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Penetration??

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Cheerymom · 04/02/2019 00:00

Right, here goes, do any of you like it? I'm asking as I realise aged 49 I never got anything from penetrative sex. I always liked kissing, etc but feel like I have been acting out when it comes to penetration, feels like being impaled TBH.

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Rhynswynd · 04/02/2019 00:05

If that is how it feels to you is it psychological or physical? Either way you can talk to your gp about it.

Fabaunt · 04/02/2019 00:11

I can’t offer you any advice but yes, I enjoy it.

Bumper1969 · 04/02/2019 00:12

Gosh interesting question OP.

Bumper1969 · 04/02/2019 00:17

I quite like the entrance. Others?

TakemedowntoPotatoCity · 04/02/2019 00:20

Anyone remember penetration man?

ToeToToe · 04/02/2019 00:21

Yes, I like it. To me, it wouldn't feel like proper sex without it.

Travisandthemonkey · 04/02/2019 00:22

Yes it’s nice
Thanks for asking

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Cheerymom · 04/02/2019 00:24

But what is nice about it?

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dinkydolphin · 04/02/2019 00:25

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Travisandthemonkey · 04/02/2019 00:26

It’s an unanswerable question
You either like it or you don’t. And I’ve never had a penetrative orgasm.
Perhaps intimacy is the best answer for me.

Bumper1969 · 04/02/2019 00:28

Hard to say OP. It's just something that happens.

Fabaunt · 04/02/2019 00:37

I like that it’s so intimate. I do have orgasms from penetrative sex, but I enjoy being that close with my partner, I like the soppy stuff like hand holding, eye contact, the look on his face when he is “there” and how he buries his face in my neck for cuddles afterwards. It’s the whole experience

chipsandgin · 04/02/2019 00:39

Weird question. Humans wouldn’t be such a successful species if it wasn’t fun/enjoyable (i.e successful in terms of numbers/procreation, quite aside from the whole fucking up the planet issue..).

Hope that didn’t kill the mood —actually, hope it did, nothing worse than a wanking troll!—

If by chance this is serious then maybe some counselling for you as it’s not a standard opinion, obviously most women don’t feel that way. Also not really very appropriate question to ask on here though, too many lurking perverts sadly!

Lovingbenidorm · 04/02/2019 00:40

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Cheerymom · 04/02/2019 00:46

Why do you all think this a troll? Research my name and history on here. Its not that unusual a question regarding female sexuality, and from my conversations with aw side circle of women a serious question.

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FissionChips · 04/02/2019 00:48

Why haven’t you posted this on the sex forum?

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Cheerymom · 04/02/2019 00:48

And horrible to be written off as a troll, FFs I asked a personal and worrying question, read feminist texts regarding penetration.

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Cheerymom · 04/02/2019 00:48

Ok I didn't know there was a sex forum will do. thanks.

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ToeToToe · 04/02/2019 00:49

OP has a long posting history, several posts about childbirth. I don't think it's a troll.

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Cheerymom · 04/02/2019 00:49

Lovingbenidrom, thanks for nothing, thanks for dismissing a question it took me 20 years to ask.

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FissionChips · 04/02/2019 00:53

Report and get it moved to sex forum, you’ll not seem so much like a pervert there.

FissionChips · 04/02/2019 00:54

Sorry, that sounds wrong reading back, it’s not meant to be.

musicMerchandiseWebsite · 04/02/2019 00:54

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ToeToToe · 04/02/2019 00:57

musicMerchandise - what a load of bollocks about Greer/mumsnetters.

alltoomuchrightnow · 04/02/2019 00:58

Didn't appear to be a perverted question to me!
I had no idea there was a sex forum either

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