Sorry tmi. Is my dh bu to ask me not to orgasm?

[Leaky1]

About six months ago my dh read an article about how female squirting during sex is pee. He was quite upset, and it has caused a lot of drama. We stopped having sex for a while, then tried it again only to have another incident. He has now told me not to finish, so to speak.

I have said either get over it, or don't have sex. Is he being unreasonable?

Squirt isn't pee. Sometimes I pee when I come, sometimes I squirt, sometimes I do neither & so far I haven't done both!

My DP is happy as long as I enjoy myself. He is turned on by my enjoying myself & then has better orgasms himself, which then turn me on even more etc etc...

SimplySteve

This particular partner loved oral genital stimulation:)

Nuff said.

PussGirl right on there:)

Positive feedback in operation!

Why the fuck would you want your partner to not climax while you merrily go about yours

His ejaculate has to travel up his urethra to come out. It brings with it bits of pee still in there. You also get the joy of the stale urine from his head, any old semen and smegma and well sex and body fluids is just gross if you think about it to much

I won't post the link but what is he actually worried about? Lovehoney have protective PVC sheets for the mattress which are well reviewed.

I spent 32 years not orgasming and one of the things that was blocking me was a fear of wetness coming out and being messy or spoiling things. Sex is not always logical. Obviously it's ludicrous to ask you not to orgasm - that's not an option, though it's worrying that it may actually start happening with this. So what other options could sort this out?