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To want sexy photos of us in the bathroom?

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crazykoo124 · 16/02/2021 23:47

Strange title I know

Weve finally moved into our new house and I’ve finally got my dream of my walk in wardrobe and an en-suite (small to be fair, but nevertheless a dream come true for me). We took some “sexy photos” a while ago professionally which were supposed to just be for us and we loved them but haven’t shown anyone! (Think embracing topless in jeans from the back but tasteful in black and with no nudity shown). I’d really love to put them in my wardrobe or my bathroom, as this will only be used by us, but he’s worried about others seeing😥 no kids at home by the way but nieces and nephews do visit but are v small at the moment

Is it a stupid idea? I think we look great and I think he’s being a bit of a prude if I’m honest!

Would you ever do the same??

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kickingk16 · 17/02/2021 00:23

Just don’t forget to take them down if you ever sell your house. I once did a viewing round a house where they’d left up some sexy boudoir pics on the bedroom wall. As it was the owners showing us round it was a bit awkward...

UnwantedOpinionBelow · 17/02/2021 00:25

I for one, would love a walk-in wardrobe!!!!

Also, if you both agree on the picture eventually, why the hell not?!

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crazykoo124 · 17/02/2021 00:25

@Sapho47 nice find! I think that’s still more revealing than our photo and they look AMAZING. Ours look a bit more realistic :/ but beautiful in my eyes nonetheless:

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crazykoo124 · 17/02/2021 00:25

@kickingk16 oh no hahahahaha

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Wingedharpy · 17/02/2021 00:27

Would a steamy bathroom not ruin your steamy photos?

FossilisedFanny · 17/02/2021 00:27

would never dream of putting anything up that hubby doesn’t agree to, esp not intimate photos. Just wondering whether I’m right to bug him anymore about the topic

If he doesn’t agree then stop bugging him.

SleepingStandingUp · 17/02/2021 00:28

@FamilyOfAliens

It's a, dream of mine too, most people don't have big enough houses!

Every day really is a school day on Mumsnet.

You've just learnt that not everyone has room for a walk in wardrobe? Wow, you need to mix more....
Sapho47 · 17/02/2021 00:30

[quote crazykoo124]@Sapho47 nice find! I think that’s still more revealing than our photo and they look AMAZING. Ours look a bit more realistic :/ but beautiful in my eyes nonetheless:[/quote]
Haha I just typed your description into Google

SleepingStandingUp · 17/02/2021 00:32

@Reinventinganna

It would tell me everything (and more) that I needed to know about a person.

No to everything.

Not as much as the kind of person who snoops in my walk in wardrobe....
katy1213 · 17/02/2021 00:33

Not sure it's all that romantic sitting on the loo admiring yourself, with your knickers around your ankles - but whatever turns you on.

Although next time you need a plumber????

StillMedusa · 17/02/2021 00:34

If dh is not happy..then no don't do that to him! If I went to my brother's house and saw such a pic..yes I'd tease him (sorry!)

We have THE photo... my Step Mother (who was stunning and a professional photographer herself) laying naked across a Harley Motorbike. .. it's a HUGE photo and since she and my Dad have now died, I inherited it. We have threatened my daughter with having to hang it as she's moving into her own house Grin

Just no..

BoomBoomsCousin · 17/02/2021 00:39

I can think of little worse than “arty” photos of me to stare at while I’m sitting on the loo. It wouldn’t be about them being revealing, more about the stagedness(?new word?!). I would constantly be reminded of the Athena posters popular in the 80s/90s of topless men looking strong but gentle cradling a baby, or the tennis player scratching her bum.

But it seems a shame to have the photos and both like them, but not put them up at all. Why not suggest they go up in the bedroom itself, since they aren’t really revealing, then the WIC might seem like a good compromise!

NoProblem123 · 17/02/2021 00:44

Definitely not.

However, a kinky black and white Instagram account.....

Nith · 17/02/2021 00:53

As you're worried about others seeing the photos, I assume you've realised that you just can't guarantee that no-one besides you will ever go into your bathroom or wardrobe. Suppose, for instance, that one or both of you were taken ill and a doctor or paramedic visited you in your room and needed to use the bathroom; or children playing hide and seek hid in your wardrobe. Would you be happy with that?

SylviaPlath1984 · 17/02/2021 00:55

No, no to everything.

ResIpsaLoquiturInterAlia · 17/02/2021 00:58

I am going to stick my neck out and say with a very open mind yes why not if it is tasteful and artistic! You only live once and not young forever so knock yourself out as your house your rules and enjoy what you enjoy. You can always use it to capture a private moment in time! Be open minded and celebrate what you like! It's not pornographic or anything in poor taste as more akin to fine art oil paintings and sculptures etc. However you need to think about children and potentially other visitors seeing it if a bit too risqué which it should not be.

combatbarbie · 17/02/2021 01:04

I know the pics you mean and I would display them in your private areas of the house, why wouldn't you? No different to the posed 1980s super soft filter pics I saw of many of my friends mums in their living/dining rooms when I was a kid.

user1473878824 · 17/02/2021 01:04

If he’s just worried about someone seeing them but otherwise would be happy to have them up, it’s your en suite, no one will go in there. If he really doesn’t want them up at all I think that’s your answer I’m afraid. If it was the other way round you’d probably quite upset.

Takebackthepower · 17/02/2021 01:05

Boring lot.. hang them proudly.. live a little

Italiangreyhound · 17/02/2021 01:05

Totally fine to have tasteful shots and to put them in your own bathroom.

Hope your husband changes his mind. But if not, put them in your bedroom.

strudsespark · 17/02/2021 01:06

If your dh is not happy, don't. I it were me i would feel slightly violated being pressured about this.

But, but why don't you put them in your new wardrobe? Surely no nieces and nephews or other guests go there.

On a more humorous note, you could place it inside the loo lid, I would look twice if I opened the loo and saw this and immediately start fearing the hidden sex swing would hit me in the head when placing my butt on the loo Grin.

Sweettea1 · 17/02/2021 01:15

Why not? Its your personal space an only you 2 use it i would.

barnhen · 17/02/2021 01:16

I feel like you're going to have to compromise with a small photo on a bedside table/chest of drawers that can be hurriedly shoved inside a drawer.

Didn't you discuss what you would do with the photos at the time of the shoot though?

SilverBirchWithout · 17/02/2021 01:21

If you’re so proud of walk-in wardrobe and en-suite will you not want to show them off to visitors? With the tacky pics you will not be able to surely?

How big are these pics? You obviously like them and enjoyed doing them but DH didn’t so it’s a dilemma that is hard to find a compromise.

Personally I loathe ‘professional’ large portraits (naked or clothes) so it’s a no from me.

Backtomyself · 17/02/2021 01:23

I genuinely don't know why people have photos of themselves in their houses at all. Staged ones I mean. What's the point? Do people really like looking at themselves this much?

Think I'm on the wrong thread.

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