked for a floorshow and to become a male entertainment centre.

I'd argue that for most men you're an entertainment centre regardless of your bi side.

Maybe I'm just jaded.

Emptyandsad · 27/09/2025 13:43

Gymbunny2025 · 27/09/2025 11:36

It seems less likely as the fetish is about ownership and humiliation

I don't profess to know what it's about; but I'm not sure that's it. I suspect that at the heart of it is the fact that (weirdly) men see lesbians as non-competitive. Because what lesbian couple isn't really just waiting for a big dick to come along and make the sex better...

Man as saviour - again

Gymbunny2025 · 27/09/2025 16:46

Emptyandsad · 27/09/2025 13:43

I don't profess to know what it's about; but I'm not sure that's it. I suspect that at the heart of it is the fact that (weirdly) men see lesbians as non-competitive. Because what lesbian couple isn't really just waiting for a big dick to come along and make the sex better...

Man as saviour - again

Ah no I misread your question as women wanting to see their man with another woman.

Bishopsbuddy · 28/09/2025 09:13

Emptyandsad · 27/09/2025 10:12

I wonder if any women would like to watch their man with another man...

Me! This is my guilty pleasure. I’d never admit this out loud.

AfricaSun · 05/03/2026 13:49

What an intriguing topic - I am happy to see there are others that think like me. I have been feeling about wanting to share my wife with another guy. She loves sex, and often say "we should have sex all night", so it kind of makes sense to have two guys spoil her.

So the other day she saw some MMF pics on my phone, and that night she went wild in bed. We will see if we just keep at that, or perhaps take it further.

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