How big is too big?...

[Tuilpmouse]

Just that really... length / girth. No particular reason for the question, just idling away the time...

Who measures? I have no idea!

Same. My ex was about 5" and didn't have a lot of girth and i must say it didn't do much for me. My first boyfriend was 7.5/8 and I guess I am used to that size (or a little bigger)

Years ago hooked up with a spanish guy, about 18 or 19....it was massive...about 12 inches soft....huge..he was good !!..later also hooked up with a guy who was about 10 inches...so boring...took him ages to get hard and cum !

Trust me there are quite many men with 7-8 inches. I've slept with a lot of men and honestly lots of them were in that range. I actually measured my first boyfriends dickand it was a bit over 7.5 inches. After that I basically could guess the size of other men I'd been with. Usually they were at least an inch shorter than his, but there were quite a few that were larger.

As for the '95% of men have a 3.8" to 6.4" penis' claim that @CakeCrumbs44 posted... I seriously question those 'statistics' and take them with a pinch of salt. No way has anyone seen every man's penis in the world LMFAO. What a nonsensical set of statistics.

Then you clearly don't understand how the maths of statistics works. If you take a large enough representative sample, it approximates to the population. For instance a 1,000 sample will be +/- 3% of the population with 95% confidence.

Can all the grim men please go onto all the other sex websites that exist which aren’t on a mother’s forum. Thanks.

This thread is revolting. Not the kind of thing I want to see in Trending.

Why open it then? You can see the title. Avert your fragile little eyes.

I wouldn’t want anything less than 6 inches or anything more than 9.

My FWB had a penis the length and width of my forearm. Wasn't overly impressed to be honest. I'm sure someone else will enjoy it though.

I've been with small, medium and ridiculous but I definitely prefer just an average one.

Agree with others - the quality of the man and his skills, empathy, energy, and givingness in bed are most important.

That said, in terms of size, agree 7inches and girthy is perfect. I also think different penises have different natural angles when erect - and reckon those that head upwards more have a natural tendency to stroke the gspot- at least in face to face positions.

To those saying this thread is revolting, I disagree. I wouldn't have a huge problem with men talking about their favourite vaginas anyway.....But I also think this discussion is different for a couple of reasons:

1. Women historically are condemned for talking or even thinking about their own sexual preferences, desires or comfort. So it's a good antidote to that. Whereas society is over-ridden by the problem of men centring their own sexual pleasure and objectifying women
2. This isn't just a question of random, vague preference. You will notice a lot of comments about avoiding pain, even injury of large penises. Letting something inside your body which can hurt you is a totally different thing from getting to penetrate something else, which basically always feels good on some level and never ever hurts.....

We have every right to talk about what we prefer to allow into our own bodies - both from the pleasure and the pain perspectives.

I think those who dominate the sex board and thought they had a nice seedy little corner all to themselves, need to accept their threads are now in active.

@ThisIsAnAlaia - Why open it then? You can see the title. Avert your fragile little eyes.

I don't want to see Sex threads on trending. That's not why I come to Mumsnet 🤷🏼‍♀️ and I think seeing these threads in Trending cheapens the size and makes it more sleazy.

@piedbeauty I agree, worth telling the Moderators?

Have already contacted Mumsnet. They said they know, other people feel the same, they will think about it.

Why are these shrinking violets clicking these threads if they don't like the contents.

Seriously move on.

MN isn't just made for you, grow up and clutch your pearls harder.

Can't you just hide the topic if you don't want to see it? So many people clicking on threads just now just to state their disapproval, and not just in this topic either 🙄.

Anyway, back to the question, length can be an issue. The worst experience I've ever had was some one with a fairly long but very slender penis, a girthy one the same length probably would have had more friction and not given the poor cervix such a violent poking so while a very short one is indeed disappointing a very long one can no fun either - lube won't help you here

Hate too big. Hurts. 6 inches is good

Why? Just don’t open the thread. Sex is perfectly normal thing for most people to talk about if you don’t like it, don’t read it.

@piedbeauty

If you don't want to read these threads then that's fine, no one is forcing you to look at, let alone engage, with them.

But why do you think you have the right to shut down topics just because they're ones you don't want to engage in

If I'm not into politics, or dogs, or Christmas, or whatever, should I ask MN to close down those parts of the site? I mean really, can you imagine: "Dear MNHQ. I don't come onto MN to read about dogs. There are plenty of sites out there for animal lovers! Please only allow threads that meet the criteria I personally approve of. These are: crocheting, up-cycling and trampolining. Much obliged"

Stop trying to force your prudish values onto others.

The 'Karen's' need to settle down.
Don't like the title, don't click. Very simple. There's a hundred headers I don't click on each day.

This is a SEX FORUM.

Sex includes everything. I've read more shocking things here before, I wasn't offended obviously, but they were more 'woooooah'.

How old are you if you use Karen as an insult? 15?

Anything over 6", from experience 😅

I hate the word girth. 🤢