How big is too big?...

[Tuilpmouse]

Just that really... length / girth. No particular reason for the question, just idling away the time...

Did you date Dirk Diggler?!🤣

I must admit I like a big one - I’ve never measured DH’s but I’d say it’s about 8-9 inches erect. But most important is knowing what to do with it and luckily he does!

@OneMoreCookieMonster I take it you agree that below 5" non-bone pressed is just too small, in my experience the 'extra' bone pressed amount isn't usable.

Yes, these small (can we say tiny?) guys do tend to be premature for some reason, and yes don't feel much if anything at all.

As I saw another woman say when talking about her experience with a small one, visits to the gynecologist are often more eventful.

I had a 'thing' with a friend and he had the largest penis I had ever seen.
The proportions of it were genuinely startling. I had no idea that he was so well endowed.

I was actually grateful that he climaxed during foreplay, cos I wasn't sure that I wanted it inside me. 😬

How long is a piece of string. It will depend on the person. I've been with one guy who I couldn't close my hand around the girth and I have a BIG hand, I'm 5 foot 9. Tried to get it in 3 times and wouldn't fit. This was prior to giving birth.

I see the “man inch” has gotten to a lot of you! 11/12 inch penises are near on unheard of let alone common… the average size of men in the UK is literally just over 5inches and people here are acting as though they’re micro penises

More than 7 inches is too big for me. It's just not enjoyable past that length, and becomes more of a test of endurance!

Hmm, years ago I came across a mammoth one, I remember him saying "you'll get used to it", I thought " nope, and I won't have to". I suppose it was nice of him to imply he wanted to see me again, and he wanted to stay the night after. Unfortunately, had to kick him out and didn't want to see him again as the chemistry was as lacking as his prowess - some rely too much on what they have. Had lovely eyes, but his kisses did nothing for me and just other things about him that gave me the ick.

I agree, I have been to alot of well hung guy events and never seen a 11/12 incher... do you live near nuclear power stations?

Even if it's huge it doesn't make a difference if you don't do any four play... I've had big etc but didn't bother with anything else and it didn't do anything for me other than hurt and for me to finish myself 🤷🏻‍♀️ I find men with biggons tend that be sooooo lazy and such a turn off I've had to finish myself lol

Watching with interest as am with a man who is very insecure about size and Id hate him to read this but he is the only person who has given me piv orgasms

Can someone explain what
non-bone pressed length is?

Yes I'd like to know too🤣

I'm guessing it's the difference between

1. measuring the distance between the flesh at the bottom of the shaft and the tip, and

2. measuring the distance between the flesh at the bottom of the shaft pressed down to the pubic bone and the tip,

I'm thinking that that probably only adds 1/2 inch though. However, it may be more of the man is overweight and carries a lot of fat down there.

I would say larger than 9.5/10" I had 9" before and it was right on the verge of being too big. It had girth as well. Perfect size is about 7.5ish.

My second lover was extremely large. It was difficult to navigate. When I wrapped my hand around it my fingers didn’t meet

I do wonder about these threads and the showing off that tends to creep in. My 1st lover was large or I thought so anyway. It was painful, not just the1st time but every time. DH is a good 2 inches smaller and sex is a lot more enjoyable as I’m not tensing in apprehension etc.

Probably more than 9" is too big. DH is 7.5 to 8". I have had less, (before DH) like 5" and 4". Some say size doesn't matter. It really does! Less than 6" does nothing for me.

Average is about 5-6 inches apparently. 11 inches sounds unlikely and a bit uncomfortable.

My husband is a bit smaller than average and I have no complaints at all. I would be interested to see how it's different with a larger guy, but obviously I'm not going to find out.

I do love reading alien romance novels about guys with giant dicks though 😁. A bit of escapism but not for me IRL

95% of erect penises fall within the range of 9.8 cm (3.86 in) to 16.44 cm (6.47 in)

"Am I normal? A systematic review and construction of nomograms for flaccid and erect penis length and circumference in up to 15,521 men." David Veale, Sarah Miles, Sally Bramley, Gordon Muir, and John Hodsoll. BJU International; Published Online: March 3, 2015

I'd much rather it was smaller, can't abide having it bashing away on my cervix. Although I've met men who thought bashing away on your cervix was the same as hitting your g spot......

Cakecrumbs44 this is why I keep wondering why women on here are claiming their partners have 7-8" dicks. It's not normal!

I think it's way more important that they know how to use it to be honest.

Oh god. I mean men can't help their natural bodies any more than women can can they ?

Surely there's a work around for the " problems " on either side of the size spectrum. As long as a partner has an interest in ensuring you enjoy yourself then that should be the main thing. After all 3 inches or 12 inches its only gonna be as good as the guy actually wants it to be.

I have so many hang ups about my body id certainly not want to inflict similar on a partner for something they can't help.

As much as anything can be a deal breaker as no one should be in a relationship they don't want to be in and I dislike the idea of some list of " acceptable reasons " to dump someone, having a laugh at or seeing someone's penis as a challenge is pretty cruel. Id hate it if I thought someone was laughing at my fat arse

@MigGirl

Some men do have a larger penis though. Just because you don't believe it doesn't make it any less true. You sound like one of those posters who refuses to believe some people on here earn £100K + a year, or are a size 8, and 8 stone, with a 25" waist. Just because it doesn't apply to YOU - and you know no-one this applies to, that doesn't mean they don't exist!

Sounds like you're projecting to be honest. If you are happy with a man with a smaller penis, then crack on. I wouldn't be. That is my right. Just as some men prefer a slim woman, or a woman who has a decent job or career, or blonde women.

As for the '95% of men have a 3.8" to 6.4" penis' claim that @CakeCrumbs44 posted... I seriously question those 'statistics' and take them with a pinch of salt. No way has anyone seen every man's penis in the world LMFAO. What a nonsensical set of statistics.

Along with the 3 or 4 men I have shagged before I met DH who had 4-5" penises, I also shagged around 9 or 10 other men - and they had around a 6.5 to 9" penis. So it's rubbish that 95% of men have a penis that is less than 6 and a half inches. It may be a reasonable percentage, but like fuck is it 95%!

Oh, and trust me, men with a larger penis DO know how to use it. My 7.5" to 8" DH does.

As for people judging other peoples bodies @Whatwouldscullydo EVERYONE does that. Everyone! Men AND women. Men judge women AND other men. And women judge men AND other women. Don't even try to pretend that's not true!

No way has anyone seen every man's penis in the world LMFAO. What a nonsensical set of statistics.

Obviously they haven't seen every penis in the world 🙄. That's not how statistics work. This is a published study with a sample size of over 15,000 which is enough to get a representative data set. I'm sure if you look up the article, which I put the reference for, they have confidence intervals etc published there.

It would be more nonsensical, and unnecessary, to try and measure every penis in the world.

I will believe their accurately measured sample size of 15000 over your sample size of 15, presumably guesstimated (and we tend to over estimate these sort of things)