Killing Kittens age limit?

[Bengal12]

I am thinking about going to a KK party BUT I’ve heard that their cut off age is 45?
while I am slightly older, I (luckily) don’t look it but I would prefer not to fib about my age, it’s not a school disco!
Any experience of being rejected by KK for being too old?🙄

I messaged Perthshirefox and he got me in

Hey, probably a stupid question... Can you go to a sex party and not have actual PIV sex?

I'd quite like to attend a KK bash or something similar, but don't want to have PIV sex because that just feels too intimate, plus pregnancy and disease concerns.

I'd be up for maybe a bukkake scenario or getting fucked by a girl with a strap on, just don't want to end up preggers or lumbered with some horrible disease.

There’s never any pressure to have PIV, and remember almost everyone uses condoms in my experience in these settings.

I’m assuming at the very least men are wearing condoms and women who are sexually actively are also taking contraceptives.

Some ladies do use ‘back up ‘ contraception in my experience but there are a number who don’t. If a condom splits there is always the Morning After Pill, indeed I know of one now closed venue that illegally held a stock of them!

That’s fair enough if they don’t wish to use contraceptives too, I can imagine that condoms would be strongly recommended though?

I can probably count on 1 hand the number of times I haven’t seen condoms used.

Thanks for this advice. PIV is still a hard no for me. I'm just wondering if there's any point attending in that case. Will people be thinking, 'why the fuck did she come to a sex party if she doesn't want sex?' 😂

What I have in mind is an evening which starts quite formally, like a dinner party where you get to meet interesting people and have good conversations. After dinner, more drinks, flirting, snogging, maybe I blow some guys and get a big facial.

This event looks like it might fit the bill:
https://www.tickettailor.com/events/thefoxden/892697?
Has anyone ever attended?

Have always been intrigued by KK. Would love to attend one day.
Have huge respect for all those who actually take the plunge.

That seems very reasonably priced. Not something I'd thought about before. What are the costs of things like KK?

@Estherpologist I bet the food is shit, but then I suppose that's not really the point.

You can go to any of the events and not have PIV sex. You can go and just watch.

Thank you, that's good to know.

Joined at the weekend and Not sure if I'm overly enamoured so far by it all 😑😑

There's absolutely no pressure to have PIV sex at a party. Some people stay clothed, others get naked. Some people just play with friends, others will approach strangers. You do whatever you're comfortable with.

All parties have condoms readily available but I usually take a little bag with condoms, lube, wet wipes, breath mints and jelly babies.

Parties tend to be quite large affairs... upwards of 300 people... so can be a bit of a sensory overload. These days I prefer smaller gatherings with friends that I made on KK.

Thank you @PinotPony this is good to know. 300 does sound a bit overwhelming, I think I'll go with the dinner party thing I posted upthread.

@WitheringTights000 what's the issue with it? (I'm not a member btw, just wondering about you take on it).

@Heliodor - the dating app part of it is very like tinder....I've had a couple of guys unfriend/unmatch me because I hadn't answered their most recent message 🤣🤣

I'm going to join the ladies chat as im sure its better and attend some socials

@Heliodor - also, you may as well join and see what you think of it! If you really didn't like it you can cancel your membership!

@WitheringTights000 not sure I'm interested in the dating app bit, especially if the men are as needy as you say! I'm looking for an occasional escape from the humdrum, not a boyfriend. 😂

I'm interested in what type of men attend these parties. On a scale of Henry Cavill to Mr Bobby, how attractive would you say they are??

@Heliodor - there are some good looking chaps yes, but no they are not all Henry cavill standard! Who is Mr Bobby? Or do you mean Mr blobby?! ....

@PinotPony would you care to chime in on what the guys are like?! It's early days for me!

Yes, meant Mr Blobby!!

@Heliodor - thought so 😂😂....don't think I've seen any mr blobbys yet! Some creeps though....yes

I'm pretty sure my ex does KK. He's beautiful, also a massive arsehole. I'd really like to avoid running into him.

What sort of creepy behaviour have you come across, @WitheringTights000 ?

@Heliodor - oh really! I'm sure it's easy enough to avoid him, just scroll on by if you see him!

I don't know, maybe I'm just being a little boring/prudish! But I'm 30 and I've been getting crude messages from men that are like 55!

I know it's a sex focused website so maybe I'm being silly but it's a bit kind of 😕 when the men sending those messages are only a few years younger than my parents!

I agree 55 is too old. What's the point of having casual sex unless it's with someone who is physically attractive? It's not like you're going to be experiencing a meeting of minds!!

You're not being silly, those men sound entitled and presumptuous. Ok, so you want sex, but not with grandad!! 🤣

Anyway, I thought the whole USP of KK was that men are not allowed to approach women? When it started way back it was supposed to be centred around women's sexuality, and they screened out less appealing individuals. Now there seems to be much more of a focus on men's preferences. I suppose that makes sense commercially: there's much more demand for this sort of thing from men in comparison to women, plus they're the ones with the money.

E.g. why do they do a burlesque show? I'd personally find it much more erotic to watch a couple of men strip down and fight for the chance to fuck me, but I doubt that'll be on the agenda anytime soon! 🤣