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How big is too big?...

130 replies

Tuilpmouse · 08/02/2023 21:53

Just that really... length / girth. No particular reason for the question, just idling away the time...

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SunSmile · 09/02/2023 09:45

Anything above 6 inches most likely

Rieslinger · 09/02/2023 09:49

Length wise anything that pokes your bell as opposed to ringing it is too long?

My DW is one for girth which is a helpful coincidence!

UnreasonabIe · 09/02/2023 09:52

None, husband is an unusual example and there's nothing a little lubricant can't help

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 09/02/2023 09:53

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teaandtoastwithmarmite · 09/02/2023 09:53

For not but

OneMoreCookieMonster · 09/02/2023 09:54

Husband is massive. But was with someone less than 5 inches, it wasn't good. There absolutely is a too small

SunSmile · 09/02/2023 09:54

Rieslinger · 09/02/2023 09:49

Length wise anything that pokes your bell as opposed to ringing it is too long?

My DW is one for girth which is a helpful coincidence!

That’s one way of putting it lol. I’ve never been with someone who is considerably long

ToBeOrNotToBee · 09/02/2023 09:55

I once had a 11 inch shlong and he tore my cervix. Loads of blood and pain which took a while to heal.

It's put me right off big dicks. As in I panic if a match has one.

I do prefer a good girth over a good length.

Perfect for me would be 7 long and pretty wide.

Saying that one of my regular FWB is quite petite, 5inch and not particularly wide, but my god does he reach all the spots and I'm regularly orgasms through PIV with him.

OhAMilkshake · 09/02/2023 09:59

It's completely about what you do with it.
Big dick & no idea is painful.
Small dick & no idea is disappointing.
Girth is good!

Violet90 · 09/02/2023 10:56

No bigger than 6 inches for me, it would be too uncomfortable, girth is good too. This will vary between each woman though.

Thekormachameleon · 09/02/2023 10:57

Vile thread

Imagine a man asking about the perfect sized vagina 🤢

Do better

zen1 · 09/02/2023 11:05

Thekormachameleon · 09/02/2023 10:57

Vile thread

Imagine a man asking about the perfect sized vagina 🤢

Do better

FFS people are allowed to discuss preferences. Men (publicly) comment on the size of women’s breasts all the time.

Rieslinger · 09/02/2023 11:24

Penis size is relatively fixed when erect unless in lower atmospheric pressure even then only marginal changes.

La Vagine however has the ability to accommodate many different sized things from penis to baby heads.

I and none of my friends ever comment on women or parts of them.

So yes IMO keep on discussing size, these are the sex threads after all.

Olaftree · 09/02/2023 11:26

Why is sex on active now?

Jackofallsorts · 09/02/2023 16:06

Nothing as uncomfortable as a very tight vagina IMO

Dinoswearunderpants · 09/02/2023 16:13

Great thread lol

I've seen 10" roughly and thought nope! But there's definitely a too small issue more than too big.

Ideal for me would be 7-8" and reasonable girth. It's all about knowing your positions though...

Original poster
Tuilpmouse · 09/02/2023 20:01

ToBeOrNotToBee · 09/02/2023 09:55

I once had a 11 inch shlong and he tore my cervix. Loads of blood and pain which took a while to heal.

It's put me right off big dicks. As in I panic if a match has one.

I do prefer a good girth over a good length.

Perfect for me would be 7 long and pretty wide.

Saying that one of my regular FWB is quite petite, 5inch and not particularly wide, but my god does he reach all the spots and I'm regularly orgasms through PIV with him.

11 inches! 😲. I can barely imagine, and have never seen anything close! Was he a giant in other respects (ie 7ft+ baller?)

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Samedaysameshit · 09/02/2023 21:20

Anything bigger than the opening of say a standard tin of beans.

taxpayer1 · 09/02/2023 21:24

Thekormachameleon · 09/02/2023 10:57

Vile thread

Imagine a man asking about the perfect sized vagina 🤢

Do better

Thanks. They will be accused of being misogynistic pigs and disrespecting women. Typical men behaviour, blah blah blah

yorkshireteabagman · 09/02/2023 21:51

Just picturing a can of beans whilst idling away the time

Eastereggsboxedupready · 09/02/2023 21:59

One of my exes was a good 12 inches. Quite often felt faint when fully hard. He had issues with feeling used by women who just wanted to test it out. Between me and my mate we referred to him as having a paint roller for a penis!
Obviously had to tell someone about it!!. He struggled with jeans..
Joggers usually!

Original poster
Tuilpmouse · 09/02/2023 22:39

Samedaysameshit · 09/02/2023 21:20

Anything bigger than the opening of say a standard tin of beans.

If you can manage the girth of a beans comfortably, then the vast majority of men must be very disappointing!

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ScottishZoe · 10/02/2023 08:58

Eastereggsboxedupready · 09/02/2023 21:59

One of my exes was a good 12 inches. Quite often felt faint when fully hard. He had issues with feeling used by women who just wanted to test it out. Between me and my mate we referred to him as having a paint roller for a penis!
Obviously had to tell someone about it!!. He struggled with jeans..
Joggers usually!

And it wasn't too big for you or your friend?

ScottishZoe · 10/02/2023 09:03

For me 9" or larger I think would be too big. But there's definitely a too small issue more than too big. And if given a choice between too big or too small, I'd prefer too big, hopefully lubricant and careful with positions we could still have fun, whilst too small is just pointless IMHO.

Ideal for me would be 7-8" and reasonable girth.

@OneMoreCookieMonster I agree below 5" is useless, and I'm talking non-bone pressed length fellas. I thought below 5" would be far too small for most women but with a couple on here saying over 6" would be too big for them, perhaps a 3 or 4 incher would be big enough for them?

OneMoreCookieMonster · 10/02/2023 19:31

@ScottishZoe I couldn't agree more. I was slightly confused by it. Not sure quite where I should have started. But it was often over before I even got started. Much disappointed was had

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