Sorry tmi. Is my dh bu to ask me not to orgasm?

[Leaky1]

About six months ago my dh read an article about how female squirting during sex is pee. He was quite upset, and it has caused a lot of drama. We stopped having sex for a while, then tried it again only to have another incident. He has now told me not to finish, so to speak.

I have said either get over it, or don't have sex. Is he being unreasonable?

Yes he is being U. Aswell as uneducated. We don't bloody pee when we orgasm.
Who does he think he is expecting to have an orgasm himself but telling you not to!
I think he has been watching too much porn.

Seriously ?

Oh I'd never have sex with him again.

For a start he's wrong, it isn't pee. He can sniff it/taste it if he needs to check.

Does he really think it's acceptable to tell you not to have any enjoyment while he bangs away? Buy him a sex doll for xmas. Problem solved. Though if I were you I'd be so fucking cross that even if I did have sex again I think I'd be struggling to have an orgasm with him.

He is bvvvu

And this is why we need night time mods.

Leaky1

Reported. Hairy hands at work again.

This is ridiculous.

Must try harder.

Is this real? Why would you ever have sex with him again after this?

Nice story bro.

Yes it involves the s word you used. He is really upset about it.

Sorry it does say it's a tmi question, perhaps scroll on if it bothers you.

Against my better judgement..... He pisses out of his knob. You don't piss out of your vagina. If a bit of wee repulses him so much he's in a precarious situation.

Btw I think squirting comes from the Pouch of Douglas.

It does come from a genuine study to be fair to OP, a quick Google sorted that!
www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/features/the-science-behind-female-ejaculation-9987298.html

Saying that it's no reason for him to ask you not to orgasm because he's suddenly found that out, either both of you do and he gets on with it or neither of you do imo.

IT’S NOT PEE. FOR THE LOVE OF GOD ITS NOT PEE.

Can’t he tell the difference. Pee is heavily odoured, yellow, sticky and leaves stains and odours. Ejaculate doesn’t. That study is rubbish. Misogenistic pseudo-science. He is being vvvvvvvvvvv U. This makes me so angry and sad.

If you’re not allowed to cum, he shouldn’t be either. Sack off the sex all together and watch a box set instead. I really enjoyed Goliath on Amazon Prime if you’re a subscriber.

Change your husband

Thanks, it good to know I'm not being unfair.

What a dickhead. Porn is full of women pissing themselves like racehorses and claiming to be "squirting". I mean buckets of pee - there just isn't a gland or organ big enough to hold all that other than the feckin bladder!

Getting wet, very wet even during orgasm is totally distinct and if he can't tell the difference between the two he he has watched too much porn and needs to study an anatomical textbook.

Get yourself a new educated husband. This one is selfish.

WTF? Like really WTF. Men usually boast they can get women to squirt. Not like you even have any control if your body decides to orgasm. Or squirt. You can tell hubby it's completely ok, the liquid isn't pee. Ok, it can contain trace amounts, but you don't need to tell him that bit!

I'm struggling to believe this is a genuine post.

my face right now

Morning all.
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