To want sexy photos of us in the bathroom?

[crazykoo124]

Strange title I know

Weve finally moved into our new house and I’ve finally got my dream of my walk in wardrobe and an en-suite (small to be fair, but nevertheless a dream come true for me). We took some “sexy photos” a while ago professionally which were supposed to just be for us and we loved them but haven’t shown anyone! (Think embracing topless in jeans from the back but tasteful in black and with no nudity shown). I’d really love to put them in my wardrobe or my bathroom, as this will only be used by us, but he’s worried about others seeing😥 no kids at home by the way but nieces and nephews do visit but are v small at the moment

Is it a stupid idea? I think we look great and I think he’s being a bit of a prude if I’m honest!

Would you ever do the same??

So depressing to see such snide posts. The OP loves the pics, why be mean?

I got a walk through wardrobe into a (huge) en suite. I ADORED it. Designed the entire house around it. Totally happy to admit that and think maybe people don’t realise what they are missing
Those photos in your private area seem reasonable but I agree probably won’t work if the other person doesn’t want them. Are there ones with just you?

At some point other people will see them. There will be some reason why someone goes into your ensuite or walk in wardrobe. Probably not very often but it will come up eventually.

As long as you're happy with that I see no reason why not, but for the record I agree with your DH - I wouldn't want to display them anywhere because I wouldn't want someone else to see them.

If the pics were just of you and you wanted to put them on the wall I’d say go for it. But if you wanted to put them on the wall I think you should have been upfront with your DH before he agreed to the photoshoot. It’s totally your DH’s decision if he doesn’t want others to see certain photos of himself.

@Backtomyself

I genuinely don't know why people have photos of themselves in their houses at all. Staged ones I mean. What's the point? Do people really like looking at themselves this much?

Think I'm on the wrong thread.

Memories

I have to say though I'm amazed how many comments are about the husbands comfort/opinion.

"If he's not happy dont do it" etc, very different to most threads where the advice is "just tell them you're doing it and do it"

I wouldn't personally as I'd find it embarrassing, but then I also can't stand pregnancy photo shoots and they're so popular.

I think asking him one more time is awful.

Christ, anybody visiting out house has to practically avert their eyes once they start making their way up the stairs . DH is a professional artist though, and there are no images of us together.

Absolutely put them up if you want to, @crazykoo124.

*our house, not the outhouse- there's nothing in the outside privy .

You know your mum and dad are going to walk in there, right after the fire brigade, when you're on holiday. Be warned, these things happen to someone..,

It happened to me.

I'm not sure why some people are so keen to tell OP that it isnt their taste? Congratulations on being so 'sophisticated'. OP you've taken it very well. Crack on and put them wherever you like

At some point you'll probably have an electrician, or plumber or decorator who will see them, and they may take a picture of them with their phone. Or in-laws!

Not my personal cup of tea- especially as I take a horrible photo! However, if it is your cup of tea, go for it! 😁

I read @FamilyOfAliens comment as she couldn't imagine people wanting a walk-in wardrobe, rather than couldn't imagine people not having one!

Perhaps you have rather more clothes than she does? (and definitely more than I do)

I assumed you were trying to talk your dh into sexily posing with you, perhaps lounging on the bath edge or embracing in the shower. But disappointed really.

When I read the title I thought you wanted to get sexy pics taken of you and your oh in the bathroom, I was gonna say if that's what you both want and are comfortable with, then go for it but then read your op and realised where I went wrong 🤣 think lockdown is getting to me!
I probably wouldn't if it's going to cause anxiety for your oh. If every time you guys have a visitor he's going to be anxious that there'll be a bathroom emergency where your ensuite will be used by your visitor and see the pics, it wouldn't be worth it to me. If your oh is comfortable with it going in the walk in wardrobe i would put it in there instead though.

On MN there are hundreds of people from family, your mum, neighbours, random people staying over, builders, delivery men, people parked outside your house all waiting to use your en-suite.

If you’re happy for them to see the photos go for it

Surely you must post the photos on here, so we can make an informed opinion.

Can I ask a question about walk in wardrobes please?

DH is really keen on one —for his bloody endless shoe and jacket collection—

To me the point of a wardrobe is it keeps your clothes hidden behind something sleek and also keeps dust off them. Does not having them on display in a room negate all of that? (I don’t get it!)

Oh and I wouldn’t put them up if he’s really uncomfortable, regardless of what the photo is. Shame though if you love them.

Oh dear please don’t do this it’s so tacky

Only someone like Paris Hilton could get away with this.

Wrong, just wrong

I had a walk in wardrobe while on holiday in America. I absolutely loved it . Put your pictures wherever you wish. It’s nobody else’s business.

What about some modesty curtains for when guests are round?

For me it is utterly tasteless and crass, but it is your house so up to you.

I don't think you can put them up if your dh doesn't want them to be on display though. I get the feeling he was cringing throughout the photoshoot, so I am not sure why he needs to be reminded of that every day! But hey ho, your house your choice.