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Killing Kittens age limit?

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Bengal12 · 24/03/2023 22:00

I am thinking about going to a KK party BUT I’ve heard that their cut off age is 45?
while I am slightly older, I (luckily) don’t look it but I would prefer not to fib about my age, it’s not a school disco!
Any experience of being rejected by KK for being too old?🙄

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PinotPony · 30/03/2023 05:22

WitheringTights000 · 29/03/2023 23:39

Are there dating options? Like to find a partner? Or are the guys generally looking for casual?

Yes, people date. I met my BF on there! And I know several couples who've got together having met on KK.

You just have to be upfront about what you're looking for and ask him the same. You might get ghosted, same as any dating scenario, but I usually check whether a prospective date has any "vouches" and then I can ask those girls for a reference. I've also been introduced to guys by friends who thought we'd get on well.

ScottishZoe · 30/03/2023 10:09

WitheringTights000 · 29/03/2023 20:59

I'm trying to move to London but still working on securing employment ....was planning on joining KK once I moved

Can you join without living in London though?

Yes you can join without being in London, I am Scotland based but yes London is a much more active part of the community

Okbyethen · 30/03/2023 10:33

Apologies to jump on the thread but I am so interested in going to a KK party with my husband!
However we both prefer the idea of Mansion rather than Hedonism but there isn't any Mansion parties available to book ☹️

WitheringTights000 · 30/03/2023 16:10

@PinotPony - thank you for your responses! I would be interested in the dating aspect of things but I guess thought maybe the guys in KK wouldn't be into monogamy/would Maybe all be polyamorous

WitheringTights000 · 30/03/2023 19:27

And sorry just to add nothing wrong with polyamory at all but I guess just curious as to whether there are any folk in KK looking for exclusive relationships or whether it's all open relationships!

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Bengal12 · 30/03/2023 20:04

@PinotPony ’a mutual destruction agreement’ - love it!

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ScottishZoe · 30/03/2023 21:30

I think there are some who would be willing to see someone on a monogamous basis, just be clear at what you are looking for.

Should we setup a Mumsnet private chat on KK?

WitheringTights000 · 30/03/2023 22:10

@ScottishZoe - I still need to sign up but yes we should haha 😆

josuk · 31/03/2023 12:04

In my experience - it’s not very likely to run into colleagues/people you know at a KK party. Big venues; people start off wearing masks; night club sort of lighting, etc.
As to the online profiles - many (most?) people don’t post faces and only exchange face photos after chatting and making q connection.

And, even on the off chance you do run into someone - none of you would want to bring it up at the office water cooler. Or - it may give you a little joint secret…

As to dating on KK…. We certainly came across a few couples who met on KK. And some leave KK and go back to monogamy. But more often than not - the KK couples stay on KK and ‘play’ as a couple.

I’d also want to point out an important distinction as someone mentioned polyamory. In my experience - most KK couples are not poly. For eg - me and my partner play with other people - but we don’t enter into emotional relationships with them.

NotNowGertrude · 31/03/2023 12:53

Also interested in going to an event, been thinking about it for a while but going as a group would be awesome

Popatop · 31/03/2023 14:04

It’s fun that so many people on here are up for a party. Thanks for all the info from everyone! Would definitely join the group when it’s made ☺️

ScottishZoe · 31/03/2023 17:09

WitheringTights000 · 30/03/2023 22:10

@ScottishZoe - I still need to sign up but yes we should haha 😆

Brilliant, I'll get a friend of mine who is premium to start a chat room, and people can connect with them in order to be admitted.

DGConsultant · 31/03/2023 20:34

I'd love to tag along...

scrumpledtitskin · 01/04/2023 06:36

@ScottishZoe I've been trying to send you a pm, but it's not working for me. 🤦🏻‍♀️ I'm on kk and would love to join the mn branch chat group 🥳 Could you send me a pm please?

ScottishZoe · 01/04/2023 19:30

Despite all this KK talk tempting me to delay, I've decided to take a little break from KK.

But if you like/add PerthshireFox (Edinburgh) then they can add you to the MN chat group.

WitheringTights000 · 01/04/2023 20:20

@ScottishZoe - is that their username on MN or KK?

I'm yet to Join but will do so this weekend!

Is KK fairly private though in terms of your occupation etc? Or do they look you up on LinkedIn to verify haha

ScottishZoe · 01/04/2023 21:06

Fairly private :)

Zanatdy · 08/04/2023 21:05

Add me into the fun!

PinotPony · 10/04/2023 11:24

I'm PinotPony on there if anyone wants to connect. Just mention that you're from MN...

AHobbyaweek · 17/04/2023 21:32

Spotted some familiar people on KK from this chat. You have inspired me and DH to join and we are really enjoying it so far.

Estherpologist · 18/04/2023 07:11

Anxiodogo · 26/03/2023 18:58

Trying to find out on their website.
i came across this - In our world, if you identify as a cis-gender man (a man whose gender aligns with their sex assigned at birth) you are a Guest. Everyone else (including cis-gender women, trans people of all genders, non-binary people, gender non-conforming people, gender expansive and gender fluid people, as just a few examples) has the opportunity to define as a Kitten, if they so choose.

I get that bad behaviour isn't tolerated, but whata to stop cis men "identifying" as bi just to get kitten status?

NCSexForum · 18/04/2023 08:40

Estherpologist · 18/04/2023 07:11

I get that bad behaviour isn't tolerated, but whata to stop cis men "identifying" as bi just to get kitten status?

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Reading that has made me question what the world has come to.

Estherpologist · 18/04/2023 08:54

NCSexForum · 18/04/2023 08:40

Reading that has made me question what the world has come to.

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I empathise with that - its a rather depressing train of thought - but with recent discussion in both politics and the media of trans issues and unsubstantiated gender identification, it's not difficult to imagine it happening. Especially in the context of sex parties to which only cis men have to be accompanied.
There's part of me that would quite like to go to KK party - I've never heard anything to suggest they're anything but 100% safe, and I'm sure that if anything went wrong, any transgressors would very quickly have a whole host of angry naked people chasing them down the road. But having read @Anxiodogo's quote, if I've thought about it, I'm sure one or two of the tiny number of bad apples have too. And if I were running KK it's something I would at least be thinking about.

josuk · 21/04/2023 11:42

@Estherpologist
It is annoying that the politics of wokeness is now affecting everything, and the effect of this is, as always, making it potentially less safe for us, biological females.
I think like with everything - eventually common sense and safely will start returning - as we see with sports federations protecting women sports, etc.

As to the KK parties - they aren’t self policed by party participants. The venues t
have security personnel. And in reality - even if there were a random bad Apple male, identifying as ‘kitten’ - trying to harass anyone - they will be quickly removed.

WitheringTights000 · 23/04/2023 16:01

Just joined and been verified. How do I join the Mumsnet group on there?

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